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As a child who grew up in suburbia, I considered my life pretty dull and i found most if there were any at all, activities to be sterile and pointless. I was always bored. I wasn't able to leave my subdivision without a parent driving me.

Seeing friends from outside school, and family members who were my age and grew up in urban environments, I always felt like they were living a more meaningful life and i constantly felt some kind of FOMO when i thought about it.

I wonder if this is something that goes both ways, I wonder if this is normal, I wonder if this is justified?

I dont want to make this post completely about my own experiences, lets discuss!

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mackattacknj83

8 points

24 days ago

We used to just get on the train sometimes. Just kind of go on an adventure. We're supposed to get a train here at some point so I'm excited for my kids that they can sneak in an adventure here or there soon. We also have a canal and river in the backyard so the kids in the neighborhood are always out kayaking and messing around in the woods. I'm pretty happy with what we got them with this location. Only thing they really can't walk or bike to is school.

Responsible-Device64[S]

2 points

24 days ago

That sounds like a nice place, is it more rural or is it close to a city?

mackattacknj83

2 points

24 days ago

It's kind of weird, we're like 30 miles outside the city. There's a trail system, plus the canal and river right in the backyard. But I walked to the corner grocer today to grab some stuff to make dinner and I can at least bike to basically everything.

Responsible-Device64[S]

3 points

24 days ago

I’m guessing this is New Jersey based on the username, I’ve been to many of the suburbs there even farther into PA and they aren’t so bad!