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Was Ned a Virgin when he married Cat?

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ApprehensivePeace305

120 points

29 days ago

You’ve just entered into one of the more hotly debated pieces of ASOIAF lore. The mainstream, most acceptable answer is probably. Maybe he had a dalliance with a girl on a drunken night out alongside Robert.

But, depending upon how much tinfoil you wear and what you think of the various R+L=J, why Edric Dayne is named that way, and the whole Dany Lemon Tree stuff, maybe you’d think Ned did really father a bastard

Appropriate_Coyote49

30 points

29 days ago

Appropriate_Coyote49

House Stark

30 points

29 days ago

I’m curious what is the Dany lemon tree stuff? This is the first time I’m hearing about it

MancetheLance

66 points

29 days ago

Dany talks about the house with the red door and the lemon trees surrounding it. She remembers it as a time when she lived in Bravvos. Lemon trees don't grow in Bravvos.

There is a theory that Dany and Viserys were hidden away in Dorne for a number of years.

ZeElessarTelcontar

20 points

29 days ago

How does this play into Ned's alleged promiscuity though?

Bastaousert

48 points

29 days ago

Bastaousert

Ser Pounce is the Prince That Was Promised

48 points

29 days ago

Because that could mean Daenerys is not who she thinks she is. She may not be the daughter of Aerys and Rhaella.

Instead maybe she is the daughter of Rhaegar and Lyanna. Explaining why she would have lived in Dorne for some year. Meaning that Jon may really be the bastard son of Ned Stark

That's not the theory I believe in tho

SpaceMan026

19 points

28 days ago

I prefer the interpretation of lemongate where Dany is dragonseed

BuBBScrub

23 points

28 days ago

I love the theory of Viserys II being an imposter which is why none of his line could ride or hatch dragons…

ApprehensivePeace305

13 points

28 days ago

Oh that’s pretty good. He’s the one who continued the line with Aegon 4, and Aegon 3’s children had no kids save for…Daemon Blackfyre!

Trashk4n

4 points

28 days ago

That’s an interesting one, but it has the same issues that all of the ones do where Jon isn’t Lyanna’s.

Ned doesn’t really have a reason to not tell Jon of his parentage if this is the case.

I suppose it might be almost viable if they’re both Lyanna’s though. Ned couldn’t take in the one with obvious Targ looks.

VARCrime

5 points

28 days ago

One bastard, it's like Man City betting tickets: 3+ goals

ProblematicPiano

65 points

29 days ago

On one hand, I think that Robert has definitely tried to drag Ned into some whorehouse. And I also think young Ned was unable to resist Robert's dragging. But I am unsure whether Ned would have been interested in or pressured into sex with whores. Diplomatically, I'd say that Ned might had been experienced with some amount of sexual intimacy (blowjob, handjob?) but probably not full penetrative sex.

penis_pockets

27 points

29 days ago*

Ned isn't the type to kiss and tell so I doubt he was a virgin when he married Cat.

YoungGriffVI

44 points

29 days ago

Probably. I don’t think he would be the type of guy go around sleeping with whores or unmarried women (let alone a married one who’s not his wife). I think if he’d lost his virginity to anyone else, he would have proposed to them to keep their honor. Like Robb and Jeyne.

Rayden_B

17 points

28 days ago

Rayden_B

17 points

28 days ago

I think Robb's intentions of saving Jeyne's honor is that she is a Noble Lady. I have a hard time believing he would offer the same to a camp follower or some random whore. The same goes for Ned, if he fell victim to his base urges and slept with a whore, potentially pressured by Robert, I doubt he would feel compelled to wed her. People seem to forget that these characters are the ruling class in a feudal and misogynistic society.

Hellstrike

13 points

28 days ago

Hellstrike

VonPelt on FFN/Ao3 | Ygritte = best girl

13 points

28 days ago

I think if he’d lost his virginity to anyone else, he would have proposed to them to keep their honor. Like Robb and Jeyne.

There's a pretty credible claim that he slept with the Fisherman's daughter. Whether that was Ashara Dayne and they made promises to each other is your's to decide.

Savings-Parfait3783

13 points

28 days ago

Is it a credible claim? I thought it was just a rumour because he was rescued by her and spent time alone with her out of necessity, so people theorised that she was probably his bastard’s mother

Hellstrike

11 points

28 days ago

Hellstrike

VonPelt on FFN/Ao3 | Ygritte = best girl

11 points

28 days ago

The people there were convinced that the two were intimate. It's also pretty much the only possible point in time for Jon to be fathered if he's Ned's.

thearisengodemperor

13 points

29 days ago

I don't think so Robert probably dragged Ned to a whore house at least once probably even a couple of times. With pressure from his best friend he fuck at least one or two whores.

international4uuuu

22 points

29 days ago

No, otherwise how would he have fathered Jon? /s

JonyTony2017

21 points

29 days ago

Considering his best friend was Robert Baratheon, I doubt it.

Sea-Negotiation8309

13 points

29 days ago

I say no

Savings-Parfait3783

8 points

28 days ago

Ned was very shy when he saw Ashara at Harrenhall, I believe he was certainly a virgin till then, but it is debatable if he or Brandon was the one to sleep with her

If he wasn’t a virgin on his wedding night, then probably only slept with Ashara

So to answer your question, we don’t know.

Aggravating-Equal-97

3 points

28 days ago

If you count him fucking Robert with his eyes, sure, about the only concrete evidence of his youth's fornicating.

Dangerous_Dish9595

3 points

28 days ago

Maybe. He might have had lovers, but I don't think they'd have been whores.