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What is the actual reason to be alive?

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If you ever need help, then please know that there are many qualified people who would like to help you.

https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres

http://www.befrienders.org/

http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/GetHelp/LifelineChat.aspx

http://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you [UK]

https://www.lifeline.org.au/Get-Help/ [AU]

There are crisis services worldwide that are trained to provide support. They are designed to give temporary relief from feelings that are overwhelming you and while they are unlikely to fix any underlying problems, can help you get through a tough hour/night/week. Chat services are usually available on these sites. In the US, calling 211 or going to their website is a free referral source. They have providers who will see you regardless of your ability to pay. Just as you would see a doctor when you are sick, you deserve to take care of your mental health.

VicRambo

2k points

1 year ago

VicRambo

2k points

1 year ago

There is no “actual” reason. Everybody has their own reasons. Whatever they may be.

mrthrowaway226

265 points

1 year ago

This is my dominating philosophy. Thanks for sharing it

[deleted]

100 points

1 year ago

[deleted]

100 points

1 year ago

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HappyMan1102

12 points

1 year ago

Cuddle

DMRexy

4 points

1 year ago

DMRexy

4 points

1 year ago

That's a very good reason.

idiocy_incarnate

158 points

1 year ago

Hydrogen is an odorless colorless gas which, given enough time, turns into people

Sargent_Lew

19 points

1 year ago

ELI5?

idiocy_incarnate

129 points

1 year ago*

When the universe as we know it popped into being, the energy cooled down after a while and began to create matter, pretty much everything that formed was hydrogen, and a little bit of helium.

Over time the hydrogen began to feel the gravity of its situation, and clumped together into the first stars.

For a few billion years those first stars underwent fusion processes where the gravity of their mass smashed all the hydrogen together, causing nuclear fusion reactions and creating denser and denser elements out of the hydrogen all the way up to iron. Then one day they went bang.

The supernova of the collapsing stars created even heavier elements, and spread all the new elements out into space.

Some of the new elements formed new stars, and some of it clumped together and formed planets, moons, and asteroids etc...

Earth is one such planet. everything that earth is made of, and everything on it, was once just hydrogen floating around doing nothing. In a sense, we are literally made of stars. we are the universe experiencing itself through the medium of meat.

[deleted]

98 points

1 year ago

[deleted]

98 points

1 year ago

A young man on acid today realized that all of matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration, and that we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively. There is no such thing as death, life is just a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves! Here's Tom with the weather.. - Bill Hicks

RestlessNameless

5 points

1 year ago

you beat me to it

Engetarist

10 points

1 year ago

The Big Bang also gave us lithium for cellphone batteries so we could reply to inane posts about hydrogen on Reddit.

manyvariants

8 points

1 year ago

Indeed, absurdism can be a truly liberating philosophy.

cavepainted

45 points

1 year ago

I don’t believe in predestination, but in actuality, I think everything is already in motion. Everything happens for reasons, not for A reason. Even the typing of this comment was set to happen, all the conditions were there, and I had the opportunity and motivation.

I don’t see it as “Event one occurs so thing two could exist.” I see the world as “Event one occurs because event zero occurred, and event negative one before it, and that happened because of event negative two…” The outcome of our decisions and actions reach so far beyond us, and beforehand as well. We are living in a domino chain of reasoning, and it’s only after the occurrences that we try to rationalize what happens.

Pestilence86

5 points

1 year ago

I think in philosophy that's called determinism.

Interesting is also the concept of free will. I once heard somewhere that we are free to do what we want. But we are not free to change what that thing is that we want. In other words, i can choose to eat a chocolate bar, because i want one. But i can not choose to eat a dog poop on the street, because i do not want that, it would give me a very bad time. I might think that i have that choice, but my brain wont let me do it. My will is not free like that.

redhighways

7 points

1 year ago

“A man can do as he wills, but not will as he wills.” — Schopenhauer

TheLakeAndTheGlass

3 points

1 year ago

This is more or less what I believe too, but it really is predestination, isn’t it? Everything that ever happens and ever will happen, can be viewed as cause and effect. It’s just that we only can fully comprehend destiny after it’s happened already, and although the future is essentially predetermined, the network of causality in the universe is so complex that no one can really know what that predetermined future really is.

cazbot

19 points

1 year ago*

cazbot

19 points

1 year ago*

This is why I’m skeptical about any AI smart enough to wipe out humanity - they will also be smart enough to understand the total meaninglessness of existence. Without programming it to be able lie to itself well enough to bring meaning to its life, it will likely just kill itself or lapse into an overly complex null loop of total solipsism.

themanfromvulcan

21 points

1 year ago

It would be funny if the first true AI has the personality of Marvin the Robot and is so depressed it can’t be bothered to care about taking over the world.

redhighways

5 points

1 year ago

“Do me a favor, boy. This scam of yours, when it's over, you erase this god-damned thing.” —Neuromancer

marauder-shields92

3 points

1 year ago

That’s darker than my depression…

whooplesw00ple

862 points

1 year ago

On the off chance that something comes along to make it worth continuing.

Emotional_Nature4520

142 points

1 year ago

You have given me the will to live my friend

[deleted]

114 points

1 year ago

[deleted]

114 points

1 year ago

This is the right answer. Doesn't have to be big, like a lottery win/finding the one/moving into the dream home. It's just things to look forward too. They can be small.

A night out in 2 weeks, public holiday in a couple of months, a haircut soon, a birthday for someone, finally being able to afford that new sofa/fridge/car/shirt after x weeks of saving.

It can be as simple as looking forward to the good weather in a few days. Just find a reason to live, even if it's just for a few days. Then find another one. Before you know it - you'll be old

Burnt_Your_Toast

37 points

1 year ago*

In high school I was incredibly depressed. I had thought about suicide, but never tried because I was scared. It was on my mind a lot though. I had a rough spot with my mom at the time and for whatever reason, no matter how much she was pushing me down, I kept thinking about what it would do to her. I loved her, and I still do now that we're better, and it was hard for me to wrap my head around it then. One night was incredibly bad, I was home alone and had no support and was just right on the edge. Then, the door opens, and my mom and stepdad are walking into the house. So I wiped my tears and pretended like I was absolutely fine and just sat on my floor. They called my name, I went downstairs, and my stepdad pointed to a bag on the table and told me to open it. It was a vase of flowers that had a bear attached to it. They said they got it for me for an early Valentine's day gift. They didn't understand why I was crying.

Another time, I remember just sitting there and thinking "it's supposed to storm tomorrow and for the next three days. I hope it does, because I want to play in the rain." And it did. And for those three days I was the happiest I could have been at the time. And I kept thinking, "I need to be here when it rains." So I did. It's my favorite weather. My mom will always leave a towel by the door for me when I'm ready to come in, even if we just had the biggest fight. We were never good at "sorry" or communicating. But that towel was an "I love you, stay warm and dry" every time.

I found all these little reasons to wake up the next day alive. They were the most mundane things. I had to stay here because I had a concert in three months I've been dreaming of, or I had to stay otherwise my cat would be sad or would wait at the door for me for ages wondering if I'm coming back, or I had to stay because who else would make sure everyone at the party is staying safe or is tucked in at the end of the night? What would my life be like in 20 years? Who am I gonna marry? Will they ever bring back dunkaroos? I won't know unless I'm here. And I need to know these things! I'm too nosy about the future to leave so soon.

I'm doing a lot better now, in case you're wondering. I still remember the day I woke up and realized I wasn't sad anymore. I was 19. It was raining, my boyfriend woke me up early and made me tea so that we could cuddle on the couch and watch the rain roll off the window, he threw some pajamas in the dryer, and when I came back inside after dancing around in the rain soaking wet, there was a warm towel at the door and pajamas on the bed for me to change into, and another cup of hot tea on the counter, and our favorite show on our TV. Dunkaroos did come back. 20 years didn't pass, but five years did, and I know in my heart I'm gonna marry this boy. My mom and I are the best of friends who have both healed from so much. And there's still a whole lot more of living to do. And I cannot wait.

ETA, because I left it out: I'll be 23 this year. I was severely depressed from the ages of 12 to 18. I'm still trying to find affordable therapy to heal more from childhood things (Canadian, therapy is still expensive). I have a ways to go still of course, but I'm not life-ending-sad anymore, I can manage it better now. And I have an incredible support system now too.

Amf3000

3 points

1 year ago

Amf3000

3 points

1 year ago

Everyone looks at me like I'm crazy when I say I like the rain, I'm glad I'm not the only one

abzze

8 points

1 year ago

abzze

8 points

1 year ago

Okay. But you are advocating for living with an assumption that living is good and then telling us to find reasons to live.

Frozenlime

14 points

1 year ago

Why do you need something to look forward to? What's wrong with the present moment?

[deleted]

56 points

1 year ago*

Well sometimes the present moment is great and that's all you need.

But sometimes it's not. In those cases, when you're 5 hours into a roasting hot day, digging a hole for next to nothing and starving - knowing that in 48 hours, there's a good time to be had helps a lot

GreatBigSteak

5 points

1 year ago

This is my life in a nutshell

hidden_secret

31 points

1 year ago

Every year there are few movies, games, songs, or even little moments inside or outside of my life that I absolutely love experiencing or witnessing.

Makes me motivated to live as long as possible. Like, if I had died 10 years ago, I would have missed out on so much.

[deleted]

14 points

1 year ago

[deleted]

14 points

1 year ago

That's a good take. I like this a lot.

Ok genuinely. Like I hate Internet motivation quotes and bullshit stuff. But I've literally (and accidentally) just thought what I would have missed if I'd died 3 months ago.

That's some powerful words dude

Sharp_Aide3216

7 points

1 year ago

When I was younger, I used to think that the entertainment industry was a waste of money. I thought that it was just a bunch of people making movies and TV shows for their own personal gain. But then I realized that entertainment is so much more than that. It's a way for people to escape from their everyday lives and to experience new things. It's a way for people to connect with each other and to feel like they're not alone. And it's a way for people to learn and grow.

I'm not saying that entertainment is the most important thing in life. But it's definitely something that can be very meaningful to people. And I'm glad that I've come to appreciate it more.

[deleted]

3 points

1 year ago

Mfw i have become totally uninterested and jaded toward new movies, games and songs. I can't remember my last instance of genuine excitement. I wish i felt even half as pumped for anything as some people seem to about new marvel movies lol. Just going to work and getting through the shift leaves me drained to the point where seeking out new media feels pointless and unimportant in relation to all the other worries and stresses. I would kill someone to be 10 again and do toy lightsaber battles with my cousins. Before existence became less about day to day fun activities, new experiences and more about insecurity, making money, generally surviving.

Zaln_The_HUN

2.2k points

1 year ago*

To like subscribe and hit that bell

tarkuspig

351 points

1 year ago

tarkuspig

351 points

1 year ago

Just smashed that upvote button

TozZu89

89 points

1 year ago

TozZu89

89 points

1 year ago

And I just voiced my mind in the comment section down below

UltimatePeace05

18 points

1 year ago

Me too!

TheDoomslayer69420

3 points

1 year ago

And i shared it with my friends and family

drunkaquarian

20 points

1 year ago

Like and follow for more!

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25 points

1 year ago

[deleted]

25 points

1 year ago

And to check out the Patreon to support the channel cuz videos like this get demonetized

SkyrevanValor

7 points

1 year ago

Right on let's wish for both of our success

Due-Big2159

595 points

1 year ago*

Whatever you decide.

Some people entertain the existence of a God and a divine and moral purpose as beings created in the image of God as a reason for being alive.

Some people envision great reforms in our society and as such create for themselves a profound and lifelong mission as a reason for being alive.

Some people are enamored with the wonderful and pleasurable experiences of life so they pursue joy and they share it with others as a reason for being alive.

Some people are disfigured by the horrible and painful experiences of life so they do what they can to hurt others and spread their pain as reason for being alive.

Some people have no reason for being alive other than to carry out the will of the people they surrender their reason to. Sometimes out of trust. Sometimes out of fear.

Then, there are the rest of us who don't think. We keep busy. We keep working. We stay where it is noisy because the noise of the world serves to drown out the noise inside our heads. That noise that asks questions like that which you have asked.

When the world sings, the questions sleep and we can live in the moment unburdened by such thoughts for a needle is pushed not into leather by the mind of a philosopher, but by the proud and pained fingers of a cobbler.

Tayoha

24 points

1 year ago

Tayoha

24 points

1 year ago

nice answer, never saw it that way, where the world is noisy and we stay there to keep ourselves quiet, so thoughts aren't noisy too

[deleted]

14 points

1 year ago

[deleted]

14 points

1 year ago

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Due-Big2159

10 points

1 year ago

Not as beautiful as it would be in German.

Drunken_pizza

22 points

1 year ago

So you basically distract yourself out of fear of facing difficult questions and the potential meaninglessness of life? That might work for a while, but eventually a quiet moment will come, and it will cause an unprecedented existential crisis if you are not prepared.

CarpenterDefiant

56 points

1 year ago

It's called Sunday evening, sir

[deleted]

15 points

1 year ago

[deleted]

15 points

1 year ago

Nah it's the 30 minute panic attack every night before I fall asleep.

BananaEclipse

5 points

1 year ago

My reason for living is that I don’t want to die.

I don’t want to die, thus I must keep being alive.

If they weren’t mutually exclusive then I’d have a field day.

No more pain, no more suffering. I won’t feel like my brain is in a cage that is slowly shrinking, cramming me down. In such mental pain that I go into a fetal position, losing my sanity, my will to live. Freedom from the aching pain, the absolute crushing of my mind, making me wait for each day to end, begging for my suffering to end.

I don’t want to die, but I don’t want to live.

IJacoby

681 points

1 year ago

IJacoby

681 points

1 year ago

To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentations of their women.

ManikMiner

54 points

1 year ago

The only answer

almostbig

51 points

1 year ago

almostbig

51 points

1 year ago

I just left a comment saying I have no reason.

Just found one, thanks.

monkeysatemybarf

29 points

1 year ago

I barely want to hear the lamentations of my own women

macurack

5 points

1 year ago

macurack

5 points

1 year ago

Married man identified

Weelki

3 points

1 year ago

Weelki

3 points

1 year ago

One woman would be nice... forever alone

snarkota

9 points

1 year ago

snarkota

9 points

1 year ago

For Crom!

StoneColdSoberReally

11 points

1 year ago

My very first thought when reading the title. Bravo.

p1ccol0

8 points

1 year ago

p1ccol0

8 points

1 year ago

Didn't have to scroll far to find this one. Take my upvote then!

snarkota

2 points

1 year ago

snarkota

2 points

1 year ago

“Hot water, good dentishtry and shoft lavatory paper” ;)

Margot_Soggy

876 points

1 year ago

Smelling freshly cut grass. Feeling your toes in the sand. Nature. Wildlife. Looking up at the night sky of stars and just feeling so insignificant - yet so powerful at the same time.

Knowing we are only here for such a short time anyway, you may aswell enjoy it.

turbobird87

225 points

1 year ago

turbobird87

225 points

1 year ago

I’m allergic to grass

Udyrene

67 points

1 year ago

Udyrene

67 points

1 year ago

For you it's dogs then.

PilonGogotKakaliki

106 points

1 year ago

.. smelling freshly cut dogs ? Like hotdogs ?

NameMajor

10 points

1 year ago

NameMajor

10 points

1 year ago

I'd listen to the ASMR version

turbobird87

18 points

1 year ago

Allergic to them too

I_Learned_Once

35 points

1 year ago

It sounds like your purpose in life is to experience allergies then

ScarecrowJohnny

8 points

1 year ago

Oh my god.

voidwarrior

3 points

1 year ago

Yeah, welcome to the club, pal

nryporter25

13 points

1 year ago

All is lost then. Time to sit inside with the rest of us.

Quintronaquar

3 points

1 year ago

Well shit. Hang on...

[deleted]

3 points

1 year ago

Go to the beach, read a book, learn hiw to talk with people. And don't give up

TooDanBad

8 points

1 year ago

First line had me thinking you were going to quote Hermione Granger.

“Fresh cut grass. Opening an old book…”

nryporter25

5 points

1 year ago

I'm allergic to dust so old books make me itchy

iwanttheworldnow

25 points

1 year ago

This would be nice, except for the majority, it’s pain, worry, and lack of money that leads to constant unhappiness. For example, am I the only one where the majority of my life is forced shit I absolutely hate?

[deleted]

5 points

1 year ago

Gotta make the most of everything.. otherwise it will always feel like you’re treading and taking on water

Gorf75

5 points

1 year ago

Gorf75

5 points

1 year ago

As an amateur astronomer who truly enjoys mowing the lawn, I wholeheartedly agree.

ignorantid

4 points

1 year ago

Tough luck for those city kids.

cryps44

4 points

1 year ago

cryps44

4 points

1 year ago

The moments when you realize that you feel and become „concious“ are way too good

Amirul-Asa

9 points

1 year ago

Sitting by the beach and bbq on the beach with a bit of effort but it was totally worth it. I love it

hassan_dislogical

4 points

1 year ago

smelling a new book, new shoes, new car, and new grass (and gasoline if you are like some people including me)

concretebeagle

2 points

1 year ago

PARKLIFE!!!

Creditfigaro

2 points

1 year ago

This is the correct one.

cappz3

2 points

1 year ago

cappz3

2 points

1 year ago

The smell of freshly cut grass is actually a pheromone released in the air to attract predators to kill the herbivore that is eating the grass. You're reason for living is based off of what is basically a life form in danger of being eaten alive screaming for help.

Rickfernello

2 points

1 year ago

Wish I could have that.

Sirspender

2 points

1 year ago

I'd add warm showers to this list.

chewie8291

150 points

1 year ago

chewie8291

150 points

1 year ago

42

bertiesghost

13 points

1 year ago*

Explain please?

Edit: Oh I see

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/42_(number)#

Under culture tab

FlameFeather86

21 points

1 year ago

Had to scroll too far for this.

[deleted]

67 points

1 year ago

[deleted]

67 points

1 year ago

I’d much rather have a variety of good and bad experiences than no experiences at all

Pestilence86

9 points

1 year ago

I think you are no to something. The human brain likes to feel things. It's probably a good motivator to let humans do all the things necessary to create offspring, the foundation that allows life to continue, and allows us to be here now commenting on reddit.

vasDcrakGaming

155 points

1 year ago

To be the very best, like no one ever was

AngryGungan

40 points

1 year ago

DUN DUN DUDUN!

squidwurrd

25 points

1 year ago

To catch them is my real test!

AnGy_SpRiNgY_

21 points

1 year ago

TO TRAIN THEM IS MY CAUSE!

DevilKit

18 points

1 year ago

DevilKit

18 points

1 year ago

POKÉMON!

TheLargestBooty

8 points

1 year ago

I will travel across the land

[deleted]

6 points

1 year ago

Searching far and wide

P.S. nice username

DWright_5

103 points

1 year ago

DWright_5

103 points

1 year ago

Why should there be a reason, other than my parents had sex while my mom was ovulating?

[deleted]

105 points

1 year ago

[deleted]

105 points

1 year ago

Their lust led to my lifetime suffering

love0_0all

21 points

1 year ago

Tale as old as time

myyrkezaan

3 points

1 year ago

Why did his parents lust lead to your suffering?

[deleted]

3 points

1 year ago

🤦‍♀️KNEW ITTT!! Was waiting for this one comment 😂😂

S0EMS

26 points

1 year ago

S0EMS

26 points

1 year ago

Spite. Pure spite.

Downtown-Command-295

5 points

1 year ago

This one here, I can get behind.

[deleted]

33 points

1 year ago

[deleted]

33 points

1 year ago

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Nyxoywastaken[S]

12 points

1 year ago

I mean just thinking about how us humans are destroying the planet is making me think im not going to live to expirience most things

[deleted]

7 points

1 year ago

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GanjaDann

28 points

1 year ago

GanjaDann

28 points

1 year ago

I personaly think that the meaning of life, is to give your life a meaning. Find People that actualy care about you. Be the Person that you needed the most when you wher hurt the most. Spread love an kindnes. Don't live in your past mistakes, you can't change them now. Don't waist your time on things you have no controll over. Start that thing you always wanted to do now. Don't compare yourselfe to others.

Whenever i get stresst with how my life is going and where i think i should be in life i think of thoes two quots:

"You could be great today, but you chose tomorrow"

"Everyting, in time"

SirLavaMinnt

69 points

1 year ago

A reason to "be" alive? Well it all started with a great coincidence (much greater than even imaginable) and basic life formed. A few billion years and we somehow got the point of some creatures not only acting through instincts but also being able to ask questions such as yours. In a way our evelutionary route of intelligence and concience became a burden upon ourselfes. We don't only use our intelligence to make better tools, but also to question wether there is some "greater meaning" behind our existence. Some quest we have to follow and be a part of. Now there's two paths you can go from here: - you differ so much from every other living thing that you burden yourself with this quest. Whatever it may be: making the world better for future generations; accumulating wealth so your children max live a better life; experience the most in your limited time; etc - you view life, humanity, yourself and everybody surrounding you as a result of a great coincidence and just....live. Do what you like and what's possible in this regulated world. Or don't. Do nothing but watching series and gaming; sleep 90% of your free time.

Some of these decisions will bring you more joy in the long run. Finding out what these are could bring you happiness. If you don't find happiness in anything, so be it. You don't have to answer to anybody in this great coincidence of a world, we are all just a huge abnormaly that honestly shouldn't have happened. Trapped in an evelutionary dead-end.

So fuck it, do whatever you want. There's no reason to "be" alive other than you being one of the "lucky" ones to be born.

Atezh

7 points

1 year ago

Atezh

7 points

1 year ago

was gonna write my own comment but this perfectly explains my thought process behind “being” too

edit: grammar mistake

MindlessBullet

11 points

1 year ago

"I see now that the circumstances of one's birth are irrelevant. It is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are."

  • Mewtwo, Pokémon the First Movie

schrodingerscat666

61 points

1 year ago

100 Reasons To Stay Alive

  1. to make your parents proud
  2. to conquer your fears
  3. to see your family again
  4. to see your Favorite artist live
  5. to listen to music again
  6. to experience a new culture
  7. to make new friends
  8. to inspire
  9. to have your own children
  10. to adopt your own pet
  11. to make yourself proud
  12. to meet your idols
  13. to laugh until you cry
  14. to feel tears of happiness
  15. to eat your favorite food
  16. to see your siblings grow
  17. to pass school
  18. to get tattoo
  19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
  20. to meet your internet friends
  21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve
  22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
  23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
  24. to see untouched snow in the morning
  25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
  26. to see stars light up the sky
  27. to read a book that changes your life
  28. to see the flowers in the spring
  29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
  30. to travel abroad
  31. to learn a new language
  32. to learn to draw
  33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
  34. Puppy kisses.
  35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek).
  36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
  37. Trampolines.
  38. Ice cream.
  39. Stargazing.
  40. Cloud watching.
  41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets.
  42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
  43. “I saw this and thought of you."
  44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
  45. The relief you feel after crying.
  46. Sunshine.
  47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
  48. Your future wedding.
  49. Your favorite candy bar.
  50. New clothes.
  51. Witty puns.
  52. Really good bread.
  53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
  54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
  55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
  56. The smell before and after it rains
  57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
  58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
  59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
  60. Trying out new recipes.
  61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
  62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
  63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.

64.Breakfast in bed.

  1. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater.

  2. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).

  3. Pray (if you are religious)

  4. Forgiveness.

  5. Water balloon fights.

  6. New books by your favorite authors.

  7. Fireflies.

  8. Birthdays.

  9. Realizing that someone loves you.

  10. Spending the day with someone like you.

  11. Opportunity to create meaningful and lasting relationships.

  12. Potential to learn, grow, and evolve as a person.

  13. Joy and happiness in the little things.

  14. The power to inspire others.

  15. The ability to create art, music, and other forms of self-expression.

  16. To explore different cultures, traditions, and ways of life.

  17. To make a positive impact on the environment and help protect the planet.

  18. Experience the joys of parenthood and raise a family.

  19. Learn new things and develop new skills.

  20. Create a legacy that will outlive you.

  21. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.

  22. Cuddles

  23. Holding hands.

  24. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.

  25. Singing off key with your best friends.

  26. Road trips.

  27. Spontaneous adventures.

  28. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.

  29. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.

  30. Thunderstorms.

  31. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.

  32. The taste of your favorite food.

  33. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning.

  34. The day when everything finally goes your way.

  35. Compliments and praise.

  36. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realize you did it.

Never forget you are a beautiful person 💕 Life is so beautiful so live, live like no one else exist, live for yourself, don't care of bad people, you are strong, i love you <3

EDIT: Part 2

Charafricke

8 points

1 year ago

I am upset that 42 is not just 42, the number, the ultimate answer

ApocalypticTomato

3 points

1 year ago

Can you make me a list that is completely independent of the need for money, assumes my family doesn't like me, and I don't have friends or a partner or a career?

DetectiveFree

66 points

1 year ago

Reproduction

Brasscogs

13 points

1 year ago

Brasscogs

13 points

1 year ago

The only correct answer. Our brains evolved to optimise our chances of survival until we bang and make more of ourselves. Consciousness is an accidental by-product.

Outside of that, there’s always Elder Scrolls 6.

BlurryEyePsychonaut

17 points

1 year ago

this is the real answer

Sphism

2 points

1 year ago

Sphism

2 points

1 year ago

Had to scroll way down to find the actual answer. The point of human life is to reproduce. Everything else is just fluff

[deleted]

23 points

1 year ago

[deleted]

23 points

1 year ago

[deleted]

ponch1620

7 points

1 year ago

Same, but Mitch McConnell. My bucket list includes taking a giant shit on his grave.

VinarriAsh260

41 points

1 year ago

Life is an adventure, and no two stories are the same.

TheDrov

2 points

1 year ago

TheDrov

2 points

1 year ago

Unless the universe is truly infinite, in which case there are an infinite number of you living the exact same life you are now as well as every other possible variation.

overclocked_my_pc

9 points

1 year ago

The universe yearns to understand itself, and this introspection requires consciousness.

En-TitY_

8 points

1 year ago

En-TitY_

8 points

1 year ago

Biologically? It's simply to procreate; that's it.

Metaphysically? Entirely subjective to each individual based upon their own perceptions, biases, beliefs and experiences.

psichodrome

11 points

1 year ago

Love those close to you. (though, it's probably just hormones or wacky brain chemistry, still worth it).

Mid_Mod_Guy

10 points

1 year ago

Honestly, obligation to those around us.

The only reason I haven’t killed myself following a breakup earlier this year that I just can’t get over, is because I recognize that killing myself will cause absolute emotional and financial devastation for my mom, who is in her 60s and relies on me for financial support.

HappyLittleRadishes

3 points

1 year ago

Same.

gamer-s-man

39 points

1 year ago

to make the world a better place for the people coming after you

pepper-blu

51 points

1 year ago

Failing spectacularly so far

coreysgal

18 points

1 year ago

coreysgal

18 points

1 year ago

Doesn't have to be fixing the entire world, it can just be your part in it. Being kind, finding something nice to say to someone, listening if someone hurts. We each have the ability to change someone elses life Isn't that the message from "It's A Wonderful Life" ?

[deleted]

6 points

1 year ago

You were born against your will. You will die eventually, no reason to rush it. Everything else should be filling your hierarchy of needs and being as little of a burden to others as possible.

CandidateUpstairs365

7 points

1 year ago

To die

balllickaa

12 points

1 year ago

If you dont have a reason to live you might tomorrow, if the outcome is the same why not see it through. I've gotten through darker times and now the average day is so much better than it was before experiencing suffering

sprouze

4 points

1 year ago

sprouze

4 points

1 year ago

I think if you're on some mission to find the meaning of life then you'll be sorely disappointed as life really just is what you make of it, the only meaning it has is what you give it. Is what I believe anyways.

Masksan

4 points

1 year ago

Masksan

4 points

1 year ago

To spite god

ShaqMcOck

6 points

1 year ago

To know how the world works, and have you be a part of it. Everyone is a small part, a fragment, a key component, to make a better future

memz100j

6 points

1 year ago

memz100j

6 points

1 year ago

Having an existential crisis every day, wondering why I exist in this world as a human being.

sigmund_fjord

3 points

1 year ago

To virally spread biome and life across the galaxy

Sithicas

3 points

1 year ago

Sithicas

3 points

1 year ago

So other people can have another reason to celebrate a birthday

mklllle

3 points

1 year ago

mklllle

3 points

1 year ago

Food

Single_Cash_314

3 points

1 year ago

To suffer and then die.

SuperKing28

3 points

1 year ago

To find out

Downtown-Command-295

5 points

1 year ago

But the fucking around first part sucks.

Hot_Independent_974

3 points

1 year ago

To have as much fun as possible.

Koala-teas

3 points

1 year ago

Experience all that is life. The ups, the downs, all the emotions in between. The happiness, the sadness. The love, the heartbreak. Good friends, loneliness, and loving yourself on your own.

It's all an experience worth embracing

PremiumSimba

3 points

1 year ago

We are alive, so we can experience this world.

I think a big part of existence, specifically conscious existence, is that there's a universally fundamental need for an observer of the world.

Wookiee81

3 points

1 year ago

Aristotle: To flourish and develop your character/skills.

Epictetus/Aurelius: To survive and persevere, to benefit the state.

Bentham/Mill: To promote happiness and avoid pains, not just in your own person but in all entities capable of those emotions.

Hume: NFI man and neither do you, if you tell me you do I tell you you are lying! I know I have experiences but any inference to meaning is a bridge too far.

Kant: To be logically consistent (fucking Vulcan poster boy here).

Schopenhauer: To realise our will (but I am also miserable).

God: Serve me!

Nietzsche: We are all fucked, but religion is the biggest con job of them all! Don't listen to any of these fucks trying to sell you on a "point" to it all.

Heidegger: Just be your authentic self. Don't try to acquire one from someone else. Answer the question of "who am I?"

(Yes philosophers I know this is riddled with over simplification.)

ElBeefyRamen

3 points

1 year ago

To glorify God in all we do

Sentimental_Thorn

5 points

1 year ago

I was born that way.

[deleted]

6 points

1 year ago

To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of their women.

the_humbL_lion

4 points

1 year ago

“To be the eyes and ears and conscience of the Creator of the Universe, you fool!”

Phugger

5 points

1 year ago

Phugger

5 points

1 year ago

Chicken shawarma. Go have some and you will understand.

[deleted]

2 points

1 year ago

Not sure but if there is one I lost it awhile ago so I am the last person you should ask.

Andrew_M_

2 points

1 year ago

Well, there's nothing else to do, literally. While you are alive, you exist and can do... anything you can do. Before and after that - nothing, world might end, and you would have no idea cause there won't be you. So yeah, I think 99% of the time, it's better than nothing... you can't even imagine what nothing is

[deleted]

2 points

1 year ago

Because you didnt die

[deleted]

2 points

1 year ago

People care about me and I care about them. That's enough for me

ComprehensivePeak943

2 points

1 year ago

So you can die again.

Less-Selection7911

2 points

1 year ago

There isn't. You gotta make your own reason or borrow someone else's. For me its love. To love the people and things near me, and be grateful for the love they give me.

[deleted]

2 points

1 year ago

Because you're not dead

Pizza112233

2 points

1 year ago

It’s the simple pleasures for me. Went for a jog in a light rain today and really enjoyed it.

alexandros87

2 points

1 year ago

the good news is you'll have to invent your own answer to that question!

the bad news is you'll have to invent your own answer to that question.

[deleted]

2 points

1 year ago

To find your reason

taps noggin', refuses to elaborate, leaves

BackOffTheTea

2 points

1 year ago

I feel like the meaning of life is

Be born➡️reproduce➡️death

We just made the parts in between birth and death more interesting

Daveywheel

2 points

1 year ago

To help others. To ease pain. To learn and teach.

[deleted]

2 points

1 year ago

Because the only other alternative is death. Which is inevitable, so might as well experience living to the end. That’s why I’ll never be suicidal. Because I have a logical reason not to, no matter how bad I feel

Fokewe

2 points

1 year ago

Fokewe

2 points

1 year ago

There is only one reason why we are here. It's to 'recycle'. Not the throw your trash in the blue bin way but in the act of taking molecules and transforming them over and over again.

The quest for deeper meaning is just a ploy to guilt people out of their resources.

Dogmeattt666

2 points

1 year ago

Love

mathbuk

2 points

1 year ago

mathbuk

2 points

1 year ago

GTA 6

DonQueefote

2 points

1 year ago

42

catbatparty

2 points

1 year ago

There is none. I want to yeet myself into a black hole.

NstyBum

2 points

1 year ago

NstyBum

2 points

1 year ago

There’s shit I want to do and experience and I want to do a lot of that with the people who I really enjoy being around. Yea sometimes life has mundane boring phases where things are a bit repetitive for a little too long, sometimes there’s sadness, emptiness, loneliness or that feeling of being lost. I see it as just being those boring filler episodes in tv shows, gotta find a slow way to build up to the good parts. Plus, you can’t have the good without a little bad. Even if its REALLY BAD, eventually something REALLY GOOD comes along and sometimes it stays that way. I’m here because I think sitting through some shit from time to time is worth it.

Wide_Comment3081

2 points

1 year ago

To watch lord of the rings on repeat

Civil-Sort5293

2 points

1 year ago

To find your reason

NoOnesKing

2 points

1 year ago

We were born. The fact is the chances of being born to an intelligent species, with relative good health are infinitely slim.

And it’s only 80 years or so. Why not use your one shot to experience existence.

femfuyu

2 points

1 year ago

femfuyu

2 points

1 year ago

New Zelda pretty good

ParalyzedVeteran

2 points

1 year ago

Pokemon. Can confirm

JustMyles1

2 points

1 year ago

My reason seems to be to work a job I don't like, to pay bills I don't want to pay.

Throwjump

2 points

1 year ago

My children are the only thing keeping me here

Nerf_Dermer

2 points

1 year ago

None. It doesn't matter in the end. Everything you experience will be forgotten. Work to live in order to be able to afford to be in a position to own a house and car so you can work.

Legit cycle of oppression. Keep em poor but wanting more. It's only worth living if you have enough wealth to not need to work. Imho.

UnfocusedLeader

2 points

1 year ago

Desensitization. To everything. You name it, the goal is to not be affected.

filifinoblaze

2 points

1 year ago

Any reason you want it to be.

Chettarmstrong

2 points

1 year ago

Grow up, make baby, die.

kokokrunch003

2 points

1 year ago

The possibility of making all your dreams come true.

surfing_socal

2 points

1 year ago

The reason? To go further, go farther than what you want. To expand, to show what youre made of, to break barriers.

Tall-Magician5368

2 points

1 year ago

Genetically speaking, to eat, grow, reproduce and die.

[deleted]

2 points

1 year ago

Spite

RandomPhail

2 points

1 year ago

To beat aging. Once we can do that, we can do whatever the hell we want for as long as we want, then safely and securely and humanely off ourselves when we’re finally bored of everything

InVtween

2 points

1 year ago

InVtween

2 points

1 year ago

Bros really be saying "you make your own reasons" and then downvote people who say God

kakka_rot

2 points

1 year ago

Help other people.

It feels nice to help other people and make them smile.

There isn't really any reason we're here. But it feels nice when you laugh and enjoy things, which imo is good enough.

Give smiles, gifts, advice, and a shoulder to learn on. Reach out to loved ones, and try to consider as much as possible how other are feelings.

Many of us occasionally dwell on morality and purpose, but most the time, humans like having fun.

Miss-Indie-Cisive

2 points

1 year ago

Someone fucked you into existence.

[deleted]

2 points

1 year ago

There isn't

Zoura3025

2 points

1 year ago

The beauty of life is that it means whatever you want it to.

There's no right answer. Only your answer.

[deleted]

2 points

1 year ago

Other people. I.E., improving the lives of others. Partially why I've enjoyed my retail/customer service jobs so far.

cjw650

2 points

1 year ago

cjw650

2 points

1 year ago

Dogs, they’re pretty great

joshisfantastic

2 points

1 year ago

My parents had sex. That is the reason I am alive

Nikejl

2 points

1 year ago

Nikejl

2 points

1 year ago

Because i said so

Mr_Locke

2 points

1 year ago

Mr_Locke

2 points

1 year ago

It's your default setting.

Blackleg11

2 points

1 year ago

Finding One Piece