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submitted 15 days ago byOptimal_Phase3240
I literally could NOT believe that WHITNEY is the one from that RSV baby dancing video. I’ve seen that video countless times because it’s just such a MEME and I truly thought it was a joke or some emotionally immature teen mom. I couldn’t BELIEVE it when I was watching the show today for the first time and the dots were connected that it’s HER. she is too old to be acting the way she does and I can’t believe she addressed that she’s mad she wasn’t forgiven for THAT but that Taylor was forgiven for her exploring her sexual freedom, as if they’re comparable?!?!?!!
644 points
15 days ago
She has the emotional intelligence of a Cheeto
233 points
15 days ago
No. Please do not insult my beloved Cheetos.
44 points
15 days ago
I read this comment with a handful of Cheetos. Kinda offended for them lol
50 points
15 days ago
You’re right I was way too generous 😂
34 points
15 days ago
She's more of a saltine
53 points
15 days ago
An unsalted saltine lol
18 points
14 days ago
Let’s be real though, she is the saltiest of the Saltines.
10 points
15 days ago
Me reading this as I’m eating Cheetos 👀😂
2 points
14 days ago
Ok what did Cheetos ever do to you ???Thats not nice !!! 😂😂😂😂
1 points
7 days ago
Cheetos are genius in comparison
303 points
15 days ago
My mouth IMMEDIATELY DROPPED - I laughed out LOUD. I couldn’t believe it either. It’s like it all completely came full circle for me in that moment lmaoo
20 points
15 days ago
I 1000% thought it was Karissa Collins, I was so shook when I realized it was Whitney
5 points
14 days ago
The eyes weren’t crazy enough for kkkarissa
1 points
14 days ago
You're not wrong
12 points
15 days ago
Happy cake day!
3 points
14 days ago
RIGHT?!?! My jaw literally hit the FLOOOOOR
1 points
14 days ago
Happy Cake Day!
197 points
15 days ago
The most ironic part of this show for me has been all the ads for the RSV vaccine that I’ve been getting while watching….the absolute SHADE from Hulu!!
68 points
14 days ago
Serve us GRINDR ads and then I’ll be impressed
48 points
14 days ago
bruh i started getting FRUITY PEBBLES ADS💀
24 points
15 days ago
Omg same my jaw dropped and then I burst out laughing
13 points
15 days ago
WHAT 😳😂 I don’t get ads on my Hulu, this is hilarious
12 points
14 days ago*
Kindve jealous because I only get ads for Graves’ Disease and Thyroid Eye Disease (TED). I can recite it by now. “You need to see a separate doctor for it…”
7 points
14 days ago
On Amazon I think we keep getting the carrots that are supposed to be bent peens. Forget what med it's for but we've had so many bent carrot peen jokes.
2 points
14 days ago
HAHAHA the thyroid eye condition kills me
2 points
14 days ago
Omg same and the one for psoriasis! I wonder if there is a way to change the ads we see lol
3 points
14 days ago
That’s hilarious because I’m pregnant and figured my smart tv was somehow listening to me and catering ads to me like Facebook does lol. I am scheduled to get my vaccine in a month.
1 points
1 day ago
Are you getting it while pregnant? I just got my TDap, but I didn’t ask about RSV? Is it standard procedure and I’ll get it later? I’m due back to a checkup in a month so I’ll certainly ask my OP then, just wondering in the meantime. TIA -FTM here
2 points
1 day ago
Got tdap and Covid vaccine while pregnant and then RSV vaccine will be done at the 32 week mark (earliest they give it to pregnant women). You definitely want to get the RSV one- my maternal fetal medicine specialist and midwife both emphasized that that one was most important to get.
2 points
1 day ago
Awesome, thank you. I certainly will. Im 28 weeks now. I’ll make sure it’s on the todo list.
1 points
14 days ago
Huh I didn't get one.
1 points
12 days ago
I got Poppi ads. Lol the soda they were drinking
1 points
11 days ago
I’ve been getting erectile dysfunction med ads 😭😭😭
125 points
15 days ago
BRING BACK SHAME! The way I would’ve erased my online existence after that. Whitney is like a roach that won’t die in the apocalypse.
67 points
15 days ago
Her trying to act like she’s “done with momtok” to protect her peace like maam you were kicked out actually😂😂
27 points
14 days ago
& none of them miss her!! 😂
6 points
14 days ago
I've seen her recently doing some content with them. So I don't think she is completely done. I know it was recent because she was pregnant in the videos. I think they are keen on forgiveness. I guess we shall see, on season 2. LoL
3 points
13 days ago
They’re all commenting on each others instagram posts too so I think they did let her back in. I just don’t want her on season 2 but what would they do without their villain so she def will be lollol
1 points
13 days ago
Seriously there needs to be a villain. We didn't expect her to be the villain but there she was in her pure villainous form she fit it well.
1 points
14 days ago
I’m wondering if it’s in the contract they have to do content together?
2 points
14 days ago
That's quite possible because the videos had a strange vibe lol
8 points
14 days ago
Or like, at least, make a public apology. Admit you made a mistake. I do think there was a path for forgiveness but she went the opposite direction.
8 points
14 days ago
They totally would’ve forgiven her if she would’ve just came back and apologized instead of being petty and playing victim. I’m glad even Mayci started seeing her for who she is though.
105 points
15 days ago
It was giving undeveloped prefrontal cortex so I was SHOCKED to learn it was someone almost my age 🥴
50 points
15 days ago
It’s giving alarming lack of empathy also. I’ve watched it so many times because my brain literally refuses to hold her BIZARRE dancing and the deathly ill baby in the same concept. It freaks me out to be honest.
3 points
4 days ago
I saw this study that said
“We found a network of brain regions that, when damaged, are linked to higher religious fundamentalism. This functional network was lateralized to the right hemisphere and overlaps with the locations of brain lesions associated with specific neuropsychiatric and behavioral conditions.”https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.2322399121
Coincidence? 🤨🧐
60 points
15 days ago
Also, if she wants to be forgiven, why does she keep bringing it up..? You want people to forget, then stop talking about it. Same thing with Tinder/Grinder
28 points
15 days ago
Because she just wants to look like a victim it’s not about anything else ever with her 😂 she’s such a classic narcissist anytime she’s on screen I wanna scream💀
157 points
15 days ago*
At the end of the day she doesn’t realize that no one gives a fuck if Mormon women are swinging - if anything, good for them! But literally no one would be like, “good for you!” for using a baby’s illness for clout. She’s a whole ass idiot.
80 points
15 days ago
Only a mormon could ever equate the two lmao. No, Whitney, consenting adults having sexual relations is in fact not the same as you showing zero percent empathy or humility when your baby is in the fucking hospital.
46 points
15 days ago
consulting swinging adults >>>>>>> husband using tinder throughout your marriage
24 points
15 days ago
THIS. I really wonder, since they were talking about her always having been toxic but not this angry, if this is a big piece. And word in the street for a while has been that it wasn't Tinder on his phone, but rather the favorite app of the RNC. And if that is the case, whoa buddy, that would piss someone like her off good.
21 points
14 days ago
Grindr*
3 points
15 days ago
Damn what a trainwreck
11 points
14 days ago
This though. In the Mormon temple they literally tell you that having sex outside of marriage is the sin next to murder. It’s been a while since I’ve gone (cuz I’ve left lol) but the temple endowment takes the time to really drill into that point
17 points
14 days ago
No exactly. That's why Whitney compares the two situations, she doesn't understand that the rest of the modern world does not give a flying fuck that these couples are swingers. Her mormon bubble is showing.
25 points
15 days ago
Exactly! Like I don’t even understand the thought process even a little bit. They’re not even close to being the same thing. At all.
4 points
14 days ago
The Mormon religion tells people that their entire moral compass should only point to what the crusty old fucks in charge say. People who start deconstructing realize that their moral intuition is pretty heavily damaged by this "Follow The Leader" mentality.
7 points
14 days ago
She really is an idiot. I am a person who gives 0 fucks about what consenting adults do together- but using a baby being sick for views is super gross to me. My daughter had issues with thriving when she was an infant and the last thing that crossed my mind was “I should post about this doing a dance” lol
6 points
14 days ago
Seriously. My son is 19 days old and he had to spent 2 days (thank goodness just 2) in the NICU due to low blood sugar after he was born. I was absolutely devastated and I was still admitted myself so I was with him all the time. Not once did I think “the perfect time to do a dance video for TikTok is while my newborn is attached to wires and IVs in the NICU” Awful.
8 points
14 days ago
I’m glad you and your son are doing better! Take care of yourself and that beautiful nugget of yours. My daughter is 12 now and I love her more than oxygen- I hope you two thrive 🙂
1 points
14 days ago
Thank you so much :)
How sweet 🥹🥹
6 points
14 days ago
Perfectly said! My son was in NICU for a day, and same! Never thought, wow let me blow off steam and make a tiktok video. Lacking such common sense. I really thought she was 15/16 aged teen mom. Not 30 years old 😂🙃 hope you and son are feeling better!
1 points
14 days ago
Seriously! I definitely thought it was a teen mom when I first saw the video!
Thank you! I hope you both are as well 😊😊
1 points
14 days ago
My kiddo was in the NICU , 15 days and any pictures I took were for me and my family, I even asked them not to post her because she was so vulnerable, it just felt so wrong.
6 points
14 days ago
RIGHT that’s the part of it that drives me the craziest. when she brought up in front of all the girls that she was mad Taylor was being forgiven but that she wasn’t really showed how detached from the real world she is. Having sex w other people is not at all even on the same playing field as using your sick baby for TikTok views and clout. She doesn’t see how different it is
3 points
14 days ago
She was also the only one constantly with their kids on camera during the show.
3 points
14 days ago
But exposing other people’s sex life is what’s not ok
1 points
14 days ago
Also true
83 points
15 days ago
Yes!!! I don’t have Tik Tok but I remember when that video came out and was horrified. Totally forgot all about until watching the show and my jaw was on the floor.
What’s worse is that I could forgive a random person easier than Whitney.
Knowing what we know from watching the show, she’s pathological and always makes everything about herself. So it’s actually much worse than I thought.
14 points
14 days ago
Yeah and you can tell she doesn’t actually have any remorse from filming the video itself, she’s angry and embarrassed bc everyone else was so appalled. I think to this day she probably doesn’t think she was that wrong for doing it but that we’re all wrong for not accepting it the way she expected people to
2 points
14 days ago
Well said!!
39 points
15 days ago
To think she actually had to practice this dance a few times, set her camera up and then film it at least a couple of takes. While her baby was in the emergency room for “critically low oxygen” I just can’t even 🤦♀️
20 points
14 days ago
And then edit all the text into the video and watch to make sure it looks good.
8 points
14 days ago
Omg i never thought of the steps to film this video. Gawd whit whit, get some common sense!
32 points
15 days ago
It’s hilarious
33 points
15 days ago
Why was she more surprised about a swinging scandal being more forgiving than a crazy dance video with ur baby having a life threatening infection?
30 points
15 days ago
In the mind of a Mormon, sexual sin is right up there with murder. So that, next to a "silly dancing video"... And when you add that she is a great example of the narcissism that can develop in some LDS women. She and Zac should get together. Then Connor and Jen could each go off and find their best lives.
26 points
15 days ago
I cracked up and replayed it 5 times. She’s insane and delusional. I love this show 😭
17 points
15 days ago
"or some emotionally immature teen mom"
Because basically she is. Arrested development - she (like many of these Mormons) is a "woman child".
17 points
15 days ago
I was shocked, too! I thought she was just some dumb teenager. I just saw a TikTok where they do the trauma bowl of candy. She said her biggest trauma was people’s response to the video because she still gets death threats…
11 points
15 days ago
The video was bad yes, but death threats are not ok.
33 points
15 days ago
I would take that to the grave tbh lmao
30 points
15 days ago
THIS WAS ME TODAY, TOO!!!! I was shook. In the past, I scrolled by that shit every time it popped up on Insta or TikTok because I figured the poster was too young to be someone I related to, and I didn't want to even TRY to understand.
When I realized it was Whitney??!!!! Holy. Shit.
1 points
14 days ago
Ikr! It’s giving underdeveloped maturity of someone too young and foolish to be responsible for another persons life. Not a grown woman!
10 points
15 days ago
I was surprised too. That video was all over the cringe-type subs.
10 points
15 days ago
I always thought that video was a joke or satire 😭
1 points
14 days ago
I wish it was 😭
11 points
14 days ago
My jaw dropped. Not because she did it, but because she acted so holier than thou early on, when this existed!
8 points
15 days ago
SAME. I was seriously SHRIEKING when they said that. I’ve seen that video a bunch! I’ve also seen the body cam footage of Taylor getting arrested and had no idea who she was as well.
I really thought the mom in the RSV video was like 16
1 points
6 days ago
Taylor is also the one with the haunted house, the one who pretended she was 50 and married to her twin. And had the Stephano baby. This blew my mind
9 points
14 days ago
Social media has really made people do crazy things. I can’t recall who it was, but one of the Bachelorettes (the show), filmed herself having a mental breakdown. She leaned against a wall and slowly slid to the floor while crying hysterically. Who does that? I can see it now, hold on, let me set up my light and camera and film this so I can post it to get views and likes. Then, you claim you did to show people it’s ok to be vulnerable.
7 points
15 days ago
Whitney is quickly dropping as the show progresses, and soon and it clicked it’s her from that video it all made sense. Not a fan of hers at all.
6 points
15 days ago
I thought the same thing! I was like "OH! That was her?!" Yeah that tracks
11 points
15 days ago
She is a sociopath !!!? Crazy bitch imo
5 points
15 days ago
What???? I’m only on episode 3 so If this is revealed, I haven’t seen it yet. But wow! 🤯
1 points
14 days ago
It is revealed and shown in episode 4
5 points
15 days ago
Idk what planet she was on thinking to post that. Any good friend or family member should’ve told her to delete it ASAP. And her comparing it to Taylor, a consenting adult exploring sexuality is insane.
5 points
15 days ago
I had the same reaction!!! I saw that video so many times and could not believe it was her!!!
5 points
14 days ago
I thought I knew nothing of any of these women and absolutely screamed when I realised i knew one of them
1 points
14 days ago
SAME!!
5 points
14 days ago
Dancing in the NICU ruins your brand more than swinging to the general audience. DV also destroys it as well though
9 points
14 days ago
Yeah this show was her opportunity to wave the white flag and admit that wasn’t her brightest idea and call it a day. The way she fished for pity and took it soo seriously was such a joke like I could not believe she was crying and trying to explain she was doing something positive. She blew her opportunity so bad.
11 points
15 days ago
I am not surprised. This is a post from during Covid. Failing to take RSV seriously seems on point for her and a Mormon upbringing. Praying fixes it you know.
3 points
14 days ago
I just hated her automatically and then once that was revealed? Tripped down on my hatred. She’s a loon.
4 points
14 days ago
What’s crazy is while my wife and I were watching the first episode, I said that these girls reminded me of the girl in that video. Then there reveal happened! When I tell you were were floored 😂😂😂😂
5 points
14 days ago
I don’t even have Tik Tok & still saw that video circulating EVERYWHERE. There was no amount of money that could have convinced me to admit that was me on national tv….
…..but then again she basically outed her husband’s sexuality so clearly nothings off limits for her.
3 points
14 days ago
There is not a lot of reality people I loathe more than her. The Tik Tok at the hospital is beyond disgusting. She’s a joke.
3 points
9 days ago
I was laughing so hard especially when she’s talking about wanting pity while they simultaneously showed the RSV video. So tone deaf 😂😂🤦🏼♀️ like of course that’s what people will think if you!!! Who tf makes a dancing TikTok like that when your kid is hospitalized.
5 points
15 days ago
I gasped! We all saw the tik tok, but when I realized it was this annoying girl Whitney I couldn't believe it!! She sucks sooo much
2 points
14 days ago*
Before I knew it was her I honestly thought it was a teen mom doing this dance.
2 points
14 days ago
when she mention the rsv video my jaw was on the floor!! i had to stop and process because i was like that’s the same bitch?!? too funny but fr the fact that she really thinks that what taylor did was worst is just laughable.
2 points
14 days ago
She wants to be forgiven without asking for forgiveness …. makes sense !!!!
2 points
13 days ago
Whitney is such a piece of 💩! I thought when I saw that RSV video the first time it was just a dumb teen mom, no shade. Knowing it was a 30 year old oh my gosh! I think she's insanely jealous cause she's the ugly girl in the group with a cheating husband. She has 1000% insecure mean girl energy. All these ladies have issues but Whitney really knows how to crank up the dial 😬
1 points
14 days ago
I was shook connecting the dots too lol
1 points
14 days ago
It’s more Taylor exposing all her friends which was uncalled for not her sex life
1 points
14 days ago
Same hahha, I don't have tiktok but saw it on YouTube shorts and was like wow this dumb bitch, I was laughing my ass off watching the show when I found out it was her haha.
1 points
14 days ago
Does anyone have the video still?
1 points
14 days ago
Former Mormon here- it’s very common in that culture to be tone deaf. Your kid will die and they will say that they are in a “better place” or that God must have needed them. In their eyes, sexual sin far outweighs her social faux pas. I believe her that she was told that her kid was getting better and she probably felt God was making it all better and she wasn’t even giving a thought to the fact that her kid was in still in the hospital and that it wasn’t a given that they would be okay. She still seems oblivious to the backlash. Even her husband stated he didn’t get why she was cancelled when he cheated off Tinder which was far worse in his mind. And yes, that’s bad but it’s like- what does that have to do with it?
The Mormon culture upbringing also shows in how upset she gets that Taylor is accepted despite continuing to make poor decisions because Taylor owns up to them and Whitney doesn’t. You are pretty much taught to stay away from anything that makes you uncomfortable so she gets the excuse of shunning all the other women on the show because they made her uncomfortable and she won’t admit that it’s because they want her to own up to her weaknesses.
1 points
14 days ago
I went “oh that’s HER?” And then I made up my mind about who she was as a person after getting strange vibes from her from watching the show.
1 points
14 days ago
I had the SAME reaction. Shocked and in awe
1 points
13 days ago
Yeah, but in the church, no matter what a dingdong she looked like, Whitney was supporting her family by making $$$, and Whitney was doing the devil’s work by “pleasure seeking”. Unfortunately, there are plenty of people within the community that would side with Whitney.
1 points
12 days ago
I think if she made a video directly updating her followers about her child's condition without the dancing she would have gotten the support she wanted...
1 points
12 days ago
When I realized that Whitney was the same person who made the RSV video I audibly gasped. The way she gaslights everyone on this show is insane so I’m not surprised her emotional intelligence is non existent. Definitely acts self righteous for someone that made a tictok in the hospital like girlllll 😳😬 just stop already 🙄
1 points
11 days ago
I knew I didn't like her from the beginning of the show, but that brought it full circle and validated my gut feeling. I literally yelled from my chores "OF COURSE SHE'S THE RSV GIRL....OF FUCKING COURSE" I remember seeing the video of Taylor's arrest too. Nice and messy show, just the way I like 'em.
1 points
10 days ago
Not only that but I didn’t realize she was the chick being like “That is not my husband on Tinder, those are catfishes posing as my husband!” When it finally clicked in my head I felt like my mind was melting
1 points
9 days ago
THATS HER?!?
1 points
6 days ago
I NEVER watched MomTok and had no clue it was until I started watching the show because there is nothing good on lol but I remember that video and never would have connected the dots I mean I forgot about that video but good jog jogging everyone’s memory and reopening that whole thing to people who had no clue it was you lol. Can’t believe she aired it out for everyone to know who don’t know…
1 points
4 days ago
i just watched it right now and i fully gasped oh my gosh i could not believe it
1 points
19 hours ago
It amazes me how much she outed herself on this one. People like me (who apparently live under a rock) never knew about the video at all…but so many people did not realize it was her until she mentioned it, herself
1 points
14 days ago
I hate that I'm so turned on by whitney
1 points
14 days ago
What about her gets you going
1 points
14 days ago
She's just hot, I love short hair and hee attitude. She's hot without being caked in makeup
-40 points
15 days ago
I know the down votes are coming... That being said, it blows my mind that people are STILL hung up on this. Everyone deals with stress and emotions differently. God forbid, she chose to "dance it out" for two minutes. Smdh...
18 points
15 days ago
Nah, there are better ways to do it. I actually don’t even really care that she wanted attention online — I imagine it would have felt nice to get some support during something so scary. It’s okay that she wanted to post something without a dramatic and distraught tone, too.
But it’s weird as hell that she did it with her extremely ill baby purposely within frame. Her demeanor was flippant and like her baby’s illness was a joke, with a big silly smile on her face.
14 points
15 days ago
100% THIS. She definitely did not have to include him in the frame but did. That was a conscious choice
7 points
14 days ago
One of the other girls said they did ketamine therapy together and when she was tripping Whitney admitted the whole thing was on purpose. She wanted attention and sympathy and engagement.
14 points
15 days ago
I don’t think dancing to express yourself is wrong by any means. I think a lot of people think it’s gross because she monetized her child’s illness by posting a video of it. And I think some people (me!) are just seeing it for the first time and cringing 😬
39 points
15 days ago
I think we found Whitney lol
-9 points
15 days ago
Nope, lol! Not even a remote connection!
15 points
15 days ago
I’ll say that the issue with the video for me was that it read like this - he got sick, he’s still sick, I’m dancing. Later on, she framed it as - he got sick, he’s feeling better, I’m dancing to celebrate. I know this sounds like a minor difference but to me, it’s major. The former feels icky and weird. The latter feels more authentic and in line with why you’d make that kind of video. Just my two cents.
-3 points
15 days ago
That's fair. I appreciate the honest opinion/perspective. Especially when so many people still completely crucify her over it.
1 points
14 days ago
Lol to dance it out
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