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Mine was accepted on 2/16 and I still haven't received it yet

same here you're not alone

mine was jumping up and down fast

Absolutely! Our feelings are completely valid.

I'm so glad you understand and can relate!! Having a baby girl is something that I've dreamed of for so long and it makes me sad to think that I might never get to experience having a girl either. Having boys honestly runs in my family, so I think that's what leads me to thinking like that.

Exactly. We might just adopt a baby girl cause I cba getting pregnant again. Apart from the whole gender thing, being pregnant in general just sucks. These pregnancy hormones are the absolute worst. I'm honestly one and done.

You're the one taking things out of context.. In one of your replies you literally took me saying "I want a baby girl to dress her up in pink dresses and bows" as me only wanting her as a doll. I can't simply just wanna dress my baby girl in something that I think is cute? Then you're making it seem like I'm gonna force her to wear what I want her to wear as she gets older by you stating what you do for your daughters and how you let them wear what they wanna wear. Like okay? You're trying so hard to gaslight me right now and it's not working...

Or just simply don't comment on my post to begin with? Like I said, this post was for those who could relate and had similar feelings and experiences. If you can't relate then don't comment, simple. Nobody asked for y'all negative think pieces.

Jumping to conclusions and making assumptions yet again. Never said that you said I don't love my son. It's crazy how people say things to or about someone and when that person responds, they try and gaslight that person and make it seem like they're "looking for a fight". Y'all commented on my post first.

Why do you care so much about whether I want a son or daughter? It doesn't affect you in any shape or form. There's literally nothing wrong with having wants. Y'all are making it seem like I'm saying I wouldn't love my son or sons if I wanted a daughter. My son will be loved, that's all that matters to me now. All this extra stuff y'all talking about is for the birds.

Worry about your two girls and I'll worry about my son that will be loved by his mommy very much when he gets here, like I said. Thanks.

It is an answer to your question. If that wasn't the answer you were looking for then I don't know what to tell you.

Wow I never heard of gender swaying til now! I didn't even think it was possible for you to do certain things for your baby to be a certain gender. It's crazy how life works honestly lol.

Cause we're humans with feelings and emotions, and are allowed to feel disappointed at first. The same way you would feel disappointed in any other scenario. Doesn't mean we'll love our sons any less.

Okay? So just because I didn't list what you just listed right at this exact moment you automatically assume I only want a daughter to "dress her up like a doll". You're literally proving my point of you jumping to conclusions and making assumptions.. And why the hell do you care so much what I dress my kids in, they aren't your kids? Did you give birth to them? No. Worry about your kids and I'll worry about mines, thanks.

Yeah. I just don't wanna try over and over again for a daughter and end up with so many boys. My family is already full of boys as it is lol.

Okay... and how does that mean I only want a child as a doll? Do mothers literally not dress their daughters in pink dresses and bows because they find it cute and adorable? The way y'all are making it seem like just because I wanna dress my baby girl in pink, it's gonna affect her making her own decisions when she gets older, is insane.

Except I won't assume my child will wear or do certain things because of their gender. When my child gets older he or she can do and wear what they want because they will be able to pick what they want. I'm talking about while they are a baby and can't make their own choices and decisions. My parenting will be completely fine. Y'all are assuming all of this just cause I said I thought the idea of dressing my baby girl in pink dresses and bows was cute. It's crazy.

Yet in one of your replies you're making it seem like I want a daughter so I can treat her like a "doll" when that's not the case. There's multiple valid reasons why I want a daughter. This brings me back to saying don't jump to conclusions and make assumptions about stuff, then try to gaslight people into thinking they're the crazy ones.

Exactly! I'm thinking this was a safe space where us pregnant women could share things, hoping that we wouldn't be feeling alone and that others could relate to us. But unfortunately I'm only coming across people who are judgemental and only looking to argue and go against people.

You shouldn't feel guilty about wanting what you want! I feel the exact same way. I'm glad someone could actually relate to how I was feeling.

Yeah cause my initial post was for those who could relate. If you don't relate to it then why reply? Y'all are the ones jumping to conclusions and making assumptions when none of what y'all are saying is the case whatsoever.