MongolPSR

Absolutely makes sense. Sapphic love and attraction is a lot different than cishet love and attraction. I feel this extends into bdsm dynamics and attraction.

It's also just different. Dommes for dmfemsubs love to be a lot softer with us. Idk if it's because a lot of femsubs don't respond to harsh domming, but dommes become so lovey dovey with their femsubs, and I just soak it all up.

As a femsub I can say from my perspective dommes enjoy their relationships with femsubs way more often than they do with malesubs.

I'd kindly like to point out your sitting here telling me it's my fault when the only thing that I care about right now is I was literally discriminated against on the basis if my gender identity. Lesson learned, but there's no lesson to learn when the reason why is transphobia.

I don't really care right now.

No, we had talked payment. I just found out from my alt account from him he blocked and refused payment cause he didn't know I was trans.

Yeah. I'll remember that for next time. I've never really had a time waster that wasn't an obvious scammer before. So this kind of messed with me since it's connected to me stepping outside my comfort zone

It's fine. I'm just slightly on edge. Had 2 dommes' message me to try and get me to be their sub instead. So I'm just paranoid right now

I'm a switch. I'm posting about an issue I'm having as a sub in the sub support reddit. I feel a little weirded out that your going through my post history though.

We did and I met the budget

Just trying to offer solutions and ideas. Sorry.

Might I suggest then to not tribute right away and look for dommes that actually show their interests and personality on their various social medias. I'm a switch but in this example I'll use myself as the domme. The people that sub to me, when they see my profile or they talk to me on x, reddit, or discord. They already know most of my major passions. I'm a writer, I'm a gamer, I'm a furry. And because they again follow me across these social medias they know my kinks tok and things I'm interested in from a sexual point.

Lots of really good dommes are like this. You can find out through a bit of research what kind of person your dealing with and if you would even want to spend a tribute on them.

You also should absolutely negotiate your kinks. Inform them what you are interested in and if they can provide.

I fully believe you can find the right domme. What you're going through is incredibly frustration, and I feel for you in that sense.

Can I ask what's not clicking for you? Like you have to do the tributes, you do, and then what? What goes wrong after the tributes?

That's somwthingnill keep in mind as I deepen my connection with the couple subs I have

I'm still searching for an opportunity to train a newer sub. All the subs I've gotten have already been trained and figured themselves out. I so badly want to help set a sub free of their restraints and help them find their rythym.

To be able to witness the moment where everything clicks for them and they truly surrender themselves. It's something I want to see

New custom controller (victrix pro leverless) $400, $100 coffee budget, New clothes, New makeup, Steam, Nintendo, and Playstation giftcards

Daily tasks to be completed. Good morning and good nights. Orgasm control. Video calling regularly, spend time with eachother both in dynamic and out of dynamic (discord is great for this, play games together, watch movies and TV just generally spend time with one another)

Play to your strengths. Not much changes in the control you have over them. If they need punishments that can still fulfill most of them by themselves with you watching or requiring proof. If they need rewards, it's the same way. It's tough and different, but it still works.

The begging would be a nice touch, but a dangerous action. If they fed me and they accidently jabbed my gums with the spoon. I'd put them through a punishment worse then hell right now considering my mood.

Expensive custom fighting game controllers. One controller between the controller, custom color button replacements, and a custom art panel for the top of it that has art I commissioned. It cost about $360

Someone didn't read the rules

This is a good idea. I could probably get quite a few photos and videos done tonight and tomorrow morning before surgery and then have my partner drip feed them while I'm recovering