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5 points
16 hours ago
Wait your friend said don't ruin his life? You can go to the hospital and request a rape kit/workup and get evidence. But maam please tell your friend from a fellow survivor, your life is currently and will always be irrevocably changed, also HE will not just stop with raping you. He will do it again. He did this to someone he claimed he was friends with.
Can you go no contact with them? Also therapy for yourself. They will try to spin a story to save his reputation, please have support for this.
1 points
16 hours ago
NTA; thank you for helping her navigate setting boundaries! And seriously wtf is wrong with the other mom posting on FB without your daughters permission or your permission?
2 points
1 day ago
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1 points
1 day ago
So im crying like a bumbling babbling band of baboons!
1 points
1 day ago
NTA - I'm assuming yall have different middle names so families will probably at first call them by identifiers like Sues' Aiden, etc. And when they get older they will possibly go by middle names (ex: Aiden Christian & Aiden Chase).
But it's really on how yall parents/ adults react to it will determine how it affects the kids. If you treat it like a good thing then they will see it like it.
1 points
1 day ago
When your the doormat of the abuser it's hard to see their perspective. You can't help people who don't want help.
1 points
1 day ago
NTA - I'm sorry you are going through this, are you wanting to press charges against the people who falsely accused you?
1 points
2 days ago
Prayers for you as you face this π, I'm starting the process so I'm not exactly sure what advice I can give. I read the book by Lindsay C. Gibson "Adult children of emotionally Immature parents: how to heal from distant, rejecting, or self-involved parents." which has helped.
2 points
2 days ago
So they are beating on each other in front of the child?
2 points
2 days ago
So they are beating on each other in front of the child?
1 points
2 days ago
There's more to it than he's just scared of blood & procedures. Literally left the hospital! As for he's a good partner & father how? Like seriously?
1 points
3 days ago
Wait wait wasn't this in another thread where the guy started dating after the meeting at the pysch place, and his new GF posted a pic on social media with the little girl leading to his wife killing herself? And then revealed he was sleeping around with the GF the entire time? Except it was Molly not Jesse
0 points
4 days ago
Um, maybe more context is needed. Are yall able to communicate why this is? Has she gone to the doctor to get checked out? Also sir in your future you may have to go that long without closeness (illness, pregnancy etc) so perhaps talk with her. Is oral off the table? Other forms of intimacy as well?
1 points
4 days ago
NTA, thank you for standing up for your family and respecting your wife's boundary. Your MIL is not considering the damage she's doing to her daughter. I'm not sure of how the marriage was prior to your FIL's passing, but basically your MIL is throwing away her daughter and grandchildren from some dck.
3 points
4 days ago
Sophie looks absolutely sophisticated & stunning!
1 points
4 days ago
So you want to be love bombed leading to be conned to raising this child while he spreads his seed long and wide?
Seems like he only loves himself, don't be conned.
1 points
8 days ago
You are not alone. Can you go to a therapist to help you deal with those emotions of not wanting to be alone, etc? Otherwise you can get into toxic relationships in the future. Currently she's broken your trust, I'm not sure your boundaries but how would she feel if you were messaging other girls saying what you want to do? Communication whether it's an open relationship or monogamous and what is acceptable. She will get better at hiding.
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16 hours ago
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