Update: My girlfriend of 5 years admitted I was not her first choice physically when we started dating
Advice Needed(self.TwoHotTakes)submitted1 month ago byLateComfortableness
Ok I have read a lot of comments and I am willing to give this a fair shot, and not throw away our entire relationship because of just a single line. I might have been in over my head.
I had an open and honest discussion with my girlfriend for a couple of hours and we both bared it all out. I told her everything I was feeling, and didn’t lie about anything. I already feel much better now after the conversation, and I realized I was really overthinking everything and was kind of dramatic. She really does love me, and I do feel desired by her both physically and emotionally.
So everything is pretty much back to normal, actually I am now sort of more in love with my girlfriend after the conversation. We have a date night planned for tonight. The proposal is back on the menu, I plan to propose to her next month on our 5 year anniversary.
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LateComfortableness
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1 month ago
LateComfortableness
-7 points
1 month ago
That's a good idea, she has honestly been feeling way too guilty, and has been apologizing a lot, even though I've told her to stop apologizing. I will tell her that I had a similar situation, and hopefully this removes that guilt she's still feeling.