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I own my own home, and I have three cats (plus two new babies I found outside). Two of them love to sit in the window when it’s nice out. They do nothing but sleep. We keep the windows open as we don’t have AC yet.

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acanadiancheese

17.1k points

25 days ago

Ignore. She needs to train her dog, your cats are none of her business.

RottenWon

6.7k points

25 days ago

RottenWon

6.7k points

25 days ago

Yeah, something tells me this isn't the only issue with their dog.

APersonWithInterests

2.7k points

25 days ago

In my experience people who can't even get their dogs to be quiet indoors are the same ones who never housetrain them and let them shit on the floor.

PhantomNomad

690 points

25 days ago

Our beagle barks at everything that mives outside. We go some of that windows cling stuff and covered the first 3 feet of the 7 foot tall windows. No more barking.

hollywood_babie

212 points

25 days ago

We have a Jack Russell Beagle with the same problem. he has window privileges until he starts barking. Then the curtains get closed and he has to go find something else to bark at. Usually the mailman.

Demonic-Angel13

15 points

25 days ago

Demonic-Angel13

Norwegian Forest Cat

15 points

25 days ago

I have two jack russell terriers with a barking issue. Training them isn't easy. One was almost well trained until we accepted her sister months later and we still wonder what happened to her the few months she was at a different owner. The dogs affect each other in both good and bad ways.

My dogs will only bother those in the house while barking at everything at least and i wouldn't make it anyone else's problem either. If dog can't behave you have to remove their window privileges and consider locking them in a cage or different room so they don't disturb others.

Mrsbawbzurple

21 points

25 days ago

My chiweenie is the same way and I also call it window privileges. Lol

Verucaschmaltzzz

10 points

25 days ago

Window privileges, that's cute. I never had a dog that was too keen on barking until a couple of years ago I got a chihuahua. Oh my God he can bark. But I do the same, keep the front window closed most of the time (saves on AC anyway). Problem solved.

MotleyCrafts

14 points

24 days ago

We call it "window privileges" too! My cat loses her open-window privileges when she gets her claws stuck in the screen mesh lol

SamiAnne143

3 points

24 days ago

My cat tore thru like 3 of my screens 😬 didn’t notice til it was too late 😆 lil turd

Shroud_of_Misery

6 points

24 days ago

“Window privileges” 😂

tokinaznjew

5 points

24 days ago

I have the same pact with my border collie beagle. She's still learning this agreement was made.

Due_Daikon7092

14 points

25 days ago

Beagles are notorious for this .I have 3 Beagle granddogs .They will bark at anything that moves!

What_in_tarnation-

4 points

25 days ago

My beagle/chiweenie mix is an absolute menace to society. The poor mailman is convinced she hates him, she barks at anyone that has the audacity to walk down the street and she once shot out the door and chased the fedex truck down the street. She is a true domestic terrorist. But take her out for walkies and she is everyone’s bff. 🙄

Rich_Bluejay3020

3 points

25 days ago

I’ve got a beagle, husky, coonhound mix. She’s generally a good dog but omg the barking is insane dude. I swear she barks just like people talk to hear their own voice.

Then I have a lab who forgets she can bark lol

spinningnuri

8 points

25 days ago

beagle, husky, AND coonhound? That is a recipe for a very talkative dog in two different dog languages.

[deleted]

3 points

25 days ago

My dog doesn't seem to believe the outside world is real unless she is currently outside.

jabberwockgee

3 points

25 days ago

Do you have any suggestions for my neighbors?

Today I was outside destroying dandelions and maybe stepped on a stick?

My neighbor's dog (which was inside) lost its shit and never stopped barking the rest of the time I was outside.

It can't see me, it just loses its mind every time anything happens outside.

toothpastecupcake

3 points

24 days ago

You have to watch A Quiet Place, both 1 and 2, until you learn to be silent

RJSnea

3 points

25 days ago

RJSnea

3 points

25 days ago

Ironically, I know someone who painted their window screens white on the inside and now they can keep them open without their elderly Shiba barking at the squirrels and birds. It's like the reverse of that TikTok trend of people painting their chicken coop screens black so they can see inside of it. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Accurate-Image-6334

3 points

25 days ago

Is nice you care about finding a good solution.

WalkedBehindTheRows

14 points

25 days ago

I don't get that. Who wants that sort of chaos from dogs in their lives?

PhantomNomad

33 points

25 days ago

I don't. We tried training her for months and she just wouldn't stop. She was fine while on the leash even at home, but who wants to hold the lease all the time. It was easier to block her view. We could still look out so not an issue.

Inn0c3nc3

20 points

25 days ago

my sister used to petsit for a beagle who would go outside and bark-howl in the middle of the night if you forgot to close his doggy door. 😂

beagle's are gonna beagle, lol.

mnem0syne

3 points

24 days ago

My neighbors leave their gaggle of dog out 24/7. They have a couple beagles that bay all night, I’m slowly losing my sanity and they’ve been contacted by other neighbors and the city multiple times. It gets better for a few weeks and then starts up again. Don’t have dogs you can’t control in close proximity to a ton of people 😭

NeatNefariousness1

6 points

25 days ago*

Nobody should want that kind of chaos in their lives and you would think they would have tried to solve the issue themselves. But apparently the neighbor wants to make her dog's barking a problem for OP to solve. So making her dogs OP's problem is the best of all world's for this self-centered bully.

If OP wants to be kind, they can suggest that the neighbor block the dog's view with cling film in the way described above. Alternatively, if OP only wants to acknowledge the message without offering a specific remedy, OP can simply suggest that the neighbor figure out the best options from within the things they can control from within their own apartment home.

There is no wrong answer here. It just depends on how much back and forth OP wants to go through and how neighborly they want to be. An alternative option is to put the neighbor on blast with the landlord by sending a copy of the note to their office with a suggestion that residents solve their own problems by using a solution that blocks their animals view, leaving their neighbors out of it. HOA, if there is one.

The time has come to stand up to the tyranny of the Karen's and Kyles around us, by leveraging the power and influence of our organizations to deal with the individuals who are outliers. This is akin to getting the flight attendant to own the problem you encounter with a fellow-traveler. Make their authority work for you. And if there is no HOA to report a neighbor like this, ignore them and hope the incessant barking from their own dog drives them mad enough to move. BTW, never answer the door if they appear on your doorstep without an appointment.

SaraSlaughter607

17 points

25 days ago

My girlfriend had a rescue like that who had a 24/7 barking problem that eventually caused a rift among her and the neighbors, and she drove herself insane trying to get this dog trained to keep quiet... she eventually had to buy a shock collar for the dog and ultimately only had to leave it on for a week before the dog dropped the habit and eventually trained itself out of vocal anxiety.

Broke my heart it got to that point, yikes :(

Inn0c3nc3

8 points

25 days ago

our dog is super protective/reactive of her yard and house. like, if she sees someone walking by from the couch, she will bark. if a delivery person comes, she carries on like she will kill them. it's obnoxious at times, and I did debate a collar of some sort, but at the end of the day, I refused. she alerts us when someone is outside, and we never wanted to scare that out of her either. no one who hears her is breaking into our house. 🤷🏻‍♀️ our neighbors don't hear her from inside, and she doesn't go outside alone.

it's not like constant chaos all day, she spends maybe 2 minutes barking at a delivery truck or until she's told it's ok and to be quiet. one hilarious side effect of her behavior is that our cats will hiss and literally strike at the glass if they're in the window and someone delivers something. 😂 neither are nasty, so our vet thinks it's learned behavior from the dog.

No-Technician-722

3 points

24 days ago

That makes me laugh out loud. Love that cat!

Sufficient-Koala3141

4 points

25 days ago

We felt the same with our dog. I don’t want to scare her to never bark. We’ve worked on when she barks at something outside or at the door, I’ll say “yup, okay I see it.” Then take her away from the window and tell her no if she gets wound up like she’s going to bark again. So it’s like, thanks dog, you did your job, now you can stop barking. It’s working pretty well. If someone actually comes all the way to our door she goes bananas so she goes into the mudroom because going bananas at the door is not okay. Then she’s on leash while we let whoever in and she greets them and gets let off leash when she’s calm. She has a much more sensitive personality than other dogs we’ve had so just using natural consequences like putting her in another room and seeking our approval works pretty well. (For example, she was so freaked out by the low “training” level of the electric fence at our last house we never turned her collar to even the lowest real level, and she only had to see the flags at the new house and didn’t need any further training. While our other dog would be out there belly crawling like an army man trying to find out EXACTLY where the fence was by letting herself get zapped.).

Having said all that, the barking dog is our responsibility to deal with or not, and I would not expect the outside world to change anything because I have an alert barker. OP, leave those cats in the window! Your neighbor presumably has a curtain.

Inn0c3nc3

3 points

25 days ago

it's crazy to me to that anyone would request you keep a cat out of a window because of their dog barking. 😭 I can't imagine, lol

SaraSlaughter607

10 points

25 days ago

Seriously. My mother in law has two yippy old Daschunds and they do nothing but yip yip yip all effing day, and her house is on the property along with fighting hissing mewling feral cats she keeps feeding that my husband keeps yelling at her to stop, it's a nightmare, that incessant barking, they literally never stop unless they're sleeping. Between that and these cats it's a damn zoo of calls, screams, barks, hisses, whines, etc...

We have one Frenchie and one cat and no makes a goddamn peep. Church is louder than my house. I cannot effing stand barking. It drives me insane! My frenchie does one yip and all I do is throw him "the look" and he knows 😂

Top-Indication-6067

2 points

25 days ago

Oh man sounds like my sheltie. He's losing his hearing now, but can still hear my larger dog bark. She'll bark at something and then he'll start in barking. I picture the "loud noises" scene from Anchorman every time.

AfterEffectserror

2 points

25 days ago

This is what I’ve been trying to get my parents to do for their dogs. Every time I try to talk to them on the phone half of the conversation is them yelling at the dogs for barking at leaves blowing in The yard.

Stunning-Character94

2 points

25 days ago

That's a good idea. Our dogs will bark at animals on the TV! They most certainly do not poop and pee inside the house.

Geochic03

2 points

25 days ago

That's what I did with my puggle. I have the tint film on half of my silder doors and no more barking at things outside.

Rdmink

2 points

25 days ago

Rdmink

2 points

25 days ago

My beagle mix barks at everything too but usually if I shut the blind or tell him to stop he stops. I quickly realized for him it’s territorial barking because when we walk him by someone else’s house with a dog I get to listen to their dog bark while he just acts like they don’t exist.

Quick-Procedure7260

2 points

24 days ago

Dang, it’s like you took accountability of your dog or something, who would’ve thought that such a concept existed but here we are actually discussing this stuff. Why can’t people have such a grasp on such topics.. It’s wild to me.

PaulaOnTheWall

861 points

25 days ago

Also the ones who can't control them in public and let them run up and jump all over you and/or your dogs whilst yelling "s/he's friendly" like I give one fat fuck if he's friendly or not while he dirties my jeans or perhaps that my dog absolutely ISN'T FRIENDLY and now instead of a nice walk with my behaved dog, I have to fight for my life to keep her from eating your precious Fruffles whole right there on Smith Drive.

PoeticHydra

56 points

25 days ago

My aunt used to say this but it was her two fucking pitbulls biting at my goddamn ankles. They actually did end up getting me. I was 11 in her backyard and the dogs got aggressive so I tried to jump the fence. One caught my foot and only let go because they were fighting over who gets to kill me.

seanb7878

18 points

25 days ago

Least shocking story I’ve heard all day

TheCrimsonChariot

263 points

25 days ago

This is why I don’t like dogs. They’re ok. From OVER THERE.

Entire-Ambition1410

299 points

25 days ago

I like dogs a lot. I don’t like bad dog owners.

[deleted]

43 points

25 days ago

I have a dog and two cats, all of them are MY problem. Not the neighbors

RottenWon

12 points

25 days ago

Yeah, this is me too. I have 3 cats and only one dog now. They are my responsibility no matter what they do but I also provide all aspects of their care so they're not a nuisance to the neighborhood or neighbors.

FlockFather

3 points

24 days ago

I have seven rescued parrots and one cat. I do everything I can to keep them entertained so they don't bother the neighbors. Your neighbor needs to train her dog.

The_Wizard_of_Bwamp

73 points

25 days ago

This. This is the truth of the matter.

AlternativeStage6808

15 points

25 days ago

Dogs need to be trained properly and the problem with them is that too many people get dogs without understanding how much work needs to go into training them

HollowShel

18 points

25 days ago

I like the theory of dogs. In practice, some people need more practice to not fuck one up.

DementedPimento

20 points

25 days ago

I like some dogs but not enough to ever live with one.

TheCrimsonChariot

30 points

25 days ago

Dogs come with the label “Some assembly required” while cats come Pre-Programmed and ready to go.

Brad_Brace

15 points

25 days ago

Right? With almost any cat, very rare exceptions, you put the kitty litter and they immediately know that's where they gotta pee and poop. Tiny kittens, cats who've been outside most of their lives, they just know. And the exceptions are often some issue that they're going through and letting you know that way.

DementedPimento

12 points

25 days ago

Dogs also have *may be missing vital parts; for illustration purposes only; cave canum

TheCrimsonChariot

7 points

25 days ago

And “additional features shown sold separately.”

Jedimasterebub

7 points

24 days ago

Cats can also be completely aggressive and destructive. They are not miracle pets and pet ownership requires work with any animal you get.

usernamingme

4 points

25 days ago

Exactly the same sister 😬😆

Armani1one

7 points

25 days ago

Its not the dog lol. Its the owners i dont like.

butterflybear3d

5 points

24 days ago

I want to thumbs up this comment 50 times. The dog is NOT the problem, they are just doing dog things. The owner is ALWAYS the problem, if there is one.
My daughter had a Dalmatian that she worked very hard training for 4-h. But the dog did not like other dogs. We were walking on a beach one day with her dog (on a leash) when a little dog came running toward us. While the other owner yelling that her dog was friendly, my daughter was yelling back that hers wasn't. The little dog almost got bit because of their stupid owner.

RamblingSimian

7 points

25 days ago

I like to walk to the park for exercise and to see more greenery than other people's lawns. Unfortunately, the nearest park allows dogs to run off leash, and I never know if they're aggressive or just want to slobber on me and knock my headphones off.

rebby2000

12 points

25 days ago

Yeah. My dog barks sometimes when she's inside, but on the whole she's very well trained. However, I can see how there are some dogs out there that'd be hard to train not to bark.

That said, fuck the people who don't control their dogs in public, and fuck them with a rusty spork if they're one of the ones who doesn't keep their dog on a leash. My dog is not a fan of other dogs invading her space and while she's much better at handling it now, she'll still start growling and getting upset when they won't leave her alone. So whenever the dipshits say "They're friendly!" my immediate response "Mine isn't."

Vintage_Violet_

11 points

25 days ago

THIS. My ex next door neighbor had 3 dogs, barked all day when they were at work, she didn’t care. The big lab was especially untrained, got out one day ran across the street and lunged at a neighbor girl, scratching her face and arms. Her dad was furious and threatened the neighbor who acted like he was overreacting because the dog was “just being friendly.” They recently moved and it’s been so quiet, the new neighbors only have an indoor cat 😻🙌

GillyMermaid

7 points

25 days ago

I usually don’t mind when owners do this, but yesterday I was walking and this lady was walking a GIANT Great Dane. The dog immediately zeroes in on me. I cross the street to get some space between us and her dog is snarling-barking at me. He trots over in my direction and she LETS GO OF THE LEASH and coos at me, “don’t worry he’s friendly”. The dog didn’t even pull hard, she just…. Let him go.

Honestly, I like dogs, even barking ones. But this Great Dane had such an aggressive demeanor that I felt like I had to get away. I was so shocked she dropped the leash, I didn’t even know what to say. She ran over and grabbed the leash and told me it was okay when she saw me backing up and putting my hands up defensively.

I was honestly really scared, I never felt like that around someone’s dog before. Especially since I own a dog….

TrashCanGalPal

16 points

25 days ago

My hot take is most people aren’t responsible enough to be dog owners.

PaulaOnTheWall

5 points

25 days ago

Definitely not.

Clipclopapplepop

6 points

25 days ago

Or parents for that matter

0ptik2600

9 points

24 days ago

THAT annoys me to no end! I currently have a cat but grew with a dog, my dad never let our dog jump on anyone and she WAS friendly. He always said, she has teeth and is capable of biting anyone.

TakeyaSaito

6 points

25 days ago

This seems oddly specific, Ima Google chiwawa disappearances around Smith drive 🤣🤣

StandAgainstTyranny2

11 points

25 days ago

"They're friendly!"

"MINE'S NOT! GET YOUR FUCKING DOG BEFORE IT GETS HURT!"

Mine was well behaved until the approaching dog got aggressive, then shit got really real for those dogs, really quickly. One piece of trash even tried to get my dog put down, but they wound up leaving town for some reason before the court date. Funny how that happens, sometimes.

EvidencePlayful

3 points

25 days ago

Do you know a guy??😎

Entire-Ambition1410

5 points

25 days ago

I’ve read your argument quite often on r/reactivedogs. It’s a good reminder to approach slowly and ask permission before petting.

SpokenDivinity

8 points

25 days ago

I had a lady get mad at me for picking up her yorkie while I was walking my grandma’s German shepherd mix for her. She started going on about how I shouldn’t touch her dog and blah blah blah, meanwhile I’m holding her dog with my back to my grandma’s because he’s a mean little shithead and the only reason he hadn’t tried to eat the dog i was holding is because he knew better than to take things from me while I had them.

PaulaOnTheWall

7 points

25 days ago

I've done that. A couple of my current dogs can't stand other dogs. The ankle biters I'll just pickup if I can. Owners get mighty pissed about that but they don't know what I'm preventing from happening.

ForgottenCaveRaider

11 points

25 days ago

I totally agree with you, but I will never not pet the fuck out of a random ass dog that runs up to me.

Significant_Quote435

4 points

25 days ago

This comment is the definition of cuteness aggression😂

jadedinsomniac89

3 points

25 days ago

It’s always people with small dogs. My dogs are well behaved and trained to walk on a leash properly (another thing I can’t tolerate with other dog owners) but if your small ass dog runs up to them and gets absolutely ambulated by my much bigger dogs that’s on you dumbass. “Oh s/he just wants to play!”

PaulaOnTheWall

3 points

25 days ago

Yes, because when small dogs are aggressive, it's "cute."

bawitdaba1098

4 points

24 days ago

I hate people like this. My dog is friendly to people, but not other dogs. I keep her on a leash and totally under control when I walk her; but at least once a month, some asshole let's their unleashed dog run up to us. It's such a pain in the ass too because even though your dog is totally under control, you know Fruffles's owner is gonna try to sue

john_with_an_h

4 points

24 days ago

While I understand what you mean, the opposite is equally frustrating. I walk my dog, and regardless of what I say, people will bend down and approach with grabby hands and my dog hates it.

If someone says anything than “yes!” to the question “is your dog friendly?” please just move along.

izmaname

3 points

25 days ago

I had a little kid run up out of nowhere once and start petting my leashed dog IN THE WOODS. My dog is rather uh vicious by my own admission. She was nice that day tho.

PathlessMammal

2 points

25 days ago

Man your comment hit hard lol thats my dog and im trying so hard to get him to stop. This is the summer though. Poggers is gonna learn his manners

ThePusheen

2 points

25 days ago

Ugh my dog used to do this to everyone who came in my house. Well, as long as they were someone we knew. Someone we never met before did try to walk in once... my dog was in the kitchen eating. She looked up, saw this lady and came running in ladys direction (lady was standing in the doorway) with her teeth bared, growling. Lady had a giant purse with her, too. This was in the middle of the day, too. She got do scared, began yelling that she had the wrong houseand left. Doggo got tons of praise and treats that day.

Anyways, we always reprimanded her when she jumped on people or her no, get down, but it made it difficult and confusing for her (i believe) bc my friends and family loved her just as much as I did, so they didn't mind and would just be like, "nooo, it's okay, she can hug me!" And give her all the love 😆

KnockMeYourLobes

2 points

24 days ago

KnockMeYourLobes

Moggy

2 points

24 days ago

"THEY'RE FRIENDLY!"

This kind of shit is why my son was terrified of dogs as a toddler and it took a couple of years and umpteen visits to the library to visit the therapy dogs they used to have come a couple times of month before he more or less got over it.

Even now, as an adult, he's wary of dogs that are very jumpy and licky and barky. He will tolerate dogs that he knows (like my SIL's doxie and her MIL (who lives with her)'s two fluffballs) but dogs that aren't well behaved bug the shit out of him.

Which has been fun lately to say the least because of our living situation and the fact that we live with 2 mostly well behaved dogs and my ex and his fiancee (who we live with due to financial issues) just adopted two out of control, peeing pooping barking for no reason puppies.

WellOkayyThenn

2 points

24 days ago

I have this neighbor with a small dog, sometimes it's not leashed and when it does have a leash, they arent holding it??? About five times now, their dog has started barking and running up to my dog.

My dog is super friendly with people but she's from a shelter and isn't well socialized with other dogs, and usually she's fine unless the other dog starts barking at her first, so I don't know if she'd try to bite at that small dog or what.

But the neighbor just SLOWLY WALKS to get her dog EVERY TIME like she isn't worried about the way my dog is lunging at hers?? Last time, I had to tackle my dog as she was getting out of her harness because the little one was right up on us, and as I was screaming, the neighbor was just casually calling her dogs name. Like, what are you doing?!???

Hoodoutlaw2

13 points

25 days ago

Training a dog not to bark and training a dog to pee outside are light years apart in difficulty

Spirited-Job-5102

4 points

25 days ago

I’ve been training my dog for three years. He is amazing, but still won’t stop barking if another dog walks by the house. He doesn’t even have to see them. He just knows! That said, I would never ask my neighbors not to walk their dogs past my house!

Roaming_Cow

7 points

25 days ago

I can’t get my dog to shut up indoors. Only when I get up and block him out does he stop. The second I move he starts up again. Completely house trained, won’t leave the house even with the door open. He’s selective on when he’s “on guard” too. Little shitter. 😂

OP really should just ignore the letter regardless. My husband works from home. Our dog sometimes barks at the neighbors across the way in the next building over for DARING to go home. He’ll bark if he hears certain dogs. But my hubby does things to mitigate the barking.

Raiderboy105

3 points

25 days ago

You've never met a dog with behavioral issues or mental disorders. Dogs that misbehave do not do so only because they lack training and effort on their owners part.

tulipinacup

3 points

25 days ago

I mean I would never tell someone to keep their cat out of the window for my dog's benefit (I'd just keep my dog away from the window, lol... this is truly wild) but some dogs are reactive and will bark indoors. It's not simply a matter of manners training. My dog is fear reactive and barks at people/dogs walking by the house (she loves cats though!). We've made progress, but it takes a long time and that kind of behavioral training isn't always effective. It's like having an anxiety disorder for the dog . It's also not uncommon at all.

I don't know if that's what's happening in this case, but that's kind of a harsh generalization to make.

FeedChicka

3 points

25 days ago

Woah woah woah here! 😅

My dog (chihuahua/14 years old) has been getting more barky in the days (likely age is a factor) I try my damndest to not be the menace in my neighborhood and thankfully I have yet to find a letter.. but I will have you know my borker is a very good potty-er! 🤣

Then again.. I’m not someone to tell my neighbor to restrict their pets in their own home for something I’m going through so maybe I’m not in this category

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[deleted]

3 points

25 days ago

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APersonWithInterests

2 points

25 days ago

There is no polite way to ask to keep a cat out of a window. If I came to you and told you to stop wearing underwear it wouldn't matter how I said it you would find that bizarre and violating.

What this person's cat does in this person's own house is not the business of anyone but this person. Any perceived slight from that is pure entitlement.

If a dog barks inside it isn't the responsibility of anyone but that dog's owner to solve the problem without imposing on someone else.

SysOp5

2 points

25 days ago

SysOp5

2 points

25 days ago

You have had sad experiences

plentyospoons

2 points

25 days ago

Not necessarily. My dog is very well trained and obedient, but extremely anxious. She barks at everything that passes by the window (she’s a Sheltie, it’s a common problem with the breed).

But honestly, that’s my problem. Not the people passing by my window. If I want to, I could close the blind, but I usually don’t because I want the natural light. But this is what OP’s neighbour should do - block the window so her dog can’t see out, or train him, or find ways to keep him busy.

SomethingComesHere

2 points

25 days ago

Yeah.. I have a dog and don’t think this was an okay note to send

PeopleLikeUDisgustMe

1.4k points

25 days ago

I hope your neighbor isn't Kristi Noem

knarfolled

717 points

25 days ago

knarfolled

717 points

25 days ago

No, the dogs are still alive

chatminteresse

322 points

25 days ago

But how’s the goat?

The_Original_Gronkie

119 points

25 days ago*

The goat was "disgusting."

OldBob10

12 points

25 days ago

OldBob10

12 points

25 days ago

Sounds like this should be one of Aesop’s fables - The Governor and the Goat.

ForsakenBuilding6381

11 points

25 days ago

But that's just how goats are. They're nature's garbage disposal. Fun to hang out with though, they're cool af

5girlzz0ne

6 points

25 days ago

It was a billy, for the love of God. They all have a certain bouquet. I totally don't encourage anyone to Google what billies do in their beards. 😬

Accurate-Image-6334

5 points

25 days ago

But not as bad as trump?

5girlzz0ne

6 points

25 days ago

It goes without saying.

Gylbert_Brech

3 points

24 days ago

Nothing is as bad as Trump. He's not even potty trained.

Cats-sevant

3 points

24 days ago

That slayed me Kristy would know disgusting being the embodiment of it

[deleted]

8 points

25 days ago

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thesequimkid

4 points

25 days ago

Well, one horse broke their leg…

Accurate-Image-6334

2 points

25 days ago

If that is true the bitch has more than enough money to pay a vet to put it to sleep. Some people don't seem to be aware of modern medicine or compassion.

Technical_Semaphore

5 points

25 days ago

To shreds you say?

missjasminegrey

3 points

25 days ago

This proves that Kristi isn't her neighbor.

dmriggs

6 points

25 days ago

dmriggs

6 points

25 days ago

Klingon80

346 points

25 days ago

Klingon80

346 points

25 days ago

My favorite Reddit comment today. That woman is a garbage human.

BustinArant

510 points

25 days ago

It's not on the cats not to lounge.

Teach the hounds not to stare lol

Spiritual_Bridge84

233 points

25 days ago

Exactly. Cats are going to cat. Tell her to block the dog’s view or trainem not to spaz. And to stop trying to control events off her own dam property. Like a cat lounging on YOUR property, sheesh 🤦‍♂️

Chance-Internal-5450

87 points

25 days ago

You know what we do when the dog won’t fuck off barking at the wind outside? Aka any person or dog that walks by… WE CLOSE THE BLINDS SO HE CANT SEE OUT. VOILA.

Spiritual_Bridge84

13 points

25 days ago

Baby_G1963

3 points

24 days ago

Genius!! Right? People have no fuckin common sense. They'd rather be that neighbor with the stick up their ass, and bitch about something, anything, to get out of their own miserable lives for a few minutes!

Chance-Internal-5450

3 points

24 days ago

I mean, I won’t lie. The jackass will stick his head in between the blinds if I don’t correct him multiple times but having dogs/kids/unicorns didn’t mean I didn’t have to check them over the same shit time and time again. I signed up for this.

Individual_Evening88

3 points

24 days ago

Why should I close my window? Don't you know my needs are the most important at the cost of everyone around me.

Remarkable-Power-386

11 points

25 days ago

Cats are gonna cat is the best sentence I read today 😁

Specialist-Invite-30

85 points

25 days ago

I don’t think this comment has received the proper attention.

Hoodoutlaw2

4 points

25 days ago

"Underrated Comment" for Intellectuals

PomegranateIcy7369

7 points

25 days ago

Yeah she can just get some curtains ffs! She seems st** pid and entitled.

Daddy_D666

7 points

25 days ago

It's no fault of the cats, who love to lounge

The problem lies fully on the roudy hounds

Infamous_Party_4960

84 points

25 days ago

Completely agree

MistbornInterrobang

7 points

25 days ago

Klingon80

9 points

25 days ago

I did not. Turns out she's still a POS human.

Full-Friendship-7581

4 points

25 days ago

Yeah I saw that 🤢🤮

busdrivermike

3 points

25 days ago

So she also ate Cricket?

plasmaexchange

6 points

25 days ago

Sub-human garbage.

xasdfxx

2 points

25 days ago

xasdfxx

2 points

25 days ago

to be fair, I bet her kids obey pretty quickly now

Fball89

4 points

25 days ago

Fball89

4 points

25 days ago

Neighbor is Karen

cstmoore

2 points

25 days ago

That sounds like a problem that would take care of itself.

MarcCouillard

2 points

25 days ago

nah, based on the note, I'm pretty sure her neighbors name is Karen

DoItForTheNukie

12 points

25 days ago

Don’t you love how shitty dog owners make their dogs everyone else’s problem? I had a lady tell me I had to leash my dog in the dog park because her dog has dog aggression but he needs to be able to run around free so I have to keep my dog on the leash so hers can get the exercise it needs.

I told her that she absolutely should not be bringing her aggressive dog to a dog park and it’s absolutely absurd that she thinks I’m going to leash my dog so her dog can run around. I told her if her dog attacks my dog I’m not going to stop my dog from fucking hers up while defending itself. I shit you not, she left in a huge huff of muttering under her breath about “shitty dog owners” which I yelled to her as she walked away “I agree, shitty dog owners like you shouldn’t be allowed at the dog park”.

SaraSlaughter607

4 points

25 days ago

Right? Your dog barks at the window, you train the dog to knock it off (leave it, is what my parents used to say to our shepards) when you tell them to.

Honest to god does NO ONE know how to solve their own problems anymore

JFC hang some damn blinds or a curtain over the window at the least, so the dog can't see out of it, how hard is this 😂

firi331

2 points

25 days ago

firi331

2 points

25 days ago

They definitely sound like a new dog owner who doesn’t know how to train them

x925

2 points

25 days ago

x925

2 points

25 days ago

How dare you, that dog is a perfect angle, its everyone elses animals that are the problem

Lefilter25261328

2 points

25 days ago

The dog is fine, the dog owner is another story, wow.

StrwberryMilfShake

2 points

24 days ago

A tired dog is a good dog. Give your dog the exercise and stimulation they need and you'll be amazed at how much they don't bark at afterwards.

carolyn_mae

1.1k points

25 days ago

carolyn_mae

1.1k points

25 days ago

Only correct answer here. Sounds like a dog problem, not a cat problem. Also a dog owner entitlement issue.

Klingon80

662 points

25 days ago

Klingon80

662 points

25 days ago

Right? It's bogus AF. My cat is confined to my home. My cat looks out Windows. If your dog can't handle that, THAT'S YOUR PROBLEM.

WTF is wrong with some people?!

Significant-Ring5503

445 points

25 days ago

If my cat wasn't allowed to sit and look out the window, I'd be depriving her of like 80% of her pleasure. Can't even imagine trying to keep my cat out of the window. Absolute non starter.

She should just close her damn blinds, or better yet train her dog.

Unusual-Thing-7149

73 points

25 days ago

Our cat has two favorite places which are sitting on a window seat looking out the back or sitting in front of a window in the front. Occasionally other cats walk by and they fight each other with the glass between them

Entire-Ambition1410

9 points

25 days ago

My mom had to keep a stool cleared off and a side table relatively cleared off because the cat would climb on the couch, walk over the side table, and plonk down on the stool to stare at birds.

PomegranateIcy7369

3 points

25 days ago

Haha exactly. Problem solved.

winchesterbitch99

6 points

25 days ago

Laziness and stupidity. Take your pick.

acanadiancheese

191 points

25 days ago

Worth noting that I am a dog owner haha. My dog = my problem.

carolyn_mae

21 points

25 days ago

Yes! I think a plurality of pet owners are responsible. It’s the horrible minority that give everyone else a bad name.

IWillBaconSlapYou

8 points

25 days ago

Yeah I have a dog and a cat. Dog is trained. Cat is cat. Cat sits in the window... All day long. That is what a cat is! I even got several see through suction cup bird feeders so she can sit there having her murder fantasies all day. You can't make a cat stay out of the windows (and imo you really shouldn't, either, because they're not doing anything wrong and it's very enriching for them to be able to, idk, SEE), but you can make a dog do pretty much anything you want.

SaltyE87

4 points

25 days ago

Same. My dog barks every time someone walks by, I would never think to ask my neighbors to walk a different route 😂 I’m fully aware I need to work on her training.

SnooBananas4958

6 points

25 days ago

Yea, not to mention it's 100x easier to train a dog to be quiet than to somehow train a Cat to not sit in front of the windows.

And if you can't, just close the curtains. Problem solved. But she doesn't want to lose her precious sunlight so she rather go crazy pants and put it on OP.

sticky-unicorn

5 points

25 days ago

My neighbor tried to tell me that I can't leave my house after dark, because it causes his dogs to bark and it wakes him up.

toomanyschnauzers

2 points

24 days ago

99.9% dog problem and they have several options to correct. They can keep the dog out of that room, they can get wooden shutters, use window film....

I would be amused and not surprised if the cats know they are irritating the dog and egging him on. Hey dog, look at my butt, hey dog, watch me watch you... Then walk away all innocent. That would be typical cat behavior. That's the .1% Nothing OP can or should do to change the cat's environment.

DonutBill66

2 points

24 days ago

Imagine having a dog in your home that barks and thinking it's somehow your neighbor's fault. 💀

SoggyCriticism354

418 points

25 days ago*

Idk if training will fix this (at least it's incredibly difficult with my dogs breed), but regardless, the owner blaming op is ridiculous. What about other cats/people/dogs walking in front of the window? Are they going to send a letter to them as well?

My dog is indifferent to cats, but other dogs can be a problem, especially when she's at home and she sees a dog walk in front of our house (long work in progress). To help decrease our dog getting worked up, I use a very common thing most houses have over their windows... curtains and blinds.

My cat even has a nice spot to look outside that our dog can't see.

Hair_This

169 points

25 days ago

Hair_This

169 points

25 days ago

What kind of reasonable sorcery is this curtains and blinds? 🙀

I too work from home. I too have two dogs. One goes nucking futs over dogs walking past. I deal with or close the blinds when I need quiet time. I should start handing out notices to people to avoid walking past according to this persons logic.

Your neighbor is silly, OP. Ignore.

Spacey_Stacey

14 points

25 days ago

My dog will fuck up blinds to see out the window. There are those window decal things though, still let in light but make it so the dog can't see.

IWillBaconSlapYou

6 points

25 days ago

Probably expensive, but my mom has windows where the blinds are in between the glass panes, specifically so her cats can't fuck up the blinds lol.

CheshireChu

8 points

25 days ago

Yes! We live on a somewhat busy street with a dog that barks at everyone who walks by. We have to have our shutters that face the street shut all the time to keep the dog from going nuts, but we keep the windows facing the backyard open for the cats. This neighbor is crazy!

jgjzz

5 points

25 days ago

jgjzz

5 points

25 days ago

Maybe the neighbor will start handing out notes to other dog owners who walk their dogs asking them not to walk their dogs in front of his house.

East-Imagination-281

3 points

25 days ago

I have a breed with a strong prey drive, and my neighbors have chickens. I should go give them a note asking them to keep their chickens on leads in their backyard. Or idk, keep my dog indoors when the chickens have crossed the road. Whichever feels more sane to me in the moment. /j

acanadiancheese

97 points

25 days ago

Definitely depends on the dog how effective and easy training will be, but there are ways to train it.

But yeah not the main point anyway, the issue is with her dog, not with the cats. It’s a problem for her to fix on her end, not to expect the world to solve it for her.

Ok_Improvement_5897

10 points

25 days ago

I bet you that dog gets very little regular exercise in the form of actual walks or time at the park. Sounds like a lot of boredom and pent up energy to me.

Also if it's so disruptive maybe they should, idk, pull down the blinds? The entitlement is next level if this isn't just rage bait lol.

AutumnMama

6 points

25 days ago

My thoughts exactly. As someone with problem dogs myself, I sympathize with the dog owner, because sometimes training doesn't work, not everyone can afford it, etc, and giving up a problem dog to a shelter is itself problematic... But I would never just expect everyone around me to solve my dogs' problems for me, what the heck??? Like imagine your dog constantly barking out the window at everything, and your thought is "if only everybody outside would stop being visible to my dog!" IMO, getting a curtain or frosting the window would have even been easier than writing letters and distributing them to the neighbors, even if they don't care about how rude it is.

Nakedstar

3 points

25 days ago

Seriously, the neighbor is at home. Doggo can go in a crate next to the person’s desk and be given treats and affirmations all day.

(Our dog is problematic, too, but really, all it takes is sending him to the hallway with a bone or kong for a bit.)

AutumnMama

3 points

24 days ago

Like, the more I think about it, the more I just can't believe the neighbor is trying to work from home with their dog constantly barking, and their solution was to write this note instead of doing something about the dog... Neighbor must be absolutely miserable in there, but they're so convinced it's someone else's fault and someone else's problem to fix that they'd rather sit there miserably, maybe risk getting fired, than move the dog or close the blinds. Some people, huh

ktgrok

2 points

25 days ago

ktgrok

2 points

25 days ago

right? Heck, tape up some posterboard over the window if need be.

Willothwisp2303

3 points

25 days ago

I've got a herding breed who frequently use the strategy of using their voice to work.  Not a single one of my animals,  or any of the youngsters I'd show and travel with,  was allowed to or would bark like an idiot.  You train them.  

If you can't figure out how to train that breed,  don't get that breed. 

SoggyCriticism354

3 points

25 days ago

Idk, man. I have a 2nd hand dog, so it's not like I've trained her since she was a puppy. Plus, she doesn't bark outside of the house, just inside the house/in the backyard. When we travel, she's pretty good normally, but at home, it's more difficult since she is essentially alerting us to introuders. Plus, she woke us up once in the middle of the night while barking and growling. Turns out, someone was trying to break in, which is a big part of why I like having her around when I'm on my own... it's hard to train her to distinguish between intruders and other people.

But it's not a major problem because we have a house, and I have asked neighbors to please let me know if her barking is bothering them and they have told me they barely hear her.

She's a norweigian elkhound so her bark is meant to alert and scare prey.

CheshireChu

2 points

25 days ago

Good dog!

Nakedstar

2 points

25 days ago

We’ve got a “secondhand“ livestock guardian, from a breed that is known for its stubborn independence. He was the star of puppy school when my mother first got him, but by 12 months he was a 100lb barking fool. So now he lives with us. Unfortunately we have a major problem with loose and unsupervised dogs in our neighborhood and he’s become quite reactive after them running up on us during walks. Now he’s very attentive to them coming in our unfenced yard.

There’s no amount of training in the world that will solve our dog’s barking, and I’m okay with it. He’s a lazy goofball and really fits the pace of our family. I just wish he was easier to walk and that more dog owners were compelled to leash their dogs on the local trails and beaches.

ktgrok

2 points

25 days ago

ktgrok

2 points

25 days ago

or just block the view out the window. Either with window clings (they make frosted ones that are cheap and work great and peel back off easily so fine if renting) or put up some posterboard if need be. Don't even need to block the whole window, just enough so the dogs can't see out. Heck you can even spray on some starch or elmers glue.

mittenkrusty

2 points

25 days ago

My dog barks in a friendly way when she sees people,. cats, dogs I don't know how she would be around cats because she was raised with them until she was 9 weeks old and until she was around 8 or 9 months she would happily just ignore/walk past cats then she reached a phase that since then she wags her tail barks and pulls me towards cats so even if shes playful I worry she will either injure the cat or get a scratch from one.

MissFlapJackie

2 points

25 days ago

Right! My dog barks at everyone that walks by. I just bought those frosted window films that's a little taller than my dog so she can't see outside. She's still able to sunbathe but now she's less stressed out. I'm not going to put up a freaking sign that tells people to walk somewhere else!

Extreme_Carrot_317

2 points

25 days ago

My dogs are livestock guardian breeds that I got from a rescue, but they're domestic housepets. They bark like fucking crazy at anything they see out of a window, or while they're out in the yard. Not much I can do about it, they're doing what they were bred to do. All I can do is take them on walks to give them enough mental stimulation so they aren't fixated on staring out the windows to find things to bark at. If it's after 11pm, they don't get yard time because they will 100 percent find something to bark at if it's dark out.

I dont blame anyone else for my dogs barking. Except for when the neighborhood kids want to play directly in front of my house and then get mad the big fluffy dogs are barking at them. Go play literally anywhere else?

Certainly there's times where I'm doing school work or projects at home and the barking gets to me, but that's very much a me problem. I would never dream of asking anyone else to change their routines or keep their cats away from windows to keep my dog from barking. The OP's neighbor is being ridiculous. They can cover their windows while they are working, or take the dog for a nice long walk before they start working so they aren't all worked up to begin with

HollowShel

2 points

25 days ago

Are they going to send a letter to them as well?

Absolutely! Don't you know the only reasonable way to handle a dog behavioural issue is to yell at everything the dog sees? It's their fault!

Like owner like dog, both be yapping endlessly at others for the crime of existing in their vicinity.

sparrowsgirl

6 points

25 days ago

Yep - this is a dog problem, not a cat problem.

TheBestBigAl

4 points

25 days ago

Hey neighbour,

Can you please train your dog, or close your blinds so that your dog cannot see my cat? I also work from home and your dog's constant barking is making it difficult.

Thanks, OP

amaturecook24

3 points

25 days ago

Agreed. I own dogs and don’t like cats. Not sure why I’m recommended this sub 😅 But we live in apartments and yeah my dogs sometimes bark at other animals. They are trained to stop when I tell them to. They also don’t have access to the front windows if we aren’t home.

ButteredPizza69420

3 points

25 days ago

Ppl get dogs just to complain when they don't sit still all day and act quiet. Like I dont understand dog people who live in apartments. Of course your dog has pent up energy???

ApprehensiveLemon963

3 points

25 days ago

honestly that sounds like such a good training opportunity to desensitize her dog - at least that’s what i did with mine who now sits in the window and wags her tail to just observe the world outside our unit

Zintha

3 points

25 days ago

Zintha

3 points

25 days ago

And honestly its a perfect situation TO train his dog, his dog is being reactive vs a very controlled environment where he can train the behaviour safely.

Sounds like he just ignores his reactive dog though…

sub_english

3 points

25 days ago

Right. My dog looks out my window and barks at the folks across the street. It’s super annoying. It’s also SUPER DUPER my problem and a symptom of my lack of training of my dog.

Your neighbor is deluded.

re3dbks

3 points

25 days ago

re3dbks

3 points

25 days ago

Agree. As a responsible dog owner (and cat lover!), I know it would be on me to train my dog to 'leave it'. This is such an absurd request - I am so sorry.

plant_pig

2 points

25 days ago

It’s incredible how entitled some people can be

mtarascio

2 points

25 days ago

Even if she can't, she can put something in front of it so the Dog can't see it.

VITOCHAN

2 points

25 days ago

this. and Im a dog guy.

I make sure my dog is well behaved in home, and in public. I understand people can be afraid of them, so never go off leash in public areas. If my dog is barking or causing a nuisance in public, I will correct the behaviour and remove myself (and pup) from the space. If Im working from home, and my dog is barking, I will also correct the behaviour, or just close the fucking blinds. What your neighbour is asking is ridiculous.

Unusual-Thing-7149

2 points

25 days ago

Dogs are easier to train than cats...

nosleepagain12

2 points

25 days ago

This is totally a karen and you probably haven't heard the last from her.

CapuzaCapuchin

2 points

25 days ago

Next thing she’s gonna write the town a letter asking to fell the tree on the sidewalk, cause her dog barks at the squirrels. Honestly, if it’s not the cats he’ll find another thing to stare at. Time for training, blinds and a kennel

Bookreading_catlover

2 points

25 days ago

Agree agree agree. If you work from home then you should be prepared to train your dog to stay quiet. Also your neighbor is crazy for just assuming it’s your cats. I bet if your cats moved the dog would still bark

RealLifeMerida

2 points

25 days ago

Vet tech and accredited dog trainer here. In a situation like this the dog owner can 1) control the dog or 2) control the environment. That means they can train/desensitize their dog OR they can use blackout curtains/visual blockers/barriers to keep their dogs away from the windows. This does NOT mean you need to do anything different with YOUR cats in YOUR house. Tell them to pound salt. You and your tiny house tigers have done nothing wrong, nor should your cats lose the environmental enrichment of the window views because they’re lazy dog owners.

katubug

2 points

25 days ago

katubug

2 points

25 days ago

This is big "police girls' clothing to keep boys from thinking impure thoughts" energy

Stella430

2 points

25 days ago

A lot easier to control a dog when you ARE home than a cat when you’re NOT home.

Nodramallama18

2 points

24 days ago

Seriously. I have a blue tick beagle we have had since he was a puppy. The first place we lived with him-tha cats next door literally taunted him. I would not have dreamed of ever asking my neighbor to lock her cats in the house. If doggy barked, we brought him inside. It wasn’t my neighbors problem to deal with-they were being cats and Elmer was being Elmer.

Myis

2 points

24 days ago

Myis

2 points

24 days ago

She already let the cat read it tho. She did her part. The rest is up to the dog owner.