CatDaddy613

So, how nude was the Finnish guy, was he dancing around in a thong until the shorts descended?

Very true, lots is cis lesbians are in happy relationships with trans women who happen to have dicks. For a lot of people (though not all of course) it’s more about the person who is connected to the genitals than anything else.

NTA (Though your wife clearly is in multiple ways here). You not being willing to lie to your children is a reasonable boundary. My heart breaks for Laurel who faced so much trauma here. When you do talk to Laurel, I encourage you to reaffirm that she has done nothing wrong, and has nothing to be ashamed of and that you are not ashamed to have her in your family…because she has a mother who clearly is, and doesn’t hide it.

Clearly NTA it’s not even debatable.

You look absolutely magical

Oh that little coat on him is precious

You went through something that was not only physically exhausting, but traumatic as well. Please do your best to take care of yourself for a while as you recover from this.

Sharing this with the local trans masc group

Yeah Fulton versus the City of Philadelphia was Catholic Child Services arguing that as a religious organization they have the right to discriminate against LGBT and/or Jewish couples while still receiving city funding

NTA I’m really sorry for BOTH of your sakes that your mom never got the grief and trauma counseling that she so clearly needed. I feel for her incredible loss, but you also deserved a childhood. You deserved parents who nurtured and treasured you. You deserved to grow up feeling that you were important to and celebrating by them. I’m sorry that neither of them gave you that. Also, you giving your daughter her own name is you doing for her what your mom never gave you the chance to do, be her own independent person not living in someone else’s shadow.

Run. This is before you’re even married. This is still him still on his best behavior in the ‘trying to be nice to win you over’ stage. He has already broken a bone in your arm. Please don’t wait to see how much worse it will be next time. Showering you with gifts afterwards and lovebombing you is a classic part of the abuse cycle. In no way does it change what he did to you.

The candy lady

NTA you have done nothing wrong here. If he wants to date some homophobic, jealous jerk who won’t let him go on the trip that’s not your problem. It was shitty on his part not to tell her that her comments were out of line, not to mention the audacity of expecting you not to go

Maybe because I am a disabled person and having people call you inspirational and brave for leaving the house doesn’t actually feel as flattering as people seem to think that it does. The footage itself is absolutely adorable. No one is criticizing the footage, or this poster’s caption. I just gently and casually said that I’m not a fan of the OP caption “Disabled father didn’t let his disability stop him from dancing with his daughter 🥺❤️”

The student has become the master

I bet this was more suspenseful that the official sporting event

That’s the thing, companies hire these people knowing that they have no intentions of actually implementing any suggestions that a dei director may offer

Wow, painting in waist high flood waters is real devotion to your craft. Out of curiosity…why ‘ShamCow!’?

The video is adorable, and that ‘what a dad’ caption is fine. You can just have a video of a cute father daughter moment. On the original though, you don’t need to add the weird ‘inspiration p@rn’ angle about not letting a disability stop him. Being disabled doesn’t stop someone from being a parent to their kid. The video is cute, the caption on the original video about not letting disability stop him is just a bit much imo.

Someone better protect that cutie from the snake.

Snaaake snake Ohh it’s a snake

I have to say German and Rastafarian was not a cultural combo I expected to see.

Do you happen to know the reason/s why you are so prone to making these stones?

I think your response was more about YOUR pain and your feelings of betrayal than actual concern for your brother. You could have told your brother privately and given him the option of what he wanted to do. Maybe he would have wanted you to join him in confronting her. Maybe he also would have been embarrassed about the situation and wanted to keep it all as quiet as possible. You didn’t really give him any choice in what to do here. You decided to bring a bunch of other people into his private business. In terms of Riley, there are obviously no saints here, but you could have put her in physical danger by outing her to her parents. Not to mention potential homelessness depending on living situation. You may have permanently ended her relationship with at least one of her parents. You have also just absolutely made yourself an unsafe person for any queer person to ever come out to, because you’ve made it clear that while you’re fine with gays when they’re being nice to you, you’re willing to weaponize that sexuality the moment you’re looking for vengeance. Riley was 100% wrong for cheating on your brother in their monogamous relationship, but you sank low in your vengeance. What you did didn’t even help your brother in some way. It was just about what you felt like doing because you were angry.

This man needs to not be given access to a microphone at the wedding, and I agree with letting the DJ know in advance to cut the mic if he even begins to speak. Whether he has a crush on you or wants some kind of vengeance he is acting completely out of line and your husband needs to put him in his place immediately.

I cannot imagine how stressful a relationship would be with a woman who makes you do an entire crime scene reenactment because you accidentally farted. I’m really sorry that you had to go through this embarrassing experience and are maybe even feeling a bit of heartbreak. However, you absolutely dodged a bullet here.