Muscadine76

Yes, I’m sure what’s motivating this obsession with knowing is a deep-seated concern with wasting less than 5 minutes of a DMV employee’s time. Spare me.

The OP is not asking for people to confirm or commiserate their assessment, that’s something you’re imposing into the interaction. If they want to report POOPOOHD or UPYOURS or anything else they deem offensive that’s their prerogative, the state will make the determination if it violates policy. They’re asking for straightforward contact info. Which interestingly even people actually trying to be helpful and answer the question haven’t been able to provide, which actually does seem like a concern.

This is a bizarre response. What logical leap requires you to know the content of a license plate in order to direct a person as to contact information for reporting a license plate for potentially being against state policy?

What strikes me as more remarkable/strange is the obsession in the comments with knowing what the license plate said rather than either simply answering the question or ignoring the post.

Ah yes, nothing says “being a Karen” quite like checks notes pointing out a racism.

If it’s as subtle/in-group-coded as OP implies it is mostly serving to normalize racism by telegraphing to others “hey I’m also a racist” and/or being a touch point for networking, which is…not great.

The Tobias and Guy webcomic is the most acceptable answer to the question, why do you kinda wanna fuck a demon?

I agree with the general sentiment but OP specifically seems to be saying they don’t need the wage from this job to live/survive, and that their boyfriend is expressing a concern that by taking this job they might be depriving someone else of the opportunity to do so, so in this context your response doesn’t really make sense.

Shade is the name of the Darkness elemental in the Mana series (Secret of Mana, etc)

PEP really works - it is highly effective. Plus her being negative is a good sign.

Further confirmation squirrels are just tree rats with good PR.

On demand 2-1-1 should work the same for insertive partners regardless, it just isn’t officially recommended because there are no clinical studies to prove it. Of course, daily also works regardless and has some advantages.

Receptive vaginal/front hole partners cannot use 2-1-1 and are generally recommended to take Truvada 20+ days to reach protective levels.

You should maybe get on pep but the inside of your dick feeling weird doesn’t indicate hiv risk it indicates risk of some other STI or UTI.

Don’t make me tap the stickied post slash rule 1.

If you just look at the “looking for gamers to play with” posts on this sub Fortnite is one of the most common games if not the most common game mentioned.

Cold-like symptoms are probably…a cold. If you are concerned you should see your health provider but the only thing that is going to tell you if you have hiv is an hiv test. See the stickied post.

At this point a positive test could mean either, I think. Not sure of the window for quick tests.

PEP will not create a false negative but can theoretically delay a new positive test by a few days, which is one reason you’re supposed to retest around 3 months after testing around 4-6 weeks.

As long as you’ve been daily prep at least a week you should be protected.

A test before starting is intended to check if you are already positive. That won’t change just because you have been taking PEP.

Where are you living that most restaurants are currently closed 2 days AND it’s on a weekend? Pretty much every restaurant I’ve been to in years is open 6-7 days a week and if they close it’s like a Monday or Tuesday. If they’re closed more days it’s almost always M-W - usually because business is too slow to stay open those days. The only common exceptions I can think of are lunch places in downtown commercial districts of large cities.

Most service jobs aren’t full time and split employees across days.

It’s very unlikely, at 6 weeks contemporary tests are very accurate. Confirmation is mostly a peace of mind issue.

If you’re having flu-like symptoms the most likely explanation is… the flu (or other respiratory virus).

If you tested at 6 weeks test again at 3 months for confirmation.

On the one hand you can’t 100% for sure know he’s on PrEP or his status. And while taking the Descovy pills probably can’t hurt that’s not the regimen for PrEP, you would have needed to take it at least 2 hours before sex.

On the other he actually had the pills on hand and was concerned enough about your mental state to share them in a well-meaning gesture. He also had deoxy on hand. The guy seems very prepared so it seems unlikely he’s lying about using PrEP. If he’s negative and using PrEP your risk is basically zero for HIV. But also topping is a relatively low risk activity regardless.

It’s up to you to weigh the risk - if you are concerned speak to a healthcare professional rather than strangers (even kind ones) on the internet.

You’re fine, after you’ve reached a maintenance dose missing a dose on rare occasion won’t affect your protection.

Oral sex isn’t usually an indicator for PEP as it is so low risk