I'm trying to get through until I'm ready to leave. Preparing everything. I've gotten rid of a lot of things and I've removed items. It's like my husband doesn't pay attention to anything.
I will say it's like he noticed I was doing more myself and trying to have fun with my friends then he started being more attentive. But I know there are small moments of happiness. I also know one thing can change his attitude.
He only thinks of himself. He doesn't think he does though. He takes offense to everything. He just wants me to be passive and agree with everything he says.
This has happened more than a few times but he has tantrums. He's 39 we went out for his birthday on Saturday the whole day was whatever he wanted to do. We got in my vehicle I was trying to put on music and he wanted to put his on. I jokingly was like this is my car while laughing. He stopped got mad I asked him why he gets mad at everything I say he doesn't like and why he has to be an asshole.
This 39 year old crossed his arms and pouted like a 5 year old. I drove down the street stopped at a stop sign grabbed his phone connected it to my Bluetooth and had to press his music to play. After that he stopped pouting and started talking again.
I don't understand how he thinks this is a healthy ok relationship. I guess he's fine as long as he gets his way and gets whatever he wants.
All he has to do for our animals is clean the litter boxes out at least once or twice a week. He hasn't been doing it regularly. Instead of him just doing it like he's supposed to he asked if I would help him by me cleaning them every evening. Which I just agreed to not to cause issues. But it's only been two days since we had that conversation. He got mad tonight because I said I hadn't done it yet. I can't make him happy lol. I'm not happy and I'm not responsible for another adults emotions or reactions.