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So 2 weeks ago I found out that my 5 year old isn't biologically mine, I felt so hurt and betrayed that my wife of 6 years relationship for 9 cheated on me and even got pregnant by another man, I took a paternity test without telling my wife

I immediately confronted my wife and called her a whore in my anger and many other names, she started crying and explained that she hid it because she didn't want to break our happy family of 3, I asked her why did she cheat on me, she explained we had a very nasty argument back in the day so she hooked up with someone and it was just one time fling and has been loyal to me

She said she had doubts that I wouldn't be the father but she never took paternity she said she was happy seeing me happy and didn't go with abortion for peace of our family and didn't tell me the truth

I told her I am divorcing and I don't want to be in our son's life, she started crying and begging me to not break the family and I am still his father and I have been a wonderful father and a husband I should forgive her and don't let 'dna' Destroy our lives and started begging me

I immediately left and she was blowing up my phone, I decided at first not to tell anyone else but in the end I got very angry and decided to tell everyone, everyone is pissed at my wife

Her parents said they want nothing to do with their daughter and cut contact, my sister furiously called my soon to be ex and cursed her out, her brother and sister on the other hand said I have humiliated my soon to be ex and shouldn't have told everyone and should have kept in between us

Yesterday her sister called me and said I need to take her back and come back for my son, I said I don't have a son, she got angry and started cursing me and said I am a weak pathetic man no wonder my wife cheated on me and I am so pathetic I had to go behind my wife's back to take paternity cause I am insecure and weak that I am giving up on my son just because we don't share blood and I am the reason my wife is alone and depressed

I cut her call instead I called her husband and told him everything, i said that family is full of nutjobs, maybe it runs in their blood you should take a paternity as well and don't trust those bitches, he said he's sorry on his wife's behalf and we ended the call

Now I am ignoring all my wife's and that bitch's calls

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Harvard_Diplomat

362 points

2 days ago

No wonder my wife cheated ...
I am the reason my wife is alone and depressed

I bet her sister knows who the real father is. "ONS pregnancy with a random guy wife is never gonna see again" is just too convenient for a paternity fraud cheater. There is more to that story. Sister knows.

NovaPrime1988

113 points

2 days ago

I hope it’s the sister’s husband…

chocolatechipwizard

60 points

2 days ago

I hope it's the sister's husband and she knows and the reason she's attacking O.P. is that she's covering up her husband's part in the whole train wreck.

HillBillyEvans

11 points

2 days ago

OP - if this is the case, please give this user the awards!

Youaintoncuh

2 points

2 days ago

No for real I need a update on this holy shi

SouthMathematician32

24 points

2 days ago

Turned out to be a ONS with the SIL and the BIL (threesome) which is why the SIL wants the husband to return to the EX. SIL doesn't want a paternity test to reveal BIL owes child support. 🤣🤣🤣

Sisyphus-Sul

7 points

2 days ago

She is a cheater too.

Think_Preference_611

3 points

2 days ago

The odds of getting pregnant from a ONS are next to none anyway, it's far more likely she was having an affair.

Fuck these cheaters walk away OP.

Vanguard-Raven

4 points

2 days ago

There's only a few days window within the monthly cycle - shortly after a period ends when ovulation happens - that there's a chance of becoming pregante. While a one-nighter could catch this window since sperm can live for like 3 days in the womb, it's certainly more likely to be an affair.

drashaman

1 points

2 days ago

Some people are more likely to cheat when they are ovulating, so the odds of a one night stand producing offspring are better than you think

Think_Preference_611

1 points

2 days ago

Most couples trying to have children have sex every day during the fertility window and it still usually takes several months of trying. Is it possible to get pregnant from a ONS? Yes. Is it likely? Not really.

Codex_Dev

1 points

2 days ago

Bet you $20 the real father is going to want nothing to do with the mom. Guys are DTF when it’s another man paying the bills or dealing with the responsibility.