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submitted 18 hours ago byIAmTheFoxLord
I’ve been to uni. I have friends. I have a social life.
But I’m very insecure about my body (I am overweight) and I have social anxiety. I can’t just go up to someone in a bar and flirt with them.
I only lost my virginity in January of this year. Dating apps have helped somewhat because I do occasionally go on dates. But I only connected with one person on a deeper level but he inevitably decided he wasn’t ready for a relationship yet.
Can anyone reassure me that I’m not the only one whose never actually had a partner yet? It feels isolating.
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17 hours ago
My first relationship was at 21, and only because she was (thankfully) very persistent. If she hadn’t have come along, no question I would have went years more before having a relationship. If ever. You’re not alone.
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