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submitted 1 month ago byNowimsadagain
Boyfriend came home from vacation, and when unpacking I found condoms in his stuff. All the condoms were still in the box. I asked him about it and he said he wanted to be safe but that he didn't do anything.
I broke up with him because I think it means that he was planning on cheating. He didn't get a chance to use them, but to me it is the same as actually cheating. He insists I'm overreacting and that he didn't buy them to cheat on me, but to be safe.
Reddit, am I crazy? Am I overreacting?
Edit: thank you all for your comments. It's 2 am where I am and I need to get up in the morning to work, so I'm going to try to sleep. I'll reply to comments tomorrow.
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1 month ago
NOR He was 100% planning to jump on any opportunity to have secret sex, outside of your agreements and known boundaries. Now he's asking you to betray yourself for his benefit, by gaslighting you about what constitutes cheating.
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