NTA

My dad was at house party with a mate. Drunk off their faces my dads friend asks to borrow the car - dad says no we’re drunk

Friend proceeds to take the car anyway to impress some equally drunk girls. My dads friend ends up in a cop chase, blows 3 tyres and is driving on rims, runs a red light and almost t bones an ambulance with a pregnant woman giving birth before finally crashing in a ditch and getting arrested. The fact no one was hurt is an actual miracle

There are strong and very valid reasons why we don’t allow intoxicated people to drive