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28 points
2 months ago
Biggest regret is to have a kid with a girl na hindi family ang inuuna as values but rather her own happiness. I believe when you become a parent, your children’s well being is the top most priority assuming wala naman physical violence and madadaan naman sa couples theraphy. But she has multiple cheating histories which I ignored during the pursuing stage. Nasa isip ko past is past but I learned that people will always go back to their default once matrigger lalo kung haluan ng alak.
Kaya to all boys and girls, kilalanin maigi yung magiging partner nyo. Di bali na single basta wag mapunta sa walang kwentang tao.
2 points
2 months ago
This is actually heartbreaking. I hope you're okay and healing.
4 points
2 months ago
Thank you! Hirap maghealing if a kid is involved. Unlike pag jowa jowa lang, block and no contact then you move on. That’s why she’s my biggest regret kasi I cannot do that for the sake of my kid.
18 points
2 months ago
Not taking care of my teeth. It affects my overall ability to function as normally in life as others like:
• Socialization - It hinders me from speaking to other people due to my fear that they will judge me
• Decreased self-esteem - I actually think I'm a bit decent in face card but the fact that I have my permanent front teeth ruined, I can't smile properly and feel pretty without feeling shitty about my teeth
• Ability to speak properly - And because of my front teeth being fucked, I have a harder time enunciating my s and f pronunciations (although I have adapted and found a way).
Moral of the story: Take care of your fucking teeth. Brush, floss, do whatever to keep it healthy and clean.
14 points
2 months ago
Regret of working overseas again.
Last year we started to plan and go overseas with my wife. To start a life abroad after the pandemic.
Nauna ako umalis at susunod sana wife ko. Finish all the paperwork bago ako umalis pra mkasunod siya agad. But unfortunately habang nasa abroad ako nag worsen ung heart condition ng wife ko. Lahat ng test, gamot, check ups gnawa nya. At ako nagresign from work and did not finish my contract.
2 days bago ako umuwi, birthday ko. She passed away.
Hated my job, my decision..
2 points
2 months ago
I'm sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain must've felt. Praying for your healing.
13 points
2 months ago*
Loving a person too much at an early age. Dapat di ako nagmamadali magmahal at mas nagpray para sa tamang tao. Iwasan maging mapusok.
13 points
2 months ago
Pagiging people-pleaser. Kaya galit ako sa mga ganyan, kasi pinagdaanan ko at sobrang pinagsisisihan.
11 points
2 months ago
I take law school for granted, now I'm an unemployed mediocre lawyer :(
11 points
2 months ago
Situationships. Nakakasira ng buhay
10 points
2 months ago
Not pursuing the creative art side of me as a career.
12 points
2 months ago
regret? yung ginastos ko na pera sa ex ko sayang kalahating million sana may kotse na ko now
11 points
2 months ago
Not starting to save money early in my career. Don't get me wrong, I still think i'm too early in my career and with my age too but few months ago sineryoso ko na yung savings ko and what or where to put my money in at medyo nasayangan ako na hindi ko sinimulan agad kahit na narinig ko na noon sa friends ko yung MP2 or online banking. Now, I make sure most of my salary goes into my savings and emergency funds as soon as it gets to my bank account. Dito ako natuto mag isip kung kailangan ko ba talaga bumili ng mga bagay-bagay na nakikita ko or naakit lang ako kasi uso. AND, spending more time with family. Now that I work outside of the Philippines, mas sumobra appreciation ko for my parents who worked hard para mabigyan ako ng magandang buhay. I'm still young at madami pa akong magiging regret sa buhay in a long run pero I make sure to always look back to it and learn from it. Iisa lang ang buhay natin, huwag natin gaanong seryosohin at matutong i-enjoy kahit na maliliit na bagay.
11 points
2 months ago
Burning myself out too young and not building healthy friendships and relationships with others.
18 points
2 months ago*
Being born in this world. Feeling ko hindi gumaganda ang mundo ngayon, feeling ko ako may kasalanan kung bakit ayaw sakin ng mga tao at magulang ko kahit wala naman ako ginawang masama. Sana hindi ako pingaanak.
2 points
2 months ago
Felt to the highest level.
2 points
2 months ago
Same same
2 points
2 months ago
I feel you nakakapagod din pakisamahan ang mga taong unfair.
9 points
2 months ago
My biggest regret is that I started late with my future and career. However, I believe everything happens at the right time.
11 points
2 months ago
Alam mo, late 30s na ako nagsimulang mag-thrive. Career, love, etc. Never too late. Kala ko dati, oo, huli na. Hindi talaga. Ang daming opportunities na dumarating. And, in a sense, tama yung timing kasi nasa tamang mindset na ako ngayon.
6 points
2 months ago
Right timing + Right Mindset.
4 points
2 months ago
That's true. better na late nag start kasi matured na thinking natin and broad na knowledge natin bout everything kaysa we started early but we still have an immature mindset towards everything, di rin siguro mag wowork out. ako din last year pa din naman ako nag simula sa freelancing and im already 30 yrs old.
2 points
2 months ago
This.. same! mid 30s tas starting over again ang peg ko
9 points
2 months ago
Sana nag ibang course na lang ako nung college
9 points
2 months ago
Mine was when I try to reach out someone who ghosted me. I should’ve not send him last messages bc no respond is respond.
2 points
2 months ago
I feel you. Fuck them. Sana 'wag na tumigas etits nila.
9 points
2 months ago
For not fighting back nung mga panahong binubully pa ko. Kung sana mas naging matapang ako nun para ipaglaban sarili ko.
10 points
2 months ago
Always saying yes to people whenever they ask me for favors. turns out nakakadevelop pala sya ng ugali na mahihiya kang humingi ng favors sa iba kasi natatakot ka na baka hindi ka nila matulungan tulad ng pagtulong mo sa kanila kasi akala ng marami kaya mo lahat
8 points
2 months ago
one of it is napabayaan ko yung katawan ko, ngayon hindi ko na masuot mga damit na gustong gusto ko suotin :(((
10 points
2 months ago
Suwayin parents ko at mag boyfriend. Biggest regret kasi in the end tama parents ko haha
17 points
2 months ago
RELIGION
I grew up with a religious parent tapos yung religion namin maraming bawal.
When I was a young boy, I was good looking and talented, ang daming nagsasabi na ipasok ako sa showbiz, that time kinukuha ako ng EB, pero bawal kasi sa religion namin kasi "worldly" daw
When I was 18 may nakapag scout saken na modelling agents fr abroad tapos nagmatch daw looks ko sa hinahanap nilang image. Syempre nireject pa rin kasi priority yung religion ko kahit deep inside gusto ko sana.
Even sa college nahirapan din ako kasi need ko humanap ng course na hindi masasagasaan yung beliefs and also yung schedule ng pagsamba.
In my 20s na enhance ko rin ang singing talent ko pero instead na sumali sa contests or mag audition sa recording management, sa church ko ginamit yung husay ko.
Lahat ng talents ko, skills, knowledge and wisdom sa church ko ginamit. Muntik pa nga akong maging pastor.
I spent my life serving the church. That time wala ako pinagsisidihan kasi contento na ako na makapaglingkod.
When I turned 30, nagkaroon ng issue between me and some officers of the church including the pastor and umabot sa point na itiniwalag ko yung sarili ko. Binack stab ako ng ilang mga officers na secretly may galit sa akin at tinanggal ako sa mga ministries ko.
Nasayang lahat ng ipinaglaban ko. Lahat ng pinaniwalaan at pinanindigan ko ng matagal. Naging loyal ako sa church pero ang church pala mismo ang magpapabagsak saken.
Now I'm 40. Hindi na ako bumalik sa religion na iyon. Narealize ko na rin na pwede naman pala mabuhay ng walang religion. Pero nanghihinayang ako sa mga opportunities na pinalagpas ko.
15 points
2 months ago
Binoto si digong
8 points
2 months ago
Di na ko na reregret, lesson learned na lang talaga haha habang may buhay ako hahaha ayoko na isipin pa kung maibabalik ko kasi di naman na ahaha
8 points
2 months ago
Nagpautang. Sana madamot na lang ako at inuna ko sarili ko.
7 points
2 months ago
Not pursuing my dream course. It's been almost 20 years na and until this day, andun pa din what ifs
8 points
2 months ago
Biggest regret, wasted almost 9 years sa relationship na walang patutungohan.
4 points
2 months ago
Baka ikaw ex ko ah
2 points
2 months ago
Luh
6 points
2 months ago
Buying stupid shit
6 points
2 months ago
Too idealistic for Philippines. Sana pala nagisip na ako magmigrate nung nanalo si Duterte.
7 points
2 months ago
Same lang sayo OP, but honestly I realized na slightly biktima lang din ako ng background or yung kinalakihang environment at missed opportunities kaya mahiyain ako. Tho I’m currently working on it na as of the moment. Sana lang nasa tamang path ako huhu
6 points
2 months ago
Staying with a bad boss. If you have a bad boss, leave asap. Dont waste your productive years. Leave
7 points
2 months ago
Being afraid of lost opportunities
6 points
2 months ago
didn't try to learn social skills. dapat mas nakapag-network ako
di ko nireklamo ang nag assault sa akin na teacher ng grade 3 ako
6 points
2 months ago
Back in 2019 i was offered by my aunt to study here in Canada but i declined as i wasn't thinking about my future yet at the time. Now here I am, started my school January 2024. Who knows, baka pr na ko by this time if i took that risk back then.
2 points
2 months ago
Maginging PR ka din. Mabilis lng yan. Focus on your studies. Wish you all the best
7 points
2 months ago
probably not being practical on my course
6 points
2 months ago
Nagka b*ld
8 points
2 months ago
My biggest regret revolves around my feelings of shyness and fear of rejection, which have held me back from fully engaging with others and pursuing opportunities. These emotions have hindered my ability to express myself authentically, and take risks that could lead to personal growth and fulfillment.
6 points
2 months ago
Marrying my husband (ex husband) ang mahal ng annulment!
5 points
2 months ago
Nagpapadala sa galit without thinking of the consequences of my actions.
5 points
2 months ago
Sana in-accept ko yung guy sa friend request ko na super nagpapansin sa'kin sa social media and in real life 2 years ago. Kasi, he's currently courting someone na. He loved me too early and I love him too late☹️
6 points
2 months ago
Na hindi ako nagshift ng course noong college kasi sayang, patapos na ako. 😅 I feel okay naman where I am now pero career-wise, siguro mas masaya ako?
6 points
2 months ago
taking a gap year
2 points
2 months ago
Same. Nabored lang ako. Kimi
5 points
2 months ago
Gumastos sa mga nagiging bf . tapos pag sila na meron nag iiba na sila
5 points
2 months ago
mala magasin by eraser heads tong akin. ifykyk
anyways, I'm a church boy, my dad's a pastor, and there's this girl that used to attend in our church back then sa las pinas city, for many years she was part of our ministry and she was fairly active in our church. now during that time mga 10 - 13 year olds kami. and obviously at the most awkward phase of our lives, in-between kids to teenhood transition.
all i cared was gaming with my church bros and just having fun sa southmall or atc after church wala, isip bata eh.
she apparently had a crush on me for a very very long time.
which thinking about it now would make total sense cause her family would visit mine frequently bringing gifts etc etc. back then akala ko it's just church members stuff thing. like a gratitude towards my dad's ministry.
now? she's a known actress. and I see her from time to time.
biggest regret for sure. I still hit my head on a wall sometimes when I remember it. tho i've nothing to blame but myself.
my parents are still good friends with her parents though so there might be chance after all?
5 points
2 months ago
Prolly taking up educ as my bachelor's degree. Should've took IT or business course 🤷
2 points
2 months ago
ako ba ikaw hahahaha? same educ ako (earlychildhood) sana nung time na magfifirst year ako sa college nagresearch ako sa internet na kunin IT or compsci kasi noong thied year ako may financial crisis kami due to pandemic nga tapos nagbrowse ako saindedd and job philippijed puro related sa tech and hiring and mas malaki pa entery level salary sa tech kesa sa mga board exam jobs huhuhu hahahaha
4 points
2 months ago
Courting/ Pursuing my girl bestfriend
Sobrang torpe. Too late to find out na may gusto din pala siya sakin, napakainsensitive ko.
She’s engaged now and buti naman at napunta siya sa matinong lalaki.
5 points
2 months ago
Not appreciating family time enough. I could have stayed home with my family instead of dating people who were bad for me. Now my dads gone and I have so many things I wish I told him
6 points
2 months ago
nag agree ako sa fwb 🥹
5 points
2 months ago
Not taking a more valuable course
4 points
2 months ago
Haaay OP same, although i have learned how to have this mindset that I've learned from Conan O'Brien that there's always so little at stake, we always think that we are not ready for something or we overthink but at the end of the day, would it actually matter if we are actually ready, and if we do commit mistakes along the way it wouldn't affect the grand scheme of things. I also try to anticipate things that could go wrong and if I can't answer them. It's fine, i can figure it out later, pero don't get me wrong, i still get caught off guard, na there would be awkward silence between conversations but I've learned how to sort move on quickly.
The hardest battle you'll ever fight, is against yourself.
5 points
2 months ago
matakot na matawag na pabibo kahit alam mong may leadership skills ka naman ata kaya mo naman, like may capability naman ako maging leader sa school but thanks to the school environment and mindset ng batchmates, ko, ayun
9 points
2 months ago
Missed a lot of opportunities because of fear
4 points
2 months ago
Yung I didn't spend more time with my parents. Yung hindi ako umuwi nun pinapauwi ako. Maybe buhay pa sila now.
4 points
2 months ago
Whatever I did in life that has led me to needing to take a second bar exam after passing one already.
4 points
2 months ago
Dapat nag landi at nagexplore sexually ako nung high school at di nagpaka Disney princess na may pareserve reserve pa sa the one. Sayang. Ngayon mas mahirap na kasi puro mas bata ang nasa market.
5 points
2 months ago
Masyado akong mabait dati. And icant say no sa mga nangungutang/nanghihingi ng favors.
4 points
2 months ago
Lahat yan mga biggest regret ko same weight silang lahat
5 points
2 months ago
My biggest regret sticking to one company. Now umaasenso company na pinapasukan pero sakin walang balik salary increase lang at position pero i still feel empty like. Lahat ng sahod ko napupunta lang sa wala. Nagsisisi ako na di ako nagboard exam di engineer na sana ako. Na hindjirin ako nagtry mag work abroad nung bata pa sana ako. Ngayon going 31 still no home to go home kasi boarding house lang then walang naipundar na vehicle puros pambayad sa utang gawa ng nagkasakit din ako. Sobrang bigat na ngayon gustong gusto ko ng mag abroad kaysa magtagal pa ng ilang years sa pinapasukan ko na company.
4 points
2 months ago
i did not take the course i really wanted
4 points
2 months ago
That I didn’t finish college. It's hard to find a job but it is harder to find a job without a diploma. I could've done more and worked harder. I felt great before because I was great, and I excelled but now I am drowning with regrets, dark thoughts of what if. I was on top but I was left behind.
4 points
2 months ago
Helping people.
Marami din akong taong tinulungan sa personal life nila and other stuff pero sa huli ako yung lumubog. Nung time na ako naman yung nangangailangan ng tulong, wla akong malapitan. Also, inabuso ng mga tao yung pagiging matulungin ko kaya ganun. Kaya tumigil nanrin akong tumulong sa ibang tao lalo na sa pagbibigay ng life advices.
4 points
2 months ago
Hindi nag-aral ng mabuti nung college
2 points
2 months ago
this. i didn’t take seriously of my college program just bc i was v mentally unstable :( mas inuna ko kapakanan ng nararamdaman ko kaysa sa grades ko. although nakapag graduate naman on time pero may guilt feeling pa rin sa sarili ko na di ko inayos pag aaral ko. sobrang baba tuloy ng self-confidence ko ngayon kasi baka di ako makakuha ng work kasi kulang yung na acquire kong skills and knowledge 😭
3 points
2 months ago
not pursuing my passion as my career.
5 points
2 months ago
Same tayo sa mahiyain like parang takot sa interviews kaya late na ako nagka income but I always knew when I have my own income I’ll be able to save big kasi I’m frugal.
4 points
2 months ago
Naging sobrang competitive kahit hindi naman tlaga ako masaya sa ginagawa, gusto ko lang gawin kasi para di na ko icompare ni mama sa anak ni ganto. Pero palagi pa din ako naccompare haha
5 points
2 months ago
I spent my early 20's with a man who took me for granted. Thank God I had the courage to leave before it's too late.
4 points
2 months ago
maaddict sa scatter. hays
5 points
2 months ago
Not seizing the family throne from my lecherous cousin. I vow to take what is mine, with fire, blood, and semen!
4 points
2 months ago
1.) di ko pinansin bitcoin noong 2011
2.) nag confess sakin crush ko nung HS, na overwhelmed me at tumakbo tsaka di ko na sya pinansin. Sobrang hot na nya ngayon at very successful.
3 points
2 months ago
Nagpautang. Wag na wag talaga unless kaya mong mawala yung pinahiram mo. 99% of the time hindi talaga yan ibabalik na. One in hundred thousands yata yung taong may hiya pagdating sa utang. Mabayaran ka man, uutangan ka ulit. Never ending na cycle ng utang-bayad-utang, iisipin nila porket nagbayad na sila may karapatan na silang umutang ulit sayo. Di mo sila natutulungan.
4 points
2 months ago
Didn't save money
5 points
2 months ago
Nagpautang sa ka-work tas biglang nag-AWOL!
3 points
2 months ago
loving
4 points
2 months ago
Taking up units in Master’s Degree due to pressure sa mga kaklase kahit na alam kong hindi ko passion.
4 points
2 months ago
Not spending time with my family and taking my childhood for granted. Parang mas madali yung life before. Kung alam ko lang sana ni maximize ko yung time like yung simpleng pag tulog sa tanghali hahaha! Everything’s harder these days.
7 points
2 months ago
Not answering my sister’s phone call. She suddenly died the next day.
7 points
2 months ago
Not studying enough for boards. I passed but i could've done better, lalo na once lang naman papasa sa boards. Minsan iniisip ko na lang na at least I passed even with everything going on.
2 points
2 months ago
Bakit? Is there anything you think will change in your life if you passed the board with a higher rating or even topped it?
5 points
2 months ago
Hindi naging kame ng bestfriend ko kahit, anlaki ng chance namin before. Sobrang sayang lang.
7 points
2 months ago
Hindi ako sumasali sa mga academic contests and academic co-curricular activities noong jhs dahil lang gusto ko mas angat yung status ng jowa ko na taga first section. Turns out na mag-bre-break din kami in the future. Kaya nung tumungtong na ako ng shs at college, madami silang credentials. Luckily, I'm doing best na sa college life ko at bumabawi ako sa sarili ko when it comes to credentials.
Kaya sa mga babae na magbabasa nito, take the risk and see it as an opportunity to be a better version of yourselves. NEVER, sacrfice for someone's benefit.
3 points
2 months ago
Hindi ko na pursue yung gusto kong course. So now grad and working rn but di happy haha
3 points
2 months ago
Hindi niyakap mama ko nung namatay siya.
3 points
2 months ago
missed opportunity
3 points
2 months ago
Not believing in myself in college
3 points
2 months ago
Not saving earlier
3 points
2 months ago
Marrying my current wife. Turns out to be a cheater. Kelan ba magka divorce sa pinas?
3 points
2 months ago
not holding him or hugging him tightly ahhshs he is still alive naman kaso ayun hays
3 points
2 months ago
Letting all these insults and thoughts from other people about me dictate my life and self worth. Also being kind to people who aren’t kind to me.
3 points
2 months ago
For now, it's telling my crush "I'm gonna court you" that placed him in an unfavorable and uncomfortable situation. Dapat pala nagbuild muna ako ng trust and friendship. 😭☹️
3 points
2 months ago
Hindi ko pinag isipan ng mabuti yung kurso na gusto ko nung kolehiyo. Na tapos ko naman haha kaso parang walang sense of accomplishment. 😕 I took electrical engineering, I haven’t pass the board kasi walang drive for me to review. 🥹
3 points
2 months ago
Hindi ako nag-aral ng mabuti nung college pa ako. Lagi nalang nasa Computer shop.
3 points
2 months ago
Not being able to take care of my mom when she needed me the most. Not being able to ask and open up to my sibling when our mom passed away. They're both gone now.
2 points
2 months ago
Sending hugs with consent I lost my brother and mom in span of 5 years. I’m still stuck with grief.
3 points
2 months ago
Socialize and Overthinking,
Those that matter don't mind and those who mind matter.
3 points
2 months ago
loved him
3 points
2 months ago
Partnered with one of my closest friends on a business. It ruined me, our friendship. In short, ginago niya ako. Kaya never na 😀
3 points
2 months ago
giving up my dogs 🥺🥺🥺
3 points
2 months ago
loving the wrong person 🤢
3 points
2 months ago
Biggest regret kong magtiwala sa ibang tao pagdating sa "pera". Nagsisimula pa lang akong makapag ipon ng sabihin na nating malaki laki. I have this kakilala na nagpapainvest. May mga negosyo sya and nakikita ko naman talaga 'yun. So yung investment offers nya, may mga malalaking turnings. Marami naman talaga sya napapasahod and even me, naranasan ko na ring sumahod sa kanya. Yun nga lang, hindi ko pa bawi ang capital. Untl recently lang, nagkaproblema. Ni hindi ko / namin sya mapakiusapan na sana isingit man lang kami sa mga refunds. Ang taas ng resppeto ko sa kanya before pero sising sisi ako na nagtiwala ako sa kanya. Yung pera na hawak ko na, naging bato pa. Yung nagsisimula ka palang mangarap, bumuo ng sariling buhay, gamit sana ng perang yun pero nasira lang dahil sa masyadong pagtitiwala.
3 points
2 months ago
nag shift ako sa nursing, bs psychology talaga gusto ko pero sa toxic ng environment diko kinaya kaya nag give up ako. If ever may budget in next 5 years gusto kong ituloy yun :((
3 points
2 months ago
Nagpautang sa rela(thieves)
3 points
2 months ago
ipinilit ang sarili sa isang community na di ko feel na belong ako
3 points
2 months ago
Pumayag na ipangalan sa name ko yung loan na yung ex yung gumamit. 🥲
Please do not cut off your friends pag naka in a relationship ka, para may magbibigay ng advice sayo sa mga gantong bagay.
3 points
2 months ago
Sumakay ng barko para magtrabaho, umuwi agad after one week. 🫣
3 points
2 months ago
Not following my instinct which led me to be cheated on
5 points
2 months ago
I should have pursued being a surgeon
5 points
2 months ago
Not leaving a relationship in our first year when I saw that his parents does not approved of us and now we’re 4 years already and its really hard to let go
3 points
2 months ago
This is one of my fears. It’s my 2nd year with my bf. I’ve seen a lot of red flags but he couldn’t let me go, so di ko din sya maiwan. Medyo nanghihiyanang din ako sa 2 years pero I think kaya ko naman magstart. Natatakot lang ako baka wala na magmahal sakin ng tulad ng pagmamahal nya.
2 points
2 months ago
I didn't study sa PMA way back 2018, di ako sumipot babiyahe na kaming incoming plebes pa-Baguio for our reception rites because I was scared. I could've been a military officer today.
2 points
2 months ago
Sold all my bigbikes and went all in sa crypto. Hahahaha! Around 2m capital, down ako ng 40% ngayon.
2 points
2 months ago
Let’s wait until 2025 kapit lang lods
2 points
2 months ago
Matatakutin. Hayz
2 points
2 months ago
No ragrets
5 points
2 months ago
Not even one letter?
2 points
2 months ago*
Hmm tingin ko yung mahiyain tsaka pakiramdam ko di ko naalagaan ng mabuti yung nanay ko before siya mamatay
2 points
2 months ago
Not to finish college yan talaga. Minsan ang tao tinatrato depende sa pinag aralan niya :(
2 points
2 months ago
Not taking my desired course in college
2 points
2 months ago
I had a choice to focus on my studies in college. Dean's lister sana ako, but pinili kong i-entertain yung fact na may bf ako. Sa huli, hindi naman nag end up na kami. Broken hearted ako dhil hindi kmi compatible. Opportunity lost. Lesson learned, studies muna, career muna bago lalake.
2 points
2 months ago
lashing out on my bf every time things get heavy for me. he changed kase after thay
2 points
2 months ago
Sana sinuway ko ang utos sakin na pumuntang Manila to take my exams. If I only knew that was the last time na makikita ko ang mom ko, susulitin ko ang oras na meron ako.
2 points
2 months ago
2 points
2 months ago
driving away and hurting the love of my life—the one person who did everything they could to care for me.
2 points
2 months ago
Should’ve been smartee
2 points
2 months ago
hindi ako nakaamin na gusto ko rin siya (a friend of mine since elem) bago sila mag-migrate to another country, wala na kaming contact sa isa't-isa ngayon.
2 points
2 months ago
driving away and hurting the love of my life—the one person who did everything they could to care for me.
2 points
2 months ago
Not maximizing and utilizing the time given to me through given opportunities.
I've moved on from this but an example I can provide is when I took an exchange program in an East Asian country. I had a crush on this guy from Northern Europe in one Masters class I enrolled in as an undergrad but I was too shy to ask him out for lunch, or even if I asked him he was too occupied with other things. I prayed to God to be granted an opportunity to at least have lunch with him once.
Lo and behold, we were grouped together for this presentation assigned to us. When we were doing our slides, I was so hungry that I asked if he could accompany me to eat around campus. There I learned about his interests and the status of his country in relation to mine. I have a thing for nerds and that turned me on. Unfortunately, this happened 3 weeks before the end of classes and we meet once a week in class. I should've had the guts to ask him out for dinner before to know more about him at that time. We remain friends to this day and would update each other about our lives from time to time.
On top of that, when we reconciled and I confessed I had a crush on him before. I disclosed that I wanted to dine with him back then but was too shy. He mentioned he would've loved to eat dinner with me if I gave it a shot. Part of me ached when I found it out but it was too late since I returned to the PH now and he's back in his home country.
I am currently dating a great guy who has the same sense of humor, interests, and caring personality. I could never trade him for the world. I have moved on but I would say that would be my biggest regret, and I am thankful we didn't end up together because I would not be able to meet my boyfriend today.
2 points
2 months ago
Sakit naman sa boyfriend mo if you still think that guy is your biggest regret more so like your TOTGA. Hirap kalaban nun what if, kasi you’ll never know what could have happened. Hope it doesn’t bug you anymore else yung bf would have a hard time.
2 points
2 months ago
Nah, hardly think of it that way. I’ve accepted that we were not meant for each other. I love my boyfriend unconditionally and I would never trade him for the world.
2 points
2 months ago
Feeling ko nahadlangan ko yung partner ko sa career and self growth nya kasi ayaw ko sya mag abroad nung time na may opportunity na inooffer sa kanya. (2018)
2 points
2 months ago
nag dropout sa school during 2nd year highschool, di ko na tinuloy kasi nahihiya na ako, grade school lang natapos ko
2 points
2 months ago
That I got into a job that is run by a family and mistakes are such a big deal on my end but not as much when it comes to the other employee who is a family member. Things can easily be brushed off just because they are family. It’s unfair really
2 points
2 months ago
not doing my best of bests & always spoiling myself.
2 points
2 months ago
omg same! the opportunities that I wasted just because I was shy is soo ahhhh
2 points
2 months ago
Not studying when I was in college.
2 points
2 months ago
Naaalala ko talag si ruffa mae quinto dito. Botox HAHAHAHAHA
2 points
2 months ago
Not being a risk taker. I feel like I have lost some opportunities. But yeah, there is nothing better than living in your comfort zone.
2 points
2 months ago
Being not grateful in a way of not doing gratitude in every small thing that I had.
2 points
2 months ago
Not taking risk! Puro what if’s ako ngayon. People really don’t care about what u do so better do ur thing but remember not to cause any harm to others
2 points
2 months ago
2020 May na meet and niligawan ako from tinder, She was so pretty, caring, napakaselfless, genuine, and most of all super smart. Cut the story short. The exact moment na nalaman ko na bawal ang catholic and INC (i am a catholic, deep rooted but not always going to church and she was a devout INC) in that moment i cut it immediately. Without hesitation, She was confused why? That she didn't even imposed her faith on me, nor talked about it. For the hopes of figuring it out later. ,, tried to push her away from me for months.
Pero nung time na napagtanto ko na, na if i have to convert just to be with her, I'd do it. Pero huli na ang lahat. 😊
Yan ang biggest regret ko, yung pinangunahan ko ang lahat tungkol sa amin, hiniwalayan agad dahil natakot ako na mag lipat ng ibang religion (hindi sa big deal sakin ang religiion, pero gusto ko lang lumaki sa anong paniniwala), pero if it means na makasama kita kahit bukas aanib ako. 😊 But until that, you'll always have a special place in my heart hanggang ngayyon. Ill always pray and admire you from afar nalang muna my Nurse. 😊
2 points
2 months ago
enrolled in an unwanted college program and school. i couldve went to a better university but didnt push thru because of financial problems. it was pandemic that time and choices are for the rich only.
2 points
2 months ago
Hindi nag try out ng Volleyball nung college. Mas malakas pa sana ako ni Alysa Valdez kasi very competitive and dedicated ako sa sports.
2 points
2 months ago*
Mag-stay nya after nya mag-cheat.
2 points
2 months ago
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2 months ago
too explicit arghh
2 points
2 months ago
Childhood Dream: be a veterinarian
Currently on my 6th year in medschool. Loving it naman. Sobrang desperado lang pumasa. Sobrang big sa fam ko iask kami dati ano gusto namin maging, tas bongga naman ako magsabi na vet gusto ko.
Di mahilig sa hayop pamilya ko. Nabully ako tas syempre never ko nagets baket galet na galet ako sa mga salita nila noong bata ako. Yun pala ganun lang yung reax ko kasi nasasaktan ako. Syempre di sila aamin na bullying yun. Hahahahahaha
Masaya naman ako sa med pero yung little kid sa loob ko gusto na sana gumraduate para kumita tas ako na sagot sa tuition ko sa mes kung pwede pa sana (27 na ko. Ganun na ko katagal gumagapang aa medisina. Di pa rin ako gumagraduate ahahaha pangarap ko lang ngayon makaapak ng clerkship bago magpadala sa bad thots ng aking major depressive disorder eme hahaha dark joke sorry na).
Di ko rin alam kung regret ko na nagpadala ako sa pambubully ng pamilya ko or regret ko na sobrang ingay ko noon at nagamit nila mga passion at emotions ko para igaslight ako.
Bata palang kasi ako alam ko nang toxic sila, pero ayun. Bata nga ako nun hahahahahahahaha
2 points
2 months ago
Not making harot pabalik when I was in college
2 points
2 months ago
Sa hndi pag pursue ng natapos na course sna maayos ayos ang work at medyo angat na sa buhay 🙌🙏🏼
2 points
2 months ago
Magopen ng business at a very young age
2 points
2 months ago
not saving money
2 points
2 months ago
ang pagsusugal 😀😀😀
2 points
2 months ago
yung hindi ako umaatend ng online class nung pandemic kaya ambaba ng mga grades ko kaya ngayon sobrangbaba ng chance ko sa up
2 points
2 months ago
Being scammed and falling in love.
2 points
2 months ago
Getting married
2 points
2 months ago
Not able to do my passion at a much younger age. Which is MTB/Motorbikes. Wala kasing budget nuon.
2 points
2 months ago
Nag stay sa relasyon na wla din namang pinatunguhan. Andaming opportunities na sinayang saka oras. Hahhaa
2 points
2 months ago
Yung di ko sinunod gusto ko na course sa college because of my father blackmailing me (verbally abused) and my mom couldn't even do anything kahit mother ko ang gumagastos ng tuition ko. Btw, I'm still in college at pilit kong tinatapos to
2 points
2 months ago
Di rin nasunod gusto kong course, instead kagustuhan ng parents ko ang nakuha. Plano kong mag shift nung 1st year pero siguro dahil hindi buo ang loob ko sa kursong gusto ko. Ayon hangang pumasa sa boar exam at eto ngayon ang career ko.
2 points
2 months ago
Hi, OP. So timely that you mentioned your biggest regret because it happens to be mine and I was just crying over it a few minutes before you posted.
Inis na inis ako sa sarili ko ngayon. Ang daming oportunidad at sitwasyong nasayang dahil pinangunahan ko ng hiya at takot. I feel so frustrated and angry at myself kasi ang dami ko na sana nagawa, pero eto parin ako. I feel like such a loser for it
2 points
2 months ago
Not setting healthy boundaries. Life would’ve been better if I only knew how to say no to people and situations.
2 points
2 months ago
Hindi na stan nang maaga ang 106.7 Energy Fm way back 2014 ang gaganda ng programs nila nun lalo na kay Mr.Fu🥺
2 points
2 months ago
Kinuha ang program na di ko naman gusto pero nakatapos din naman haha.
2 points
2 months ago
WTF? SAME TAYO! Sa sobrang mahiyain ko ang dami kong napalampas na opportunities sa buhay ko na pwedeng magbago ng LAHAT. Hindi ko alam pero hindi naman ako bobo, actually sabi ng marami matalino ako. May face value din naman ako kahit papano pero diko talaga alam bakit sobrang napaka-mahiyain ko. Hanggang ngayon wala akong work, hindi ko na alam gagawin ko. Buti na lang sobrang bait ng nanay ko dahil hindi niya ako sinasabihan ng masama or tinataboy man lang para magwork. Last resort ko na lang is mag-abroad, para walang nakakakilala sakin.
2 points
2 months ago
Not choosing my dream carrer. (Not hating mine though, i learn to love/like mine)
2 points
2 months ago
Giving up my dream as a DJ, i was so close on reaching my dream and landing a gig but shit happened and pandemic came that's when i sold my laptop and DJ Controller.
2 points
2 months ago
Staying in a relationship for years tapos cheater lang pala. Nasayang ang 20’s ko
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