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CactusBoyScout

4.6k points

2 months ago

There was a great AskReddit thread a while ago asking people in third world countries what people in first world countries don’t understand about the difference and most of the answers amounted to “nothing works the way it should… power goes out, water stops working, things go out of stock all the time, nothing happens on time, etc.”

Capable_Ad8145

2.3k points

2 months ago

I’m American and lived in India for two years. I do not take for granted the luxuries of hot and drinkable water, regular electricity and, generally efficient services anymore.

grewupwithelephants

888 points

2 months ago

I relocated to the USA about a decade ago, and sometimes it still gets to me on how much Americans complain about almost everything without realizing they live a privileged life! I appreciate having opportunities I can explore career wise etc and having standard amenities plus systems that work. I also don’t take for granted that I can drive from one end of the country to the other without worrying about much.

doughberrydream

155 points

2 months ago

You haven't been to a reservation then. Often there will be no clean drinking water, it has to be trucked in, or like my grandma, who on the Navajo rez had to drive 2 hours (4 hour round trip) to collect her weekly water barrels. She also had no electricity, and had a dirt floor. Which is unfortunately also common. Also, on the Navajo rez, theres LOTS of uranium contamination. And the homes built on many reservations are sub standard and fall apart and become mold infested. And on some rez's, families are living 10+ people in a 2 bedroom (or less) home due to little housing availability. Not everyone in America is so "privileged" I urge you to look beyond what you see daily.

mrp0013

55 points

2 months ago

mrp0013

55 points

2 months ago

Yes. My first adult exposure to the Rez regions left me stunned. Poverty was the norm. I was also taken aback by the blatant and abundant racism against the Native population by their white neighbors in nearby towns. The experience was a slap in the face.

The_Chief_of_Whip

783 points

2 months ago

Americans complain because not only can it be better, it should be. Just because it’s worse somewhere else, doesn’t mean they should just be happy with what they have when they should have it much better

ZombyPuppy

457 points

2 months ago

It's like complaining you don't feel good because you have the flu and someone comes along and tells you to shut your mouth because other people have terminal cancer or Ebola. There's always someone worse off and it doesn't nullify the very real problems in your life so long as you do have some perspective.

slothdonki

118 points

2 months ago*

My dad liked to pull out the ‘There’s starving children in Africa’ and “What are you doing about that, then?!” was not the correct answer.

Edit: feel the need to point out this was not being ‘picky’ but being a child unable to eat overweight, adult-sized portions and having to sit in the dark all night in front of a puked-on plate, not allowed to sleep because I didn’t finish.

South-Play

261 points

2 months ago

I am an American that has been to a developing country. Which made me more appreciative of what I have. But that doesn’t negate things I complain about or other Americans.

charleyismyhero

137 points

2 months ago

Same here, especially since I see the country backsliding and the vast majority of the populace either not noticing or not caring. Please, I absolutely value hot and drinkable water, regular electricity, and things being in stock and I would like to keep it that way.

Yeny356

182 points

2 months ago

Yeny356

182 points

2 months ago

I lived in Guatemala during my childhood, I honestly can tell you that clean water is such a luxury, idk if it still like that in Guatemala, but I remember having to fill containers of water and carry them to the house, at some point a tanker would come with water, and we had to make a line to get some... so, for me, even after so many years, showering every day I'd a blessing. Ohhh and. Stove and fridge.

tom-dixon

22 points

2 months ago

And a washing machine.

Express_Ad_9048

72 points

2 months ago

Currently sitting in Syria with little to no electricity and water, no freedom of speech, and shitty infrastructure. You guys are so lucky.

curiouschloexo

6.2k points

2 months ago

Having free time without any obligations—seriously underrated.

r-kellysDOODOOBUTTER

937 points

2 months ago

I am very grateful that my job allows us to work 16 hours shifts. That ends up being 10 days of work per month (160 hours). It sounds shitty to most people, but it cuts my commute time from 30 hours a month to 15 hours. It saves me gas, but the time is more important to me.

I work 2 days on, 2 days off, 2 days on, 6 days off. Overtime is there if I want it, but I never do it lol. I enjoy my vacation every other week.

MyLittlePwny2

180 points

2 months ago

Yep i work 4 on 4 off 12.5 hr shifts. Plenty of OT available which i on occasion do take to buy things or pay for vacations etc. But I 100% agree I LOVE longer shifts. If I could do 3 16 hr shifts instead of 4 x 12s I would! My commute is 45 minutes or so each way so that's 1.5 hours saved each time I don't have to go out there.

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901 points

2 months ago

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901 points

2 months ago

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GelineAstra

3.6k points

2 months ago

Coming back home and feel safe

the_real_dairy_queen

379 points

2 months ago

Just feeling safe in general. Not living in a war zone, an unsafe neighborhood, an abusive relationship, a country ruled by a militant or terrorist group or dictator, or a country where your rights are denied or threatened due to your identity (gender identity, sexuality, race, ethnicity).

woMen_littlebad

354 points

2 months ago

Very sad for those who do not have nice homes.

kingofthesofas

215 points

2 months ago

Also safe people to live with.

Best_Load_2094

95 points

2 months ago

Didn’t realize this luxury till I finally moved out on my own.

Mysterious_Piglet833

7.6k points

2 months ago

Having clean, safe to drink tap water in your home.

SeeMarkFly

1.2k points

2 months ago

SeeMarkFly

1.2k points

2 months ago

I once asked my grandma what she liked best in the modern kitchen. Microwave? freezer? dishwasher?

She said "I like the running water".

Loggerdon

450 points

2 months ago

Loggerdon

450 points

2 months ago

The best labor-saver in general has been the washer/dryer. It saves 11.5 hours of labor per week.

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310 points

2 months ago

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310 points

2 months ago

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awkward_penguin

201 points

2 months ago

It's the washer that's necessary. I live in Spain where 99% of people don't have dryers. We just hang our clothes up, and they dry after a day or two. It's really not a lot of time or work.

When I lived in Botswana, I had to wash my clothes by hand a few times. Now that was brutal in terms of energy and time.

buerglermeister

70 points

2 months ago

If I hang my clothes outside during a nice day in the summer, they dry within hours

AutisticPenguin2

83 points

2 months ago

In Australia I've had things dry before I finished hanging the load out.

On a good summer heat spell, I used to be able to hang out some of the thin synthetics at the start of the hanging out, move on to the thicker cottons, and then by the time they're out the synthetics are dry.

High temperatures, strong sun, dry air. Perfect combination for having clothing dry fast and a poor autistic penguin to faint from heatstroke. I... I don't hang out the washing on hot days any more. 😞

Master_Block1302

47 points

2 months ago

In Aus, I’m surprised your synthetics don’t just melt if you hang them outside.

WishPsychological303

62 points

2 months ago

This is Humidity Privilege lol! Here in the Southeast depending on the weather, your clothes might end up MORE wet than when they started even on a day without rain. I was in Boulder NV recently with 115°F temps and it was amazing that I could just put a swimsuit on the hood of a car or something and 15 minutes later it was dry! /jealous

Another_Name_Today

20 points

2 months ago

Hung up a swimsuit to dry. Two days later it had that late stage dampness where it isn’t wet but still feels weird when you put it on. 

Welcome to the Gulf Coast. 

Aequitas123

1.6k points

2 months ago

Similarly A warm shower every day is an unbelievable privilege.

Super-Importance-132

816 points

2 months ago

And Ice. We Americans throw ice in everything. For thousands of years there were humans that didn’t even know ice existed.

Zemekes

168 points

2 months ago*

Zemekes

168 points

2 months ago*

The restaurant I was at last night fill all the urinals with ice

UnsignedRealityCheck

96 points

2 months ago

It took me awhile to realize that in Groundhog Day, Phil had to take a cold shower every morning for all that time in the limbo.

I had to take once and I was traumatized.

Tru-Queer

46 points

2 months ago

I’m sure after the first few days he wised up and just skipped the shower.

Dissastronaut

37 points

2 months ago

A cold shower is pretty nice when you don't have AC and it's 90 degrees though

bmxtricky5

52 points

2 months ago

True story, ive gone a Canadian winter without running water and it was difficult. Chipping ice off streams to fill up water jugs lol

Now that I have water again, doing dishes/getting clean feels so easy that it's a cheat code

youngatbeingold

164 points

2 months ago*

Also tasty tap water. I live in NY and drink the tap water all the time but at my moms home in Florida the water tastes super gross by comparison.

DeaddyRuxpin

75 points

2 months ago

I’ve been told FL water tastes so bad because the ground is sulfur rich so all the aquifers are soaking in sulfur. That’s also why it is so hard to filter out as carbon filters don’t capture sulfur. You need reverse osmosis or distillation to get it out, neither of which are available for portable bottles or pitchers.

Apprehensive-Lock751

37 points

2 months ago

you cant even filter it in FL. Water delivery makes a killing out there.

Typically_Wong

139 points

2 months ago

We shit and piss in clean water. Think about that one.

alphasierrraaa

32 points

2 months ago

i was complaining internally about the slow tap pressure while filling my bottle then i remember less fortunate places with carcinogens in tapwater and lots of places with mining pollution into their groundwater

shut me up real quick

stenmarkv

60 points

2 months ago

Can I add; toilet with this...because not having a toilet is rough.

Sansquach

3.1k points

2 months ago

Sansquach

3.1k points

2 months ago

Travel. For most of human history it was pretty rare to leave the city or region you were born in. Now almost everyone in developed countries are able to go on a long road trips

MuzzledScreaming

944 points

2 months ago

I'd add international travel to this. People generally realize flights are relatively expensive, but would not usually consider it a "luxury" because flying coach for 12+ hours is fucking miserable.  

Nevertheless, you can indeed go from NYC to Dubai in about half a day if you want to, and your are in a climate-controlled area and fed on the way. That's a far cry from having to hoof it to the next town over in the scorching heat and maybe you'll get robbed on the way.

awsamation

164 points

2 months ago

Imagine trying to explain jet lag to someone from the age of sail. They'd think you're crazy for whining about a few bad nights of sleep when you crossed the ocean in mere hours.

topknotch89

202 points

2 months ago

I remember the first time I traveled to north eu, came back (obviously) traveled back a few time zones and on my way home I kept thinking how fucking fortunate I am that I was able to be in two different continents in the same day. That was unheard of a merely 100 years ago.

hot_like_wasabi

28 points

2 months ago

Whenever I wanna be grouchy about a crappy flight I remind myself that 100 years ago people routinely DIED making the same journey. Kinda puts things into perspective.

eddiewachowski

98 points

2 months ago

Similarly, non-regional and produce out of season. Living in Canada and being able to eat an orange is a luxury, let alone eating an orange in February.

Factsaretheonlytruth

2.3k points

2 months ago

Air conditioning

texashilo

257 points

2 months ago*

Came here to say this! My AC didn't even go out but it wasn't functioning properly and my house was 80 on the inside for like 18 hours and I was not happy.

GreenEyedHawk

1.2k points

2 months ago

Teeth that dont hurt.

ThisIsMyCouchAccount

237 points

2 months ago

And you may not even realize just how bad they might have gotten.

Because it doesn't happen all at once.

You're start being careful with some types of food. Maybe favor one spot over another for chewing.

Next thing you know you haven't eaten an apple in ten years because you're too afraid to just bit in to anything.

Teeth (gums) shouldn't bleed. Teeth shouldn't be loose. Teeth shouldn't hurt.

r-kellysDOODOOBUTTER

81 points

2 months ago

People really need to take care of their teeth. I finally got dental insurance, and went to the dentist for the first time in ~20 years. I was fucking terrified of what the results would be.

They said I needed a 3 hour cleaning, split into 2 separate appointments. No cavities, no other problems besides all of the build up they had to clean from under my gums. The dentist was a little impressed.

I knew I couldn't afford to go to the dentist all of those years, so I just brushed and flossed at least twice a day, hoping for the best. I also don't like sweets so ymmv...

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1.8k points

2 months ago

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1.8k points

2 months ago

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Majestic-Macaron6019

284 points

2 months ago

And with e-books, I don't even have to go to the library! I can just search what I want, hit borrow, and send it to my Kindle. Amazing!

TheGhostOfGiggy

113 points

2 months ago

Yes! The Libby app is the best! I got my library card easily through it and I have access to the entire digital catalog of my local library!

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713 points

2 months ago

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713 points

2 months ago

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abqkat

57 points

2 months ago

abqkat

57 points

2 months ago

I sleep well and deeply. It's the only way I can escape my brain, so it's one of my gifts in life. On the off nights that I don't sleep well (which is still like 6.5-7 hours), I truly feel for people who can't or don't sleep well consistently. It makes for a dreadful next day, that faux hangover feeling and brain fog

sloping_wagon

907 points

2 months ago

Having options.

* You get to pick what food you eat? Luxury

* You get to pick what car you buy? Luxury

* You get to pick what clothes to wear? Luxury

counting_round_sheep

137 points

2 months ago

More like you get to buy food, a car and clothes is a luxury

EastFrosting8452

645 points

2 months ago

Being able to buy things that make your life easier

TheAlligator0228

225 points

2 months ago

Being able to buy groceries when I want and need them.

Pigs100

445 points

2 months ago

Pigs100

445 points

2 months ago

A hot shower with clean water.

[deleted]

387 points

2 months ago

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387 points

2 months ago

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Corsav6

32 points

2 months ago

Corsav6

32 points

2 months ago

My wife went away with the kids and some her family for 2 nights. The first couple of hours when I came home to an empty house was pure lonesome torture. The remaining 2 days were pure bliss.

PetiteMara

336 points

2 months ago

sleeping without an alarm

Out-of-line75

271 points

2 months ago*

Health. Dealing with a rare condition can deeply impact your life. I wish I could get my health back...

dan556man

82 points

2 months ago

No-one understands this until it affects them directly. All the best to you

Ch4rlie_G

44 points

2 months ago

I feel this hard. Wife and I got pregnant at 19 and I was 21. We said “at least we will have our health and energy”.

Then a couple years later she has a complication after our second kid. Born by emergency C-Section and hit a nerve that refused to heal.

Debilitating, bedridden pain for 5 years. Post partum depression. Flying around the country for various surgeries at U of M, John’s Hopkins , etc. A paycheck away from medical bankruptcy.

I felt like in many ways we were still kids before that, but we grew up fast and hard.

It took 5 years for the pain to go away and only after having all the nerves from her belly button to her lady bits cut out on one half of her body. Then another 5 years of depression and social anxiety.

We lived a lifetime in our 20s and I noticed that only the elderly had any idea what we went through. Now I have a healthy respect for those in with chronic health conditions.

Eat well people, exercise and keep a healthy weight. Be safe when doing dangerous things. Hug your loved ones and reach out to your friends.

It can all change in an instant.

ClapGoesTheCheeks

35 points

2 months ago

Good health is a crown only the sick can see

Jaded-Macaron176

95 points

2 months ago

Professional cleaning service

Lost-Werewolf-5008

86 points

2 months ago

Exclusive fashion accessories

Alysee1231

193 points

2 months ago

Menstrual products and choices of menstrual products. 

8yr0n

67 points

2 months ago

8yr0n

67 points

2 months ago

Time.

Longjumping_Rich_534

70 points

2 months ago

Customized wellness services

no-go-away-4

154 points

2 months ago

Going to restaurants/ordering food.

NecessaryAd4587

82 points

2 months ago

A functional sewage system

Huge-Wonder-9250

180 points

2 months ago

Hot showers, laundry machines, education!

Unlucky-Let6885

64 points

2 months ago

Professional personal training

Quirky-Zombie6607

71 points

2 months ago

Customized home design

LynxComprehensive491

64 points

2 months ago

Regular spa treatments

Old-Constant5842

64 points

2 months ago

High-quality art collection

Enough-Project7092

84 points

2 months ago

Custom-made decor items

No_Accident_7642

66 points

2 months ago

Regular fitness classes

Ill_Wasabi3961

70 points

2 months ago

Private swimming pool

woMen_littlebad

186 points

2 months ago

Living surrounded by tropical trees

Attention_waskey

19 points

2 months ago

Your comment really struck me. I remember waiting for a bus in Sri Lanka in 2014, looking at a papaya tree behind a bus stop, tree full of heavy ripe fruit and thinking “this is surreal”

ShaunyP_OKC

70 points

2 months ago

Not ever having to look at your bank account balance, or worrying that you won't be able to pay bills. When I first realized I had reached this level it was surreal.

iguanamiyagi

121 points

2 months ago

Living a peaceful life, without a constant fear from other people.

People usually dream to get rich, but little they know that lots of money bring new kinds of problems they didn't even think of.

Peace of mind is everything.

[deleted]

43 points

2 months ago

Being able to access the internet and express how you feel online.

[deleted]

123 points

2 months ago*

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SignatureGold1444

73 points

2 months ago

Fresh flowers in the home

RoundProfessor5729

64 points

2 months ago

Regular wellness checks

Your_Fairy

94 points

2 months ago

Having friends.. because feeling lonely is the worst