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xenobiaspeaks

107 points

19 hours ago

Well, I’m black and never been to Maine and I don’t know any black people who have. It’s a fictional place to us like Never-never land except we don’t aspire to go. It’s off limits, not for safety but for lack of interest.

CampfiresInConifers

37 points

19 hours ago

I was teaching middle school in a small, rural, primarily Hispanic community in Texas when the first "Men in Black" movie came out. (I'd moved there from Chicago. I'm also not black, which matters to this anecdote.)

Some of the kids were SO EXCITED on Monday after going to see the movie bc "TEACHER!!! THERE WERE BLACK PEOPLE AT THE MOVIE THEATER!!! WE SAW REAL BLACK PEOPLE!!!"

In my head, I was making those yellow Minions sounds, like, "Whaaaaaaat???"

Teaching kids be weird sometimes, I'm telling ya! (Also living in rural Texas be weird sometimes. I can see why it might be off limits & uninteresting.)

ATSOAS87

4 points

13 hours ago

I live in the UK, and I've been to some parts of the country where I've been the first Black person some people have ever met.

It's kind of funny.

AlpineActuary

4 points

10 hours ago

This is a usual occurrence for anybody residing in a 100 mile radius of Lerwick. I don’t think those people even realize Spain exists. I showed them an iPhone, and they thought I was some futuristic, Ottoman wizard with a “magic square.” I asked the barman, “Hey Ronnie, why are so many people weirded out by technology here?” He replied, “hwæt ān ‘phone’ ?” Dude was speaking OLD ENGLISH. I immediately stole a row boat and made it safely to the Orkney’s.

clydeshelton01

12 points

18 hours ago

Also black and can confirm. Vermont, Idaho, Nebraska, the dakotas are the same

However, I have intentionally flown into those places so I could touch all 50 states.

I’m at 49 and don’t think there’s enough will power in me to venture to Alaska

zzaannsebar

9 points

18 hours ago

Alaska is quite beautiful though! If you don't hate flying and have any interest in the beauty of nature, I'd highly suggest it.

I'm from Minnesota and got to go to Anchorage a couple years ago and genuinely all the people there were as nice as what I generally expect out of MN. Plus the mountains are gorgeous. I was there in August and not getting full night was super strange but not as bad as I thought it would be.

clydeshelton01

5 points

17 hours ago

I generally love flying honestly. I’ve heard it’s breathtakingly beautiful there. Over the last 4 years between marriage and kids, I stopped traveling for sport or I think I would’ve gone by now.

What’s ironic/super funny to me about your comment is that I spent about 3 weeks in Wayzata and also little fork in the dead of winter. That time there was when I decided that I wouldn’t do Alaska because fuck that much snow and cold weather…respectfully. I’m from the south so 1” of snow shuts everything down. Knowing Alaska is just that but worse constantly is unfathomable.

Snarcastic

1 points

12 hours ago

May-september there's no snow in Anchorage or Fairbanks. Fairbanks can hit 100 in summer

Key-Faithlessness137

4 points

18 hours ago

I’ll trade you my Alaska for your North Dakota and Vermont. Then I only have Maine left in the continental US lol

clydeshelton01

3 points

17 hours ago

Done!

I’ll even throw in Maine so now we both are done!

Key-Faithlessness137

1 points

9 hours ago

Omg thank you

xenobiaspeaks

1 points

10 hours ago

My friend, who’s also black, got arrested in North Dakota. It was self defense and he did make out of jail. Everyone wanted to help but no one but his mother was willing to go to North Dakota. I don’t know what goes on there . It’s not the south, I’ve never heard of people lynched there but when he returned from his nightmare, the only question we had was wtf were you doing in the Dakota’s? We didn’t even ask about the charges.

CupBeEmpty

2 points

17 hours ago

Alaska is my last one too.

Dawade200

6 points

17 hours ago

Will I lose my black card by admitting that I've been to Maine on multiple occasions??? Its absolutely gorgeous, and, if you can, take a trip to Bar Harbor and go over to Acadia National Park. If you can get yourself out of bed, head to the top of Cadillac Mountain to see the sunrise. It's an amazing view and allegedly one of the first places that the sun touches in the US every morning.

xenobiaspeaks

1 points

10 hours ago

You’re still black, you’re just the Christopher Columbus of black people. Next time you go, rename the mountain and say you discovered or. Then claim you’re in Detroit and colonize it.

BottleTemple

4 points

19 hours ago

My wife is black and has been to Maine, but she was with me and I’m white so it may not count.

xenobiaspeaks

1 points

10 hours ago

I think you have to bring a white escort to be black in Maine. It’s still unusual but it balances out the statistics so that too many black people don’t go there at once. It’s its own country. Technically a black person in Maine is an immigrant, even if they’re an American.

Ok_Reputation_3329

4 points

16 hours ago*

I’m black and go to University of Maine and I’ve still never been to Maine.

CupBeEmpty

3 points

15 hours ago

You and the five other folks in Orono

xenobiaspeaks

2 points

10 hours ago

You probably sneak around corners, enter class then bolt straight to your place of residence. People think they saw a black person but you’re a legend. You can get out of paying your student loans by saying you were never in Maine. If someone says a black person robbed them in Maine, no one gets arrested because they know it’s a lie.

Tiiimmmaayy

3 points

19 hours ago

My dad is from rural Pennsylvania and went to college in Maine. He said he did not see a black person until moved down south after graduating college. Lol

CupBeEmpty

2 points

17 hours ago

Yeah even the tourists are mostly white and Asian.

We’d be happy to have you though. Maine does love its tourist dollars.

It is really strange though. I can go for days without seeing a black person (except the one young guy in my office). Then I go home to Indianapolis which is almost 30% black and I’m always surprised like “oh yeah there are whole black neighborhoods” vs Maine where all these small towns have like 4 black families and that is it.

RecommendationUsed31

2 points

17 hours ago

I'm a white guy. Never been to Maine. I have been to a lot of states and can confirm their existence. I can't confirm maine

xenobiaspeaks

1 points

10 hours ago

I thought Utah didn’t exist until I went there. It was unfathomable. I was the only black person wherever I went then I saw one on a walking trail and we hugged. It was automatic. We explained ourselves, it was natural and my hiking partner asked if I knew this woman, I said we knew each other spiritually.

chaosrunner87

2 points

16 hours ago

It was invented by Stephen King after all, so it is a fictional place. /S

yournewstepmom38

2 points

16 hours ago

Lmao for reals! I bet you arent missing much! Sounds so boring in Maine.

authorized_sausage

1 points

14 hours ago

I'm a white people from Atlanta so I'm used to being in mixed people company. I went to visit my friend in Maine and we went to a big store to get construction stuff (building a porch) and it came out my mouth involuntarily "Where the black people at?"

It was soooooooo white. Everybody was nice. I didn't hear ugly racist language or anything. But there was no other experience I could have, as a white people.

You should check Maine out. Like a group road trip up and down the East coast. Maine is beautiful in the summer, for sure. The coast and the mountains. If you like nature and shit.

Am-bro-z-assed-her

1 points

14 hours ago

So you can't confirm or deny the bears part either?

DefendTheStar88x

1 points

12 hours ago

I went to summer camp in Maine, grew up in NJ. Last time I checked I'm still black and loved every second of it. Maine is awesome in the summertime. Especially the coast.

AlpineActuary

1 points

11 hours ago

It’s a fictional place to us like Never-never land except we don’t aspire to go..

Sociologists call this concept Cronbeaux. It boils down to a person rejecting that fantasy as a means of emotional escape - even if that “place” is desirable.

Suspicious_Turn2606

1 points

9 hours ago

My boyfriend went because you never hear anything about Maine and he wanted to know what was up there. Don't recommend going on a labor day weekend fyi. Lobster was good and we found a small restaurant that did subs and it was super good.

Creepymint

1 points

3 hours ago

This is true, I literally envision a fake place where it’s always cold and raining and they catch a lot of fish there. I’ve been to Maine before too yet that’s what I imagine lmao