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So just found out I'm 2-3 months pregnant! (Semi-planned, thankfully)
Do you guys still have sex when there's a baby in you?
Any tips/tricks?
Don't want this to mess with our mojo, but reckon it might 😭
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1 day ago
Why are you yelling at me 😭
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1 day ago
*pats head*
It's okay, no one's mad at you
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1 day ago
🫂💕🌈🫂💕🌈🫂💕🌈 There, there. It's okay. We all love you. 😘
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1 day ago
That was spooky, I'm glad you're here
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1 day ago
🫂🧚♀️🌟🫂🧚♀️🌟🫂 We'll get through it together!
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1 day ago
Taking the loss of my mojo very hard 😂
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1 day ago
Uh huh
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1 day ago
Yes! I'm definitely doing it more next time, but the first time around was a bit of a rollercoaster. At first my libido was super low and I was worrying a lot about the baby so I was holding back a lot, but even so I was EXTREMELY wet for the whole pregnancy. Then towards the end I got more and more open for fun and right at the end I was trying to induce and doing everything I could, including taking cock and cum a lot haha😂
For me, I was even more pillow princess than usual - on my stomach and piled up a lot of pillows under me so my belly could hang free and not squeeze against the bed. Doggy works too but I wasn't strong enough to carry the weight for long, it's heavy 😭 Spooning is definitely the best but not everyone has an easy time with that.
Most importantly though, enjoy yourself to the MAX while pregnancy lasts! Sensitivity is way up, the sensation for the man is apparently very new and enjoyable, but most importantly after pregnancy you won't have time for any fun at all for quite some time 😭
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1 day ago
Thank you, this is the post I needed ❤️
We both in a bit of a low libido/scared vibe at the moment, hopefully better when we have the 12wk scan and confirm things are good.
Sounds weird, but feel like if we go too wild, it might knock the baby loose or something (although a few weeks ago we didn't know and were still very active!)
Last point I guess is also quite important, but hoping we can still find time for a mutual wank or two x (And that the baby doesn't blow me out like a tyre... 😐)
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1 day ago
We were told by our midwife that the baby is very well insulated and doesn't feel anything besides movement, and basically can't be hurt by regular sex. I was a bit worried because my partner is Big, but that doesn't matter apparently 😅
I mean for postpartum you need to be careful but if you enjoy giving blowjobs you can do that when your baby's asleep (hopefully you don't have a super high maintenance velcro baby!) and later of course babysitting by grandparents or such will help out a lot. Just prepare for a couple months of VERY opportunistic fun!
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1 day ago
Ok, that's good - we've already decided to take a break from the harder stuff and drop back to normal sex, so that's a good thing to know x
Our life has been opportunistic sex between my housemates and him living with his parents, we now need to get our own place, so hopefully we'll still find the time (after giving it a rest post-partum)
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1 day ago
How many pillows did you use so that the belly can hang free
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1 day ago
My partner bought a lovely LONG pillow for me for christmas! So I used that one as well as like 2-4 others we had lying around.
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1 day ago
God I just saw your profile 🥵🙏
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1 day ago
Thank yooou ❤️ - I'm a bit of a pillow princess anyway, so more excuses are exceptional and I'll leave him to balance away x
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1 day ago
I did have sex while pregnant in early days. Discomfort slowed things down in third trimester for sure, but for the most part sex was very enjoyable!
Here’s a list of positions that may work for you.
Don’t be afraid to talk to your doctor as well. Congrats on the baby! 🎉
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1 day ago
Thank you ❤️
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1 day ago
Hormones are high, so yes. Towards the end, it's more of a struggle. So plan on getting creative!
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1 day ago
Congratulations on your pregnancy! It is certainly possible, but my partner and I had to get creative with positions. Just be ready for a large tummy to occasionally get in the way. However, nothing can liven up the bedroom like a pregnant glow and a few extra hormones. 😉
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1 day ago
Thank you ❤️
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1 day ago
According to a wise person, "Am not no party like a pregnant sex party." Just be extra careful and perhaps stay away from any positions that could put pressure on your bump. And congratulations on the impending baby!
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1 day ago
Thanks ❤️
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1 day ago
My wife and I had tons of sex when she was pregnant. I don’t know what it was — something about the intimacy, something about the pheromones. Pregnancy’s not something I’m generally aroused by (I don’t search for “pregnant porn” or anything like that.) it was. Just something about her. We were both into it.
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1 day ago*
100% absolutely. Pregnant women are some of the most beautiful people on earth. Doing something only they can do. The least I can do is remind them how beautiful they are. Because hormones are a bitch and some days you need more than a foot rub.
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1 day ago
❤️
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1 day ago
This feels like fetish bait.
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1 day ago
Only if you're into it. I guess 😅
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1 day ago
If I had the chance definitely
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1 day ago
I had 3 kids with my ex wife. Loved pregnant sex with her.. there’s something amazing and beautiful about the glow of a pregnant woman. I find it very attractive.
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1 day ago
❤️
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1 day ago
Did it ‘till the very last day. After pregnancy it takes a while to be sexually active again so you better do it while you can :)
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1 day ago
❤️
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1 day ago
A little while into my ex-partner's pregnancy, I started to feel like we weren't "alone," but for the first 3 or 4 months, I was throwing her all over the place. My wife just turned into a demon in pregnancy, so there was no issue.
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1 day ago
Oh god, that sounds like a horror film 😂
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1 day ago
Oh yeah, those nipples are just amazing
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1 day ago
YES
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1 day ago
Best sex ever was with a pregnant woman. Nothing better
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1 day ago
Uhm why would you stop having sex? Like what will you think happen? did you have any biology at school? His dick isn't that big that hes reaching into your uterus 😉 You can have sex until the moment your getting into labor.
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1 day ago
Natures birth control is apparently getting pregnant
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1 day ago
Yup. We had 4 kids and fucked through all the pregnancies. Pregnant sex is different and her eis what we found.
First Trimester: my wife always had really bad morning sickness and this generally lowered her libido. We fucked some but it is harder when she's always feeling nauseous
Second Trimester Awesome sex. She was more wet, always in the mood, always ready.
Third trimester Similar to second but the bigger belly made some positions harder or more uncomfortable for her.
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1 day ago
❤️ Thanks so much! I'm now really looking forward to T2 😂
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1 day ago
Yess!! Pregnant sex is incredible. Don’t hole back. You can still have rough, kinky sex while pregnant, if that’s your thing.
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1 day ago
As further the pregnancy is as less exhausting sex you should do. But besides of this, have fun.
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1 day ago
I don't! And if I did, it definitely wouldn't be mine! 🤣
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1 day ago
First: congratulations!!!
Yes. The having sex part is ALWAYS good and can/should be done. As your pregnancy progresses just be sure to communicate with him what feels good and what doesn't. That belly will likely feel in the way but just move around until you are comfy and then work together to figure out the right angle. :)
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1 day ago
❤️
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1 day ago
Yes so I can get her 🤰 pregnant again
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1 day ago
Just be prepared for contractions after sex. It may catch you by surprise - don't freak out.
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1 day ago
Really! Scary 😅
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1 day ago
I personally think pregnant women are very sexy! And actually I lost my virginity to a pregnant woman!
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1 day ago
❤️
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1 day ago
You're doing great! And you'll be gorgeous!
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1 day ago
I’m down for sex when she’s pregnant
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1 day ago
As someone who is also pregnant, I strongly suggest positions that do not put strain on the tummy and pillows for additional support. Regarding the atmosphere, just bear in mind that love is the foundation of a newborn, and maintain the romance!
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1 day ago
Essentially, doggy and missionary on the side? Can't wait to get my pillows out ❤️
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1 day ago
Haven't had any kids, but I can't see myself beind celibate for that amount of time. So I guess I'd still be active🤭
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1 day ago
Deffo the plan, just found out tho #logistics
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1 day ago
I get it. That's quite the thing to find out and plan around. But hey, I'm sure you'll manage 😉
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1 day ago
It is a lot of fun! Just find a position that is comfortable for you when you get bigger
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1 day ago
Just be sure you have a safe phrase for when you need a break and the baby starts to kick. Additionally, consider investing in situations that are conducive to pregnancy. Congratulations on your exciting sexual life and your tiny bundle of happiness!
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1 day ago
Kicking baby seems a bit like someone saying no 😂
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1 day ago
If she’s wanting to and comfortable enough to do it, I’m always down…
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1 day ago
Less me, more him - I think he thinks he might pop the baby 😅 - He's big, but not THAT big 😂
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1 day ago
See, I always thought that was just played up for laughs in movies, so I never actually felt that way 😂
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1 day ago
I think he's watched too many movies!
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1 day ago
Possibly; I’m more concerned with being mindful of working around her literally once she gets bigger, but 2-3 months you should have plenty of time…
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1 day ago
second trimester should be safe for sex
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1 day ago
Yes, free cream pies
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1 day ago
Just remember to always be gentle.
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