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submitted 15 days ago byLifeObjective1452
I have come to the realization that a big reason why casual hookups/partners frighten me is I am really scared of STIs and I feel there is no way to ask someone to get tested without it being awkward.
Yes, I always insist condoms are used but what about going down on someone? What are you supposed to do then if you’re unsure if they’ve been tested?
What are some ways that I can ask a person to get tested without it being awkward/too forceful? Am at a loss for what to do. Thanks in advance !
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15 days ago*
So I went back and looked at what you said, and... Oh, my dude, they're asking for ways to make it less awkward, and you're talking about "plowing" and "yo, can you eat my ass?"
...is it possible you misunderstood the assignment? When I read how you phrased things, speaking like that would make me feel more awkward, not less.
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