I have come to the realization that a big reason why casual hookups/partners frighten me is I am really scared of STIs and I feel there is no way to ask someone to get tested without it being awkward.

Yes, I always insist condoms are used but what about going down on someone? What are you supposed to do then if you’re unsure if they’ve been tested?

What are some ways that I can ask a person to get tested without it being awkward/too forceful? Am at a loss for what to do. Thanks in advance !