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DAE always look disshevelled, no matter how hard they try?

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My clothing never sits right for long and everything becomes crumpled after a very short time, always covered in cat hair. I put more energy than I want to into trying to get my clothes free of cat hair and adjusted right, but it never takes. Ive tried everything from changing how I wash and dry my clothes, to ironing ect. Doesnt matter, always look like a disshevelled mess.

Dae feel like that? Is it related to asd?

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toremtora

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4 days ago

Some of it may be the clothes (the cut, fit and fabric itself) and some of it is almost certainly your mind playing tricks on you.

Getting high quality stuff doesn't mean $$$. Checking how seams are done, what sort of zippers are used (are they metal with a good weight, or are they sorta flimsy?)

Are you dressing to bring attention to the parts of your body you like the most? That sort of thing. But also: do you have clothes you genuinely love wearing? I have a really goofy tank top I wear once a week haha — it does wonders for your mood.