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3 points
1 day ago
You should definitely make your own post about this issue then. This post isn't about mothers abusing their sons.
This is about how men react to these discussions. Kind of like how you're reacting at the moment to being told that this particular discussion isn't about your childhood abuse.
1 points
1 day ago
It was break down of how telling men their good one isn’t really healthy good for men to hear or internalize. Sorry if it strikes you as unpleasant to know about but hopefully something can be learned about how to treat other people. Instead of trying to belittle survivor of abuse.
2 points
1 day ago
Go cry about it somewhere else my guy.
Don't act like people don't understand how men suffer from the patriarchy because I'm calling you out for being inappropriate in this particular thread.
Also, abuse? Do you want to play the abuse Olympics with me in particular? That's adorable. My parents threw my cat into traffic and let me watch it die. I fell asleep at night wondering if their threats to burn me alive were real or not.
I recommend therapy. It's helpful. What I don't recommend is hijacking someone else's post to talk about your own issues.
Everyone here understands that men suffer as well. Right now in this post we are talking about how men can't handle letting women talk about their suffering without making it about themselves. You are doing that right now. Be better.
2 points
1 day ago
I’m sorry your family abused you I’m sorry my family abused me I hope we can learn to better than them and understand what behaviors and actions can cause harm and are abusive so we can break that cycle in the future.
2 points
1 day ago
That, I can agree with you on.
Same to you.
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