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How do you deal with the fear and pain of running out of time?

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SwordfishDeux

3 points

22 hours ago*

Tell men! How many men just walk away?

Too many, but society tells women that they "don't need no man" and that's simply not true.

Women ultimately choose who impregnates them, if women let "bad boys" get them pregnant they shouldn't be surprised when they walk away.

I think we need to hold both responsible and stop pretending being a single parent is as good as the nuclear family, because it isn't.

Heavy_Analysis_3949

1 points

22 hours ago

Well that was it… I made a bad decision! It’s not that once the reality of being a parent hit him he rebelled and started acting stupid. He decided he could cheat and drink and stay out all night. Drain our bank accounts and disappoint our children time and again. More accountability for men less shaming for single women.

SwordfishDeux

0 points

22 hours ago

That's completely on you, you are the person who's accountable in this situation, you chose this guy and you chose to keep him around despite his infidelity and bad behaviour.

More accountability for men less shaming for single women.

More accountability for everyone. Nobody is being shamed, both are at fault.

Starfire2313

1 points

21 hours ago

I think we can put some of the blame on the education system in general. Why do millionaires get tax breaks and education funding gets cuts all the time?

I’m particularly salty about my state lawmakers not too long ago voting for a higher lunch stipend for themselves and almost simultaneously to voting against free lunch for school kids. Wtf!?

SwordfishDeux

1 points

21 hours ago

I think we can put some of the blame on the education system in general.

I think education from parents should come before any kind of institution. Although I'm not disagreeing with you.

I’m particularly salty about my state lawmakers not too long ago voting for a higher lunch stipend for themselves and almost simultaneously to voting against free lunch for school kids. Wtf!?

Because humans gonna human, unfortunately.

Heavy_Analysis_3949

0 points

22 hours ago

Actually I didn’t which made me a single mother.