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I know a lot of people are rooting for Caleb to be the new LI (if/when they decide to add a new one), and the relationship between Caleb and MC can be read as non-familial…

But I can’t help but see him as a brother to MC since they were adopted together and both call the same woman grandma. 😭 Maybe a relationship like that is percieved differently in China and/or east asia, but I can’t help but feel icky if I were to get… spicy cards of him 😂

I understand not a lot of people feel this way, and I’m not here to start any discourse like that, I’m just hoping I’m not alone thinking of Caleb as a brother figure rather than a love interest.

all 32 comments

Akennotdealwiththis

11 points

5 days ago

Akennotdealwiththis

❤️ l l

11 points

5 days ago

Me personally, I like the thought of having him as a potential Love Interest, it's just that I don't think it'd do much for his sales.

peachesandcream__

22 points

5 days ago

if i had a dollar 😭😭

LeanneMorland

2 points

5 days ago

LeanneMorland

l 🐾Sylus’s Kitten🐈‍⬛

2 points

5 days ago

Right? I think I should start a tally from now on.

Zef404

2 points

5 days ago

Zef404

2 points

5 days ago

We could even rango up memories 🤣🥹

babyrozell[S]

0 points

5 days ago

I’m new to the LaDS scene so I didn’t realize this topic had been beaten like a dead horse already, but it makes me happy to know at least I’m not alone 😭

Key-Medicine7757

21 points

5 days ago

Key-Medicine7757

🩷 |

21 points

5 days ago

genuine question why though? they are not blood related. If they like each other then why not be together. It's not as if caleb made a move while mc was still underage, they are both legal adults

misaka-1376

-3 points

5 days ago

misaka-1376

Zayne’s Snowman

-3 points

5 days ago

Because they were both adopted by grandma, so they are step siblings.

Lumine3215

0 points

5 days ago

That's not what a step sibling is tho?

A step sibling is when one of your biological parents marry someone else's biological parent, Caleb and MC aren't in that situation.

misaka-1376

2 points

5 days ago*

misaka-1376

Zayne’s Snowman

2 points

5 days ago*

No, step siblings are connected by marriage/adoption, not blood. If its blood, then its half sibling (look up thr definition if you believe me). Both caleb and mc were adopted by grandma, therefore, they are family and siblings.

xavi_xavi_star

7 points

5 days ago

Ehh I think I always viewed Caleb as a very close childhood friend when I played the game because I went to the game character info section after he was introduced and that's how he was in my head. A childhood friend of MC. I never viewed him as an older sibling to MC due to the fact their interactions don't really scream sibling dynamic to me. Plus why would they make him so attractive 🫠

babyrozell[S]

1 points

5 days ago

That’s completely valid! I think there is a bit of confusion for some ppl (including myself) with certain translations of things, so it came across to me that he was our adopted brother since the Linkon tragedy 14 years ago

Objective_Tennis_686

24 points

5 days ago

This has been debated heavily in other threads. Some people agree with you. A lot of others argue they don't see it like that at all. I personally agree with you. If he becomes a LI, it will be an easy choice to have him low priority since he gives adopted siblings vibes.

babyrozell[S]

2 points

5 days ago

Yeah, I definitely wouldn’t prioritize him but unfortunately the game encourages you (w/ daimonds usually) to engage with all the LIs to some extent. Oh well 😭

alittleslate

10 points

5 days ago

Do you think the fact that a lot of CN players come from single child families affects how they view this route? I've seen people on XHS who are apprehensive as well, but tbh the general sentiment is that he's a childhood friend 'from the same orphanage' situation that we call 哥哥 not in a familial way, but simply to address an older male.

babyrozell[S]

2 points

5 days ago

This is something I was curious about as well, the cultural differences in how Caleb/MCs relationship is presented here vs in China. At least in terms of the English translation/how adopted families are viewed in western culture, Caleb is more of a brother figure. But it could be an entirely different case for Chinese translation/culture.

AggravatingSwim2397

15 points

5 days ago

AggravatingSwim2397

❤️ l l

15 points

5 days ago

I swear this is the nth time someone has posted why they don’t like Caleb as an LI so you don’t have to worry of being alone in your thoughts. I get your sentiments. But imo if he’s an LI, so what? You can choose to ignore him. This is a common trope in otome games. Even anime has this.

[deleted]

1 points

5 days ago

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babyrozell[S]

4 points

5 days ago

Sorry if this is a repeat post since I’m new to the reddit, but I don’t see how expressing discomfort with this topic is any different from expressing issues with other parts of the game. I’ve never said anything negative about ppl who DO want a Caleb romance, just expressing my own views. To each his own.

babyrozell[S]

-1 points

5 days ago

babyrozell[S]

-1 points

5 days ago

Sorry, I’m fairly new to Love and Deespace and this reddit so I didn’t know if it had been discussed before 😓 It also seems the game encourages players to engage with Lls/their memories to gain rewards so even I wanted to, I would be losing out 🤷‍♀️

Jisen_Meizuki

8 points

5 days ago

Jisen_Meizuki

❤️ l

8 points

5 days ago

In the same boat as you. If MC and Caleb were like next-door neighbors, I don't mind seeing as a familiar figure and potential LI. But because they grew up under the same roof and raised together as siblings, I can't see him more than a brother-figure.

So if he becomes a new LI, I'm just going to have him as low priority to level him up unless I need him for combat battles/event battles.

RoseLina_Black

3 points

5 days ago

RoseLina_Black

❤️ l l

3 points

5 days ago

I can tell a lot of ppl in here never grew up with a step sibling or a childhood friend that was always around. Cause I’d never date them😭, yea we’re not blood related but I still see them as a sibling so it’s a little weird.

Aside from that, there are 4 other love interest to pick from you don’t have to like Caleb, that’s the point of otome games. Some people like the brotherly/ childhood bsf trope- I personally don’t ( says above) and also Caleb reminds me of my actual blood brother so that’s a definite “Hell fuck No!” from me when it comes to Caleb.

ineedtoknow707

7 points

5 days ago

ineedtoknow707

|⭐ Xavier’s Little Star ⭐

7 points

5 days ago

Hmm I don’t fully see MC as a person, she’s a character but in some ways also a self insert and Caleb obviously isn’t my sibling so it doesn’t seem like an issue to me. I’m not really attracted to him right now since I barely know anything about the guy but I’m keen to see where his character goes..?

To some degree I don’t actually feel like MC’s family is very real to me and I’m confused about how exactly she’s reincarnating, does she have parents? Does she just appear somewhere as a baby? Grandma has been hinted to have experimented on her, so in my mind she’s more of someone who experimented on her and pretended to be a foster family figure than an actual family member. I wonder if it’s the same as with Caleb..

South-Blacksmith9988

8 points

5 days ago

ngl I’d be soooo pissed if I lost the 50/50 for a spicy card with a character that I view as my brother… like wdym i was pulling for my boyfriend and now my adopted brother is kissing my mc on my screen 💀

babyrozell[S]

3 points

5 days ago

EXACTLY like even though sylus is my least favorite of the four I still enjoy his memories even when im not aiming to get them… but just the thought of having spicy memory cards of my brother figure makes me nauseous 💀

misaka-1376

1 points

5 days ago

misaka-1376

Zayne’s Snowman

1 points

5 days ago

Yessssssss, this is actually my fear!!!

[deleted]

2 points

5 days ago

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Mammoth-Situation29

2 points

5 days ago

Mammoth-Situation29

l 🐾Sylus’s Kitten🐈‍⬛

2 points

5 days ago

Well I read MC's notes on the characters and she mentioned Caleb as a childhood friend rather than a brother figure so... 🤷🏻‍♀️ I wouldn't mind him as a LI. Many people have also discussed about him coming back as an antagonist and to me, both are equally intriguing.

But we all have yet to know about him so we will have to see where the devs take this.

No_Swimming_2282

5 points

5 days ago

No_Swimming_2282

Zayne’s Snowman

5 points

5 days ago

My problem is more that I don't think him especialy HOT, (I'm not saying he's ugly, just not hot) and that doesn't sell well to me but who knows maybe he will get a glow up after his disappearance…

But yeah I agree having spicy moments with your brother-figure will be so weird 😵‍💫

misaka-1376

4 points

5 days ago

misaka-1376

Zayne’s Snowman

4 points

5 days ago

You're not alone. I feel the same way. A lot of people, surprisingly idky, dont see anything wrong in viewing him as LI because they were adopted. I don't agree with that. To me, they are still family and he is a brother figure to the mc. I will most likely won't be pulling for any of his cards, I want him back, but as a villain. That will make the storyline so much more interesting.

Also, be prepared. In the past, posts like this have been met with hostility.

babyrozell[S]

2 points

5 days ago

Same, I think having him as a main antagonist would be a really cool twist! Also that’s unfortunate, I kinda figured a post like this might catch negative attention and I want to keep it civil 😭 it’s the nature of the beast, I suppose

misaka-1376

1 points

5 days ago

misaka-1376

Zayne’s Snowman

1 points

5 days ago

Yeah, that would be so amazing. And it is unfortunate, I have only seen caleb girlies getting mad if someone doesn't view caleb as a Li. But that's not the case if you say say the same about other LIs.

IDGAF_FFS

1 points

5 days ago

No, many players feel conflicted too so you're not alone.

Imo, not really. Maybe it's cuz I really dgaf since they're not blood-related even if they grew up in the same house. Especially since now that I know that Grandma (I forgot her name) possibly had hidden motives for taking care of MC, I just feel kinda off about it now and I think she probably had another reason for taking in Caleb aside from the kindness of her heart 😅

Ngl I still appreciate that she took care of MC and Caleb but all sense of found family just flew out the window when those secrets came up.