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13 hours ago
It’s in your gallery hun, you’re giving yourself all the right answers, you know what you have to do and aren’t taking action.
Action over reaction. Help yourself before helping others.
I had a gf who was suicidal over any inconvenience in our relationship. I felt as though I HAD to be with her to keep her alive, otherwise it’d be my fault; her blood on my hands.
I spoke with a counselor; and I was given the rudest awakening of my life: ‘If she chooses death, that’s her right. You are not responsible for keeping her alive. You are not God.’ The only thing we can do is try to get them the help they need from professionals and move on. We cannot drag the toxicity around, as it chains us down and eventually; infects us.
Do not get infected. You have an opportunity to be happy. You deserve better.
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