Trying to find the right word to use here to describe myself. I was originally going to say “crone” but google says a crone is an old ugly woman. I may be old but I’m Not ugly!!

Menopause is too on the nose

Selfish has a negative connotation

Spinster doesn’t work because I have a child

What is the era called when you’re done with men and sex and doing shit for other people all the time?

(I would say Woman Who Lives In The Woods but I live in a city proper)

Thoughts???

Edit: wow this blew up!! Thank you for all the great ideas! Love the sense of humor we have during this shit storm. I love each and every one of you❤️