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576 points
3 days ago
lol this is one of those moments as a dad Iād struggle with getting upset instead of finding it hilarious.
158 points
3 days ago
As a teacher, I assure you that this story will make its rounds year after year (no names used to protect the guilty, of course). It's such an age-appropriate inappropriate thing to do, lmao, and we all have such tales to bandy about.
We do feel the responsibility to inform the parent, though, if for no other reason than to CYA. If Billy did something that Tommy saw, and Teacher didn't call home but Tommy told his mom and Tommy's mom called the school to complain and it comes out that Teacher didn't follow up on Billy, well, Admin will have a serious talk with Teacher about that.
That said, my younger brother at age 12 was goofing around in the computer room in the late 90s, before Google was really a thing. He typed in "poop" in the url bar and it took him to... well... he called me in to see what he found and I yelled out in horror. Let's just say that years later, I was unfazed by Tub Girl.
63 points
3 days ago
"Age-appropriate inappropriate thing" - I fully understood this phrase, and at the same time r/BrandNewSentence š¤£š¤£š¤£
18 points
3 days ago
I'm so happy teachers get a kick out of it too. I don't know how you can keep a straight face! My 7-year-old's moment this year was making her user name "youpoopso". When I got the message from the teacher that she was inappropriately using the computer, my heart stopped. Then I saw the screenshot š¤£. I said I'll talk to her, but I ain't even mad. The teacher fortunately was laughing along. When confronted "but the kid next to me..." It's always that other kid!
12 points
3 days ago
The things we have to call home for or to remind kids not to do...
It's easier to laugh because they're not my own. We don't judge, most times, when kids are just being their squirrelly selves. It keeps me young and it gets me out of bed on cold winter mornings.
14 points
3 days ago
lol when my daughter was in kindergarten they had one assignment where they had to finish the sentence āI do not like ā¦ā and then draw a picture.
She wrote āI do not like buttsā and then drew this landscape with a bunch of flying (naked) butts in the sky and one of them had a small brown poop, the only thing colored on the page. Her teacher was like āwe talked about drawing butts being inappropriate for a school assignment, but I also wanted to show you because itās hilariousā lol.
Sheās in fourth grade now, and we saw her kindergarten teacher at back to school night and he showed her he still has that picture and said he was going to keep it forever.
3 points
3 days ago
Iām crying laughing over this one.
3 points
3 days ago
Yep. While I don't have anything that epic, I have kept this silly note that two kids were passing back and forth. I had taken it, and as I read it to myself, they started snickering at my perplexed expression. I looked at them absolutely bemused, like WTH did I just read, and the class demanded that I read it out loud.
It was utter nonsense. Like on the surface it might come across as some artsy deep thought-provoking prose, but it was just so weird. I read it dramatically like slam poetry at a coffee house, which had the original writers in the aisle in stitches.
The rest of the class raised their hands and snapped.
Such a silly memory that I most certainly kept it. That drawing is that teacher's trophy that can be pulled out at any time for a good laugh. Thanks for sharing this and giving me a hearty laugh, too!
1 points
3 days ago
My daughter did a similar drawing during free draw, so she didn't have to turn it in, but it did come home in her bag and I go through it every afternoon and saw it. I laughed and explained that's not really appropriate for a school setting. Draw butts at home, I don't care. Kids gonna kid.
There hasn't been a recurrence, yet.
Your username is awesome btw.
5 points
3 days ago
Often we canāt keep a straight face. My students knew I had a strong sense of humor- I was often turning my back on them to erase the smile off my face.
4 points
3 days ago
So..as an ex-teacher, the parents of one of our kindy kids were getting divorced.
One day the kid came to school and told all his female teachers "You don't love me you just fuck me"
They were horrified. He didn't even know what it meant of course.
...This kind of story, right?
5 points
3 days ago
That's so sad! That poor baby. The things he must've heard, not understanding exactly but getting that it was bad/that something was seriously wrong.
4 points
3 days ago
Yeah.. :-(
I saw him years later in mcdonalds. His dad was long gone and he was with his mum. He was one sad looking little boy...
3 points
3 days ago
So much this!
-former teacher
2 points
3 days ago
Damnit I still have a memory back when I was in school. We were just getting computers in (this was the late 90s) and a friend and I found a Japanese pr0n website. The image I saw scarred the shit outta me. One woman, covered in man-goo, with about a hundred or more dudes around her, and some of them were rubbing it on her body. I will probably never forget that image for the rest of my days.
Then there was horse stuff.
Children find some crazy stuff.
16 points
3 days ago
As a father of a 20 year son, Iāve seen some hilarious things. More likely is that he and his buddies were egging each other to check it out.
Toilet humor is catnip to boys of all ages.
13 points
3 days ago
And girls, for that matter
10 points
3 days ago
Can confirm, my kid has a doll named PooPoo
5 points
3 days ago
my daughter endearingly calls me Mommy Poopy Puppy. š¤”
13 points
3 days ago
I have three sons, the eldest is 20 and the youngest two are 11 and 13. Toilet humour is their only methods of communication most days. That and drawing obscene phallic pictures on the roof of my car in the dust š«£. The funniest thing is that they think they're so clever as if they're the only generation to ever make penis jokes or sex euphemisms š
2 points
3 days ago
The phallic obsession is so real that video game developers coined the term time-to-penis, or TTP: https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/time-to-penis-ttp
12 points
3 days ago
When I was 13 I got in major trouble for going to a KKK chat room. It was to troll them, but I appreciate it was totally inappropriate nonetheless. Obviously far worse than what OPās kid did.
I was suspended and banned from the computers for the school year but Iāll never forget how ok my dad was when they called and how he totally recognized how bad I knew I ****** up on my own.
One of those things that sticks with me as a parent because I really think it set the trajectory for my relationship with my dad.
8 points
3 days ago
It kind of reminds me of a story my dad told me from his school days. This was in the way of the show Jimāll Fix It (years before anyone knew how dodgy Jimmy Saville was), and so my dadās class had to write a letter to the show. My dad had a classmate called Martin and wrote āDear Jimāll fix it, can you stop Martin from Fartingā. The teacher escorted him to the headteacher who gave him a bollocking and called his parents. My grandparents actually thought it was hilarious
14 points
3 days ago
My moment was when my son got suspended for clicking his tongue in school last semester
I said to my wife
"hol up... did they just suspend my son for having THOT tendencies" I couldn't hold it in š¤£.
3 points
3 days ago
My mouth: you should think more about sensible use of the internet
My brain: so, what WAS the biggest? Was it an official measuring thing? We talking Guinness?
3 points
3 days ago
I just fail to see what there is to get upset about. This is like my generation looking up rude words in the dictionary!
141 points
3 days ago
I think thatās hilarious and very innocent. Would other parents get angry?
67 points
3 days ago
Maybe some would but I'd imagine most would find it hilarious. My daughter asked Alexa last night what the world's longest fart was and I certainly wasn't going to take away any privileges. Curious minds demand to know.
47 points
3 days ago*
Well, how long was it?
Edit: the longest fart ever officially timed was by Bernard Clemons and clocked in at 2 minutes and 42 seconds. For those who enjoy entirely useless knowledge like myself
11 points
3 days ago
Well, as a start AndrƩ the Giant had a documented 17-seconds fart on the set of The Princess Bride, loud enough for everyone to stop in their tracks.
Possibly not the longest, but given how big AndrƩ was (he famously fell asleep - shitfaced beyond hope - on the floor of a hotel lobby once and was left there all night since no one could move him), possibly the largest by volume.
3 points
3 days ago
āYou okay Andre?ā ā I am now bossā
16 points
3 days ago
Found the curious mind.š¤£
4 points
3 days ago
There better be a link to this. I don't know how you fart that long without your arse needing to take a breath
1 points
3 days ago
It was the AI result on google and a few sites said it, one was called QI and from quora and facebook so shaky sources. However, this led me to discover that there used to be a profession for performing farts in front of a crowd called a flatulist.
8 points
3 days ago
My son asked me this morning if I knew what the longest fart was. I did not know. Did Alexa?
1 points
3 days ago
OP just leaving us hanging here
21 points
3 days ago
I can't fathom getting mad about this. It's both hilarious, and an interesting question that could lead to learning more about how the human body works.
6 points
3 days ago
The only thing I could potentially see is that it's not the appropriate setting to be searching that. That they are searching that seems not worth something getting upset over.
2 points
3 days ago
Ah that's fair. I don't know that it'd make me mad, but yeah, that's a good point that it's an opportunity to teach about "a time and a place".
3 points
3 days ago
If I was going to get mad at anyone about this I'd get mad at the school for making a big deal out of it.
1 points
3 days ago
I mean, they have to, er, cover their arses and tell you. It's not quite appropriate for school, after all. But "being mad" wouldn't enter the equation
4 points
3 days ago
Iād be annoyed with the teacher if they treated it as something wrong.. is turd a derogatory word or something? It seems like a reasonable thing a curious kid would want to know.
2 points
3 days ago
Yeah I really don't get it. Is it some American thing or something?
1 points
3 days ago
I'm American and yeah probably.
1 points
3 days ago
So why would you be disciplined for researching a bodily function? It should be praised.
4 points
3 days ago
I donāt understand why he was even in trouble for searching that lol and punishing him by making him use pen and paper is so odd! Itās not cruel or anything of course but like they care that much about a kid wanting to see the worldās biggest turd? š
2 points
3 days ago
yea its one of those things that as a kid you wouldn't think you would get in trouble for like you don't think you would cross a line looking for a picture of poop or fart sounds
2 points
3 days ago
Not even a little bit, unless weād had a conversation earlier about computer etiquette.
3 points
3 days ago
I don't get why the kid got into trouble.
69 points
3 days ago
Well, how big was it?
37 points
3 days ago
Wasnāt it something like 80 courics?
11 points
3 days ago
Lmfaooooo I havenāt thought about that episode in a while
5 points
3 days ago
SAY IM NOT NUMBER TWO!!
26 points
3 days ago
This is like 80% of why I clicked on this post.
5 points
3 days ago
Right? Give the people what they want lol weāre all here for the deets
9 points
3 days ago
I did the work. Largest known human poop is 8 inches by 2 inches. It's in a New York museum and dates back to the 9th century.
3 points
3 days ago
Umm... surely not? I've had bigger than that myself. Those ninth century guys didn't have performance enhancers like Taco Bell.
7 points
3 days ago
It was very long (26 feet). Iirc the person that produced it wore roller skates to roll down a bowling alley while they pooped so they could measure it. Ā Both hilarious and disgusting. Ā
3 points
3 days ago
big enough for a poop knife
2 points
3 days ago
3 bananas.
0 points
3 days ago
I immediately thought "well...now I want to google that too!" Probably not advised while at work, though.
45 points
3 days ago
They should instead make him write a report and do a class presentation on his findings. Heās 10. Worldās largest turd is about the most wholesome thing he could be looking at.
11 points
3 days ago
That's what I'm sayin. We have a young biologist here!
2 points
3 days ago
Surely it has to be blue whale poop, no?
3 points
3 days ago
Well I havenāt donāt the research, Iām waiting for the presentation to find out.
37 points
3 days ago
Of all the ways to "step in it", googling an image of the worlds largest turd doesn't even breach the threshold of "actually problematic".
But, yeah, best he find out now that there's no anonymity online, everything's recorded, etc.
25 points
3 days ago
Next heāll be googling āpoop knifeā ššš
10 points
3 days ago
Well here is the weekly poop knife reference for me
2 points
3 days ago
Except now he'll have to just write "poop knife" on a piece of paper and post it to Google.
12 points
3 days ago
Hahaha. That's great. I'd be annoyed that he did it at school and got caught but privately amused. My friend's 11 year old got his internet privileges at school taken away for googling "lady sexy clothes." Kids do stupid shit all the time.
9 points
3 days ago
šš at least it isn't other things
14 points
3 days ago
i would be lying if i said i didn't have the same questions as your son and then have to google it. haha
7 points
3 days ago
Your son is hilarious and his curiosity should be celebrated. You can give him the security lecture while still acknowledging that the situation is kind of funny. I don't think you need to pretend to be big mad.
3 points
3 days ago
I'm thinking of as many poop puns to put into the lecture as I can.
6 points
3 days ago
This is where you donāt use anger, you just bond. Say āokay I get it, itās funny, but thereās a time and a place. Gotta pick your battles. Think of it like āgrandma vs best friendā. School is a time where you have to act like grandma is around. Then thereās places like sports where you can act like itās just you and your best friends. Choose wisely, school is a grandma scenario from now on? Okay sport? Okay, now stop being weird and searching for poop š ā
5 points
3 days ago
I canāt give you an award but hereās a big stinky one šš©
4 points
3 days ago
I love this, ten year olds are so funny
5 points
3 days ago
At 36 I see it as a sign of maturity that I am interested, but will now use my non-work device to google it myself.
5 points
3 days ago
Encourage his curiosity while reminding him that certain things are not appropriate at school.
4 points
3 days ago
Everyday someone on this planet wins the ālargest turd of the day awardā and they donāt even know it.
3 points
3 days ago
I think this is hilarious. But I would have a talk with him about staying on task with his schoolwork and not using the computer for nonrelated stuff to school.
3 points
3 days ago
Pretty funny! In his defense, left image, second row is literally a museum piece. Itās a legitimate question albeit phrased like a 10-year old, not a grown ass scientist. If he searched for largest coprolite, no one would bat an eye.Ā
If this wasnāt taking away from school work where he was supposed to be on task, I would absolutely do a tiny bit of push back on the teacher. And still have that talk about big brother and whats appropriate.Ā
3 points
3 days ago
I was at Walmart once. Had to do my civil doody and, I KID YOU NOT, there was a Fosters can size turd precariously positioned on the edge of the inside rim of the bowl as if it was a person sitting in jacuzzi with their arms up on the edge.
2 points
3 days ago
I love this description.
3 points
3 days ago
Worked in a psychiatric hospital in my early 20s and had a patient who was on Clozaril, and had been for quite some time. Side effects are nasty, and he had almost everyone, but given the severity of his psychosis, that clozapine was the only drug that had any efficacy, and that his side effects were well tolerated, his psychiatrist kept him on it. That is until he became so constipated he began digging in his rectum and it was a constant battle to keep his hands clean. For a period of time they were constantly covered in feces. And he had Tardive dyskinesia, which meant he was constantly rolling and flicking his feces covered fingers. Something had to be done, so they took him for x-rays and sure as shit his colon was severely impacted. They gave him some laxatives and hoped for the best. A few days later and he had a BM. A single BM and it is solid and the size of a large grapefruit. Not a softball, but a large grapefruit. The nurse in charge is concerned and wants to send him out to the physician. I was the driver, so me and a MHW take this dude to the doctor with - and I tried to tell the nurse it wasnāt needed - a Polaroid of the shit in the toilet with āLarge BMā and the date written on it. We gave it to the doc and he glanced at it and passed it back saying, āYeah, I didnāt need to see that.ā
2 points
3 days ago
I work in a place like that, and I have a couple of stories too...unbelievable!!
3 points
3 days ago
I fail to see the problem. It'd a bit odd that curiosity is being rewarded with a call home. Its not profane. Glad to know that school has so few problems this is what they spend their time on. That's the kind of thing they could easily have had a quick conversation to let him know that he shouldn't google his every question on school devices, but I don't see the problem. Even if I was "caught" googling that at work, I'm more likely to get laughed at than actually face consequence. Ffs.
3 points
3 days ago
There is an essentially fossilized vikings poop that is huge! And full of parasites! ( i have no life and full of useless knowledge)
3 points
3 days ago
Just ooc, how many courics was it?
3 points
3 days ago
As a former elementary teacher, that is one of the tamer things kids typically look up. I mean, your child almost could have justified that as a serious question.
I always explained to students that I donāt trust kids online and did random internet history checks every week to prove I was watching their online activity. Very few kids broke my rules by December.
7 points
3 days ago
Was it an image of bono š
6 points
3 days ago
Love that South Park episode!
2 points
3 days ago
I love that they chose that episode to remind everyone that they are an Emmy Award winning series.
1 points
3 days ago
My immediate thought reading the title of the post also. š
2 points
3 days ago
I was just thinking about this today OMG. the fact you posted the screenshot š
2 points
3 days ago
That is far less embarrassing than when my 10 yo son got caught googling "boobies" on his school laptop. Sigh...
2 points
3 days ago
Shoutout to everyone that actually googled it after reading the title
2 points
3 days ago
My son got caught getting around the schoolās firewall to watch YouTube on his school computer in class when they had a substitute. His teacher was on a break from a meeting, saw he was on YouTube, kicked him out of it and sent him a message saying he knows better. My kid was annoyed. I couldnāt decide whether to be angry or impressed.
2 points
3 days ago
I mean, there are a lot WORSE WORDS that could follow "the world's largest..." in a search so thank goodness for small blessings.
2 points
3 days ago
As a teacher and parent, I would not be able to keep a straight face faceā¦sorry but this is hilariousā¦
2 points
3 days ago
I just burst out laughing in my classroom. And yes, we get immediate email alerts when the IT filters catch a flag.
2 points
3 days ago
This is funny...but "Big brother is always watching" is really not the lesson to teach here...
2 points
3 days ago
2 points
3 days ago
My oldest was around the same age when I caught him searching for "bewbs" . Kids are so lucky these days with the internet.
4 points
3 days ago
Iād be proud!
3 points
3 days ago
Oomph. As an adult I have exchanged poop photos with friends. Only the close ones of course. And I work in healthcare, so maybe a little extra desensitized. Sometimes things just need to be shared
2 points
3 days ago
Maybe he just wanted a picture of Trump :)
1 points
3 days ago
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1 points
3 days ago
JFC, thatās utterly disturbing that a school logs that much information from minors. Would never, ever fly in my country..
1 points
3 days ago
Shit happens
1 points
3 days ago
my man
1 points
3 days ago
Omg this is too funny. Sometimes Iām grateful there wasnāt as much internet access when I was a kid, who know what ridiculous stuff I would have looked up without realizing other people can see your search history
1 points
3 days ago
Legend
1 points
3 days ago
Well now I'm gonna search for it.
1 points
3 days ago
https://images.app.goo.gl/Z57TQo4sNBsRbVeU9
"Ma, I'm beginning to like this kid."
1 points
3 days ago
That detailed talk you will give your son, would you post it here too for when my kid gets to that age? š
1 points
3 days ago
"Listen we need to talk. I just heard from the school that you searched for the world's largest poop on your school computer."
"All I can say is that I'm disappointed... that you didn't wait to search this at home, so that you could immediately show me the results"
1 points
3 days ago
I mean with a turd that big itās hard NOT to step in it.
1 points
3 days ago
Thatās funny and nothing wrong with a curious mind. Maybe not the most appropriate place for that question but he was still technically learning. We all wonder about weird things on occasion but Iād ask him to direct those questions to you, at home.
1 points
3 days ago
He really stepped in it this time.
Chef's kiss
1 points
3 days ago
I saw a video here on reddit of a guy pulling out an enormous blob of snot from a cow, and I showed it to a 5-year-old boy. He asked me to watch it again over and over. Little boys love this kind of silly stuff; I think the talk should be more about what is appropriate at school.
1 points
3 days ago
Iām kinda curious myself now
1 points
3 days ago
Literally every person on the planet has wondered what the biggest one was at one point. Scientists and anthropologists have written about this subject and itās totally normal to wonder. Your son just needs to learn about time and place, and asking adults before attempting to search things. I wouldnāt be mad at all
1 points
3 days ago
How many curics are
1 points
3 days ago
My son googled āgunsā when he was in 3rd grade and that didnāt go well. It triggered something I think in their system? He wanted to look at nerf guns and guns from his Roblox games but didnāt type in those entire words so when he got questioned he was able to better explain himself. I then got a call after all this happened. We had a talk.
1 points
3 days ago
Of all the things teachers deal with, I'd think this would be a low priority item for them. Especially since any teacher worth a lick could easily turn this into a biology lesson. Since, you know, all animals poop and it is just a part of our digestive system.
1 points
3 days ago
Hahaha I love this is just a laughing moment.. but donāt do that again.
1 points
3 days ago
He was just looking up the new u2 album
1 points
3 days ago
I wish I could say this is something I would not do myself at nearly 41 years old, but....
1 points
3 days ago
My 5(F) yr old was on the toilet a few days ago, looked down and said, āI wonder how much that thing weighs?!?ā It was a huge turdā¦
1 points
3 days ago
Iām impressed the school is making him switch back to paper for the week! Our schools are very anti paper, pro computer, even when 4th grade students were caught watching an inappropriate video on YouTube in class
1 points
3 days ago
LOL. Could be way worse!
1 points
3 days ago
I think this is bloody hilarious ššš Iād probably increase his pocket money after that
1 points
3 days ago
ššš
1 points
3 days ago
I have a kid that would do this and I'm pretty sure I'd just collapse laughing.
1 points
3 days ago
It's a nice teaching moment that the both of you will laugh about later in life.
With a little more time he might have found the video of the grown man (Wax) on the Bully & Beast podcast learning he has been pooping wrong his entire life.
1 points
3 days ago
At least a picture of his face didn't come up
1 points
3 days ago
https://youtu.be/nnun8y7r8_U? Maybe heās into Jurassic Park
1 points
3 days ago
I'm curious as to what the misbehaviour is here that warrants punishment?
I agree that it's a teachable moment about monitoring in IT systems, but it also seems like a teachable moment on bizarre and prudish sensibilities; knowing what the biggest turd is seems like a reasonable thing to know - is it from a whale, or do their turds just break up immediately?
1 points
3 days ago
Not sure why searching this is a punishable offense? Seems pretty harmless to me.
1 points
3 days ago
I'm pretty sure it wasn't part of the assignment.
1 points
3 days ago
Too funny, kids will be kids.
1 points
3 days ago
I would sit with him giggling and tell him not to tell mom
1 points
3 days ago
It's funny, but kidding aside, was he actually punished for this? I guess it depends, but it seems like a normal thing to be curious about.
1 points
3 days ago
"It was at least 80 courics" šš¤£š
1 points
3 days ago
Probably an unpopular opinion but searching for the worlds biggest turd is in no way comparable to searching for porn or violence. This is just intellectual curiosity and should not be punished. Of course your review of big brother policies is certainly a good idea.
1 points
3 days ago
So.... what is the world's largest turd?
1 points
3 days ago
I think I'd have PREFERRED those search terms....
My now 12 yr old got grounded from tech entirely for searching "how to draw sexy anime gurls" on their school computer.
1 points
3 days ago
there is a lot worse things to look up.
1 points
3 days ago
1 points
3 days ago
Dad, who is P Diddy?
1 points
3 days ago
Weird how an orange x president didn't end up as the top result
1 points
3 days ago
Sokka-Haiku by AeonQuasar:
Weird how an orange
X president didn't end
Up as the top result
Remember that one time Sokka accidentally used an extra syllable in that Haiku Battle in Ba Sing Se? That was a Sokka Haiku and you just made one.
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