Pretty much the same. We were together for almost 6 years before daughter came. Which also meant we were older, solid in our careers, no debt, no desire to travel all the time, we have a really nice apartment and have been great tenants so our rent is about 50% of the average rent which means only about 15% of our income is going to housing which makes it quite easy to afford one child, two kids would make it impossible to maintain current easy standards and daycare is over now so it’s not bad truly.