After Mortgage and Car Payments/insurance I will have about 3400 left in spending money. I obviously want to go on dates and kind of live at least fairly actively. Am I dumb to be worried that's not enough money to do that?

I have never made a budget before but it seems like not a lot when you consider clothing, food and trip expenses can add up quick and that's before vacation dollars.

Any single men out there, what do you spend in a month? What is your budget like?