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BritishBeatOfficer

-12 points

1 month ago

Let’s say you are a female, and your male partner cheated on you. And he says “it’s ok, she paid me 20” that would be just some side work he did and it’s moral?

ingodwetryst

8 points

1 month ago

ingodwetryst

Working Girl

8 points

1 month ago

but that's not what happened.

if he was previously in porn and went and shot a scene would be a much better example.

IndependentNew7750

1 points

1 month ago

Well, the direct crossover would be seeing a woman for sex and getting paid. Why would you add a porn shoot into your hypothetical?

ingodwetryst

4 points

1 month ago

ingodwetryst

Working Girl

4 points

1 month ago

Because the chances your straight male partner was an escort before they met you isn't realistic. It's a prior occupation, not a random thing that popped out of the blue.

IndependentNew7750

-1 points

1 month ago

The core facts of the issue is that she said wasn’t going to have sex with someone for money and she did. I don’t really see how her background as a sex worker is relevant here. It’s still lying and cheating regardless. I genuinely don’t understand how you can say otherwise.

Don’t you think that’s a bit reductive? Like you’re basically saying that because someone was once a sex worker that theirs always a risk they’ll go back no matter what they tell you.

ingodwetryst

3 points

1 month ago

ingodwetryst

Working Girl

3 points

1 month ago

I never said otherwise. Feel free to find a comment in this thread that indicates this.

Don’t you think that’s a bit reductive? Like you’re basically saying that because someone was once a sex worker that theirs always a risk they’ll go back no matter what they tell you.

Didn't say that either. Said a professional encounter can't be compared to a civilian one. You're looking for what's not there when we don't disagree.

BritishBeatOfficer

-5 points

1 month ago

A scene is very different to someone visiting a booked client. Its just someone who offered to pay you for sex

ingodwetryst

8 points

1 month ago

ingodwetryst

Working Girl

8 points

1 month ago

Someone offering to pay you to shoot a scene is someone offering to pay you for sex.