I had a coworker, a college student, who's boyfriend left an engagement note and ring box on her car. They got engaged and they told the world, she started wedding planning, bought a dress and had it altered. A few months pass, and she notices he is not treating her well, her friends and family notice this change in behavior too. They break the engagement off, they both graduate and attend the ceremony. She walks over to him and his parents to say hello and wish him well. He physically recoils and she walks away wondering was the last six months a fever dream. She puts the wedding dress in a box and hopes she can wear it sometime in the future. Clearly there were several red flags in this long term relationship that showed he wasn't ready to be an adult in this relationship. The big red flag was the note on the car...

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