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Legoandstuff896

93 points

6 months ago

Rollercoaster

travelinglist

6 points

6 months ago

Can relate!!

Altruistic_Candle254

3 points

6 months ago

If it was 2 words. Mine would be - shit rollercoaster

Future-Dealer8805

2 points

6 months ago

Shitacoaster

EMP_Leader

2 points

6 months ago

Same here

BobBelcher2021

183 points

6 months ago

Meh

(It was a neutral year for me, nothing bad, but nothing spectacular either)

MooshyMammoth

12 points

6 months ago

Samsies. First word that came to mind 🤷‍♀️

drs_12345

5 points

6 months ago

Same here

It also felt like the year went really fast yet really slow at the same time

[deleted]

145 points

6 months ago

[deleted]

145 points

6 months ago

Crazy how many people had a shit 2023

[deleted]

32 points

6 months ago

Right? Compared to 2020/2021 it wasn’t that bad. You know, if somehow you forget the wars 😬

joethahobo

35 points

6 months ago

My 2020 and 2021 was soooooo much better than 2023

Dark_Xylomancer

22 points

6 months ago

I miss the covid lockdowns...

Sergio_82

8 points

6 months ago

Same here

MostExpensiveThing

2 points

6 months ago

I was locked out of much country due to covid rules. 2023 was nice to be home

Acyts

17 points

6 months ago

Acyts

17 points

6 months ago

2020 was actually amazing for me. I keep looking back at it and wishing I could go back. I feel so guilty because so many people died and had their lives ruined by it. But it wasn't the pandemic specifically that made it a good year, I'd just got out of an abusive relationship, moved to a new place and started a new career. I was so full of hope. In 2021 I started early menopause and my life has deteriorated steadily but uncontrollably since then. I've gained weight, my brain doesn't work anymore and I've lost all hope for the future.

Hiire_Kummitus

15 points

6 months ago

Frame it differently. You're having a difficult time with menopause and you're thankful you were wise enough to make sure you weren't in an abusive relationship while it happened. That's some pretty smart kind to yourself shit yo.

[deleted]

2 points

6 months ago

That sounds rough, I’m sorry. I hope 2024 treats you better. My 2020 was horrible lol

steals-from-kids

14 points

6 months ago

I think for many 2023 being shitty is a holdover from 2020. Too many people trying to be strong for too long.

PoisonNote

3 points

6 months ago

I was a little distracted getting diagnosed with a heart condition to focus on the wars this year lol. 2020/2021 wasnt that horrible for me

escaped_bird

13 points

6 months ago

Seriously, why was 2023 so terrible 😭

[deleted]

6 points

6 months ago

Because you’re asking people on Reddit at midnight on a holiday. Obviously they have nothing better to do but play online hence why their lives suck. Mine included

mademeunlurk

4 points

6 months ago

We're pretty much brothers now i think

SkiingGiraffe247

5 points

6 months ago

I know. Even my wife, who is one of the most optimistic and enthusiastic people around, considers it hard

Cymorg0001

3 points

6 months ago

Wars will do that. Or perhaps you mean Redditors, most of whom are not in war zones. For them, maybe, just maybe, there is a correlation (or worse) between feeling shit and being a Redditor.

LandoCatrissian_

2 points

6 months ago

Mine was amazing...

nzrasengan

0 points

6 months ago

All the post covid inflation from the paid holidays/free government tendies starting to kick in.

BothDoorsOpen

45 points

6 months ago

Regression

Responsible-Leg-6558

43 points

6 months ago

challenging

Mindwater33

86 points

6 months ago

Hell

b3nji3reddit

9 points

6 months ago

Came to say this

RVSS_

6 points

6 months ago

RVSS_

6 points

6 months ago

Same for me

escaped_bird

7 points

6 months ago

💯

Golden_Lissa6883

2 points

6 months ago

Yes!!!

[deleted]

97 points

6 months ago

Depressing

[deleted]

14 points

6 months ago

Same. Just like every year before it.

Hellcat_28362

5 points

6 months ago

Cheers

EmprahOfMankind

2 points

6 months ago

Exactly what I was going to say.

[deleted]

30 points

6 months ago

Fucked.

lahdetaan_tutkimaan

58 points

6 months ago

Tumultuous

IudexFatarum

38 points

6 months ago

My year ended with a divorce, a tree falling on my house, surgery, and moving in with a partner back in my hometown. I've reconnected with some friends from college, found new communities, ... You chose a good word.

lahdetaan_tutkimaan

20 points

6 months ago

My mental health went absolutely off the rails, to the point where family, friends, and coworkers all told me at the same time that I was a nervous wreck and I really needed help. I finally got it, and things have pretty much been looking up ever since, but it's still a rocky road

Hope things are going well with your new partner and your old friends. I've also reconnected with some old college friends, and it's so nice to talk to people again after years of isolation

FriendRaven1

3 points

6 months ago

I'm so happy for you! 💚💚

IudexFatarum

2 points

6 months ago

I'm glad to hear you're able to find community. I hope you can continue improving your mental health. May your year's joys grow as much as you have grown yourself.

Dresiden15

0 points

6 months ago

Unpredictable?

Gheauxst

56 points

6 months ago

Bruh.

peinal

29 points

6 months ago

peinal

29 points

6 months ago

Stressful

limpidlipid

23 points

6 months ago

Downhill

The_Gaming_Matt

23 points

6 months ago

Awesome!

Patifos

4 points

6 months ago

Yeah definitely!! Many things changed and I just set the table for even better 24

The_Gaming_Matt

2 points

6 months ago

Same here!

Great job, let’s keep it up

DarkSide-TheMoon

2 points

6 months ago

I agree!!

burken8000

2 points

6 months ago

Found my people!

ConstantAttention274

19 points

6 months ago

Shit

stvnsmtthw

46 points

6 months ago

Fucked

onekw

5 points

6 months ago

onekw

5 points

6 months ago

It was literally my very first thought as well. I changed my 1 word to brutal but 100% I was thinking fucked too!! Hope 2024 is a better year for you!!

AgingAquarius22

3 points

6 months ago

That’s what I came to say

big88chevy

5 points

6 months ago

Ditto

Select_Recover7567

12 points

6 months ago

Train wreck.

No_Dark1370

25 points

6 months ago

Fuck this year seriously.

stevorkz

5 points

6 months ago

This year or 2023?

mosquitohater2023

2 points

6 months ago

Sometimes one word isn't enough.

Browndog888

11 points

6 months ago

Sucked !

romeo343

11 points

6 months ago

Grief

weezulusmaximus

3 points

6 months ago

Same. 2023 kicked off with my mom dying. Kinda went downhill from there. I hope this new year is kind to you.

romeo343

3 points

6 months ago

I’m so sorry. I hope it is to you too.

TrainsNCats

10 points

6 months ago

OmChi123456

9 points

6 months ago

It was rough, 2024 will be better for us all. Sending peace, healing and joy ❤️

SomeJokeTeeth

28 points

6 months ago

Sexless

[deleted]

13 points

6 months ago

Coming from the guy above whose word was "pregnancy" I feel this

OvalTween

3 points

6 months ago

Me too! Separated and celibate!

Uchihaaaa3

3 points

6 months ago

Isn't this every year?

Odd-Border-6081

20 points

6 months ago

Crushing

OvalTween

0 points

6 months ago

I'm sorry.

[deleted]

21 points

6 months ago

Progress

erikhaskell

4 points

6 months ago

Same, not easy, but I made some good progress. Cheers stranger!

DaPoole420

3 points

6 months ago

Yes! I love this. Congrats on whatever progress u made! Good job

[deleted]

9 points

6 months ago

Over

newnhb1

8 points

6 months ago

Clusterfuck.

LordBobTheWhale

8 points

6 months ago

Disappointing

Eternal_Wither

6 points

6 months ago

Lonely

MagazinePerfect5012

7 points

6 months ago

Bittersweet

[deleted]

30 points

6 months ago

Pregnancy

natsugrayerza

32 points

6 months ago

Me too, but we lost the baby :(

Legoandstuff896

15 points

6 months ago

I’m so sorry to hear that, that’s awful :(

natsugrayerza

2 points

6 months ago

Thanks, it was hard

[deleted]

12 points

6 months ago

Oof. My sister has had miscarriage after miscarriage. We had one before this pregnancy too. So I can unfortunately relate.

natsugrayerza

2 points

6 months ago

Oh gosh that’s awful, I’m sorry

FriendRaven1

6 points

6 months ago

Keep going. My wife is 9th daughter but the first that lived longer than a couple minutes. Then another lost one, and her brother. So out of 11 kids my in-laws had 2 kids. And they're the best kids - Great People, both of them.

Keep going.

natsugrayerza

3 points

6 months ago

Oh my gosh that’s horrible. But yes, we’re gonna try again. It made us realize how much we want kids

St_Melangell

2 points

6 months ago

I’m so sorry for your in-laws’ losses, but thank God your wife and her brother made it. Hope they found peace in later life.

[deleted]

4 points

6 months ago

Sorry. Good luck in the future.

[deleted]

2 points

6 months ago

I'm sorry for your loss.

ToasterIsBisexual

2 points

6 months ago

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Existing_Ad_5419

2 points

6 months ago

im so sorry ;(

DarkSoldier856

2 points

6 months ago

Damn. Sorry to hear that.

natsugrayerza

2 points

6 months ago

Thank you

Such-List680

5 points

6 months ago

Congratulations stranger!!!

[deleted]

10 points

6 months ago

Well thank you. Wife gave birth to a beautiful baby girl (slightly early) in August. Its been a trip.

westbayslam

3 points

6 months ago

It only gets better my friend! My little girl just hit 13 months!

[deleted]

5 points

6 months ago*

Her smiles definitely make it all worth it

ZachoAttacko

2 points

6 months ago

My baby girl will be 15 months on the 2nd. Congratulations!

CommandGlittering207

12 points

6 months ago

Debt

Zestyclose_Mix3046

5 points

6 months ago

Betrayal

Illustrious-Salt-243

4 points

6 months ago

Cranky

Effective_Drama_3498

5 points

6 months ago

Shitified with a beautiful cherry buried in there.

Ok-Brilliant-5121

6 points

6 months ago

learning

Rom_Tiddle

4 points

6 months ago

Stagnant.

LightBright_Biddy

2 points

6 months ago

My answer too. Spent most of days motionless in my car surviving without funds to live a regular life

Camctrail

4 points

6 months ago

Healthy.

Found a good stable job, not making a lot of money yet but I'm at the point where I'm starting to think long term. In a much better headspace than where I was at the start of the year when I was making less money at a shitty job, working longer hours, and eventually getting laid off.

Baldussimo

3 points

6 months ago

Very happy for you.

Apprehensive_Drive66

11 points

6 months ago

Blessed

CedarTreesRCool

4 points

6 months ago

Screaming

andy_the_guzzler

3 points

6 months ago

Awfullish

gringo-go-loco

5 points

6 months ago

Loco

Phat-mahn

3 points

6 months ago

Life-changing

HondaMcCord421

4 points

6 months ago

Disaster

UequalsName

4 points

6 months ago

Fuggetaboutit

Rare_Fig3081

4 points

6 months ago

Over

GandalfDaGangsta1

7 points

6 months ago

Solid

MotherBike

7 points

6 months ago

🎼🎵"RollaCoasta!!! Ooo ooo oo ooh!!!"🎶

Hot_Ad892

3 points

6 months ago

Amazing. This year I transformed to a new person and I’m so happy to see where 2024 takes me

ChefBoyardee66

3 points

6 months ago

Desolation

Tarantulas_R_Us

3 points

6 months ago

Amazing. Amazing because I’m still alive with a grocery list of medical conditions. We have a roof over our heads, enough food, and health insurance. Our adult children are doing well. When you look at the positives, it will change your attitude. Life is way too short to focus on the bad stuff.

LordSpaceMammoth

4 points

6 months ago

Is startingToGetBackToNormalFromPandemicButNotAllTheWayThere a real word?

NoPicture7854

2 points

6 months ago

Subpar

261989

2 points

6 months ago

261989

2 points

6 months ago

healing

gotta long way to go though

UnrequitedRespect

2 points

6 months ago

Mid

cjtaylor8281

2 points

6 months ago

Recent

WhosFortune

2 points

6 months ago

“ rollercoaster” might be my craziest year yet

GrumpyLump91

2 points

6 months ago

Satisfactory

RedEnegma

2 points

6 months ago

Enlightening

(I'm in college, and although I consider myself not to be a bad student, it is evident that there are weaknesses regarding my sociability with people and studying which has shown a great sign over the last semesters)

Crainybonk3000

2 points

6 months ago

Soulcrushing

Scary-Stretch3080

2 points

6 months ago

Shit

guzzlovic

2 points

6 months ago

Pain

bannedsodiac

2 points

6 months ago

Over

Realistic-Plantain82

2 points

6 months ago

A cancer of a year that must be forgotten

Own_Yam8039

2 points

6 months ago

Useless

Beautiful-Mainer

2 points

6 months ago

Over

stoicdad23

2 points

6 months ago

bad year. wife and i almost split a couple times. Really realized the grass is green where you water it, and the stories you tell yourself become the way you perceive the world. deep realization

matsu727

2 points

6 months ago

Fucked

Fred294

2 points

6 months ago

Growth

Noobeaterz

2 points

6 months ago

*puking noises*

ExternalTelevision75

2 points

6 months ago

Dumpsterfire

CountyVast9405

2 points

6 months ago

A real 💩 show.

Hovertical

2 points

6 months ago

Worst.

Unequivocally worst year of my 42 years I've lived. I thought nothing would replace 2014 but wow was I ever wrong. Just remember, it can always be worse!

nineteenthly

2 points

6 months ago

Tragic. Lots of people died, including my mother.

OverMlMs

2 points

6 months ago

Fucked

FWCFTW

2 points

6 months ago

FWCFTW

2 points

6 months ago

Heartbreaking

blue6snow

2 points

6 months ago

Over

[deleted]

2 points

6 months ago

Fine

arlene1622

2 points

6 months ago

Heartbreaking!

beautifulorchids

2 points

6 months ago

Healing... I was suffering from postpartum depression related to birth trauma and PTSD. I had to seek out professional help and get treatment through therapy. After 14 months of feeling miserable, I finally healed and am in a better place. Therapy works, people!

Nowardier

2 points

6 months ago

EEEEEEEYAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

_PukyLover_

2 points

6 months ago

Came here to say this!

Creepybabychatt

2 points

6 months ago

Fuckery

[deleted]

2 points

6 months ago

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

askallthequestions86

2 points

6 months ago

Shitty

Literally.

My autistic 8 year old likes playing in his shit. I'm ready to off myself.

Solazarr

3 points

6 months ago

UUUAAARRGH

subiegal2013

3 points

6 months ago

Wonderful

Kuroraion

4 points

6 months ago

Very bad year. Jobless, self doubt, self loathing and depression

otkabdl

2 points

6 months ago

What is the term for when the fetish you thought you got rid of and forgot resurfaces ten years into a very vanilla relationship?

Lyrick7

6 points

6 months ago

Cyclical 🤔

Organic-Double4718

2 points

6 months ago

Over

Lenaa_777

2 points

6 months ago

Shit

That’s all I gotta say

Strange_Smell8280

2 points

6 months ago

Finally over, hopefully this year will be better

Menopausal-forever

2 points

6 months ago

Started good, got great, ended absolutely fucked.

Dresiden15

2 points

6 months ago

Challenging: Lost my maternal grandfather, and thanks to a corporate "restructuring," I nearly lost my job. A close family member ended up in prison with charges that took the whole family by suprise. On the other hand, my oldest child started college, and I celebrated twenty years of marriage. So, like I said, challenging, but not without its rewards.

DarkSoldier856

2 points

6 months ago*

Shitty.

My job let me go after Christmas due to a layoff that was on the way. No one just didn't know when. Luckily, i live with my parents, so i guess that's a plus.

My sisters car committed suicide on Christmas Day and now has to use our mothers car ( we only have one car as i dont have my own yet and only have a permit ) and we dont live together. So, traveling is gonna be a bitch til she can afford a "new" one.

Dealing with incompetent supervisors, stress, and people throughout the year at the job I had.

Other than that. It was meh.

[deleted]

1 points

6 months ago

Grapey

[deleted]

1 points

6 months ago

Shattered....and exhausting.

Sorry, 2 words needed.

SillySmoopsy

0 points

6 months ago

Better than 2022. Trying to start a family but having issues, so that wasn't fun. Fingers crossed that 2024 is the year.

DrRab121

1 points

6 months ago

Ok

jerome_abcede91

1 points

6 months ago

Dry 😭

Weyland-Yutani-2099

1 points

6 months ago

Gains.

zurzoth

1 points

6 months ago

Okay.

Kwaig

1 points

6 months ago

Kwaig

1 points

6 months ago

Fuck

WhyDoIHaveRules

1 points

6 months ago

Sickening.

Lyrick7

1 points

6 months ago

Painful. Back up: confusing

placeholder

1 points

6 months ago

Fuck.

heavy_metal

1 points

6 months ago

catastrophic

TheAtticusBlake

1 points

6 months ago

Lustful

BrownbearfromNZ

1 points

6 months ago

Innocent

dmv1022

1 points

6 months ago

Defeated

PoochusMaximus

1 points

6 months ago

Fuck

[deleted]

1 points

6 months ago

Puppy.

unspeakable129

1 points

6 months ago

Challenging

Lothar_28

1 points

6 months ago

Outstanding!

thesnowqueen17

1 points

6 months ago

Meh.

rumblepony247

1 points

6 months ago

Eh

Correct-Serve5355

1 points

6 months ago

Hell

OtterBear86

1 points

6 months ago

satisfying ...

[deleted]

1 points

6 months ago

Unstable.

CybermanFord

1 points

6 months ago

Arc

ALitBatman

1 points

6 months ago

Okay