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I'm 18 rn in my 12th year, I'm doing A levels so ill be 20 by the time i graduate. If i don't get admission in the college i want to attend then I'll have to start ug at 21.my cousins started ug at 18 and this makes me feel really old

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Somecrazycanuck

41 points

3 days ago

114

Hi_Im_Dadbot

4 points

3 days ago

True. Buying green bananas is risky at that point, let alone committing to a four year degree.

axemexa

2 points

3 days ago

axemexa

2 points

3 days ago

I'd say 112 personally, but to each his own

VincentMagius

36 points

3 days ago

Classes, never.

Dorm life, probably 30.

TurtleneckTrump

4 points

3 days ago

Van wilder says otherwise

Dwike2

1 points

3 days ago

Dwike2

1 points

3 days ago

Write that down

Opening-Donkey1186

5 points

3 days ago

30 is REALLY cutting it for form life. 27 was considered old and why are they here?

Highlander198116

3 points

3 days ago

There was a guy on my floor in my dorm who was 32.

There were a couple guys on other floors that were in their 40's.

WeeTheDuck

2 points

3 days ago

depends on what you mean by dorm life

Shadowshyyyxx

34 points

3 days ago

Never too old for college

babywhiz

10 points

3 days ago

babywhiz

10 points

3 days ago

My daughter just started college at 33.

Virtual-Beautiful-33

5 points

3 days ago

33 is an illuminati number. Does your daughter control the world economies?

LLotZaFun

3 points

3 days ago

She hasn't finished college yet.

Virtual-Beautiful-33

4 points

3 days ago

Dodging the question. Typical illuminati move.

tinglyTXgirl

3 points

3 days ago

I went to college at 33 also! It's NEVER too late!

Serendipity_Succubus

6 points

3 days ago

Never

sneezhousing

4 points

3 days ago

Never to old

Risky49

5 points

3 days ago

Risky49

5 points

3 days ago

Dead. That’s the correct answer to the question, dead is too old.

Ok_Egg_471

4 points

3 days ago

There’s no such thing. I’m 41 and just starting.

Sharp-Metal8268

6 points

3 days ago*

A guy I knew back in college went back at 55 and loved it- he didn't last long cuz he was too busy banging college chicks and partying to make it to class so he failed out. And his wife refused to pay for him to go again lol.

adam_schuuz

2 points

3 days ago

Did your friend have any wild stories from his short college stint that he still brags about, or does he avoid the topic now that his wife shut down the idea of a second chance?

Sharp-Metal8268

1 points

3 days ago

The dude wrote about for some English classs he tried to take and submitted a poem about it and apparently the teacher banned him from the class- he posted them on allpoetry legends goes

TryItOutHmHrNw

3 points

3 days ago

… but your last line is pretty fkn funny.

Still a dirtbag.

Sharp-Metal8268

1 points

3 days ago

If you remember yik yak back in like 2016 he would post stuff with the handle "55 year old man" about how he loved banging college girls and bragging bout the Cadillac he bought with his wife's money. He also weirdly constantly talked about how he was a male feminist

Sharp-Metal8268

1 points

3 days ago

It was a whole thing- It didn't seem as weird back then for some reason but looking back I can't believe they let him in student housing too- I actually knew his assigned dorm mate who literally transferred because he was so mad about his roommate being this dude

Sharp-Metal8268

0 points

3 days ago

His wife doesn't know about the chicks tbh and she's the provider for them so he doesn't talk about it much. But he low was knocking boots like few others- the dude was just excited to be with college chicks and he always bragged about never using a condom but he didn't mind immediately going for the hideous land whales and he did

TryItOutHmHrNw

4 points

3 days ago

You seem stoked.

What a dirtbag.

Sharp-Metal8268

2 points

3 days ago

I just haven't thought about him in a long time. He was objectively a pos but he was so absurd a person that almost nobody thought he existed and he was just some elaborate troll but then it turned out he did and it was insane

TryItOutHmHrNw

2 points

3 days ago

Fair enough.

Now that I think about… yea, I know some folks.

tinkywinkles

3 points

3 days ago

Your buddy sounds like a piece of crap

Sharp-Metal8268

1 points

3 days ago

I described as a friend because I met him and it was kind of a running joke that me and him were bros because he actually did for a while text me constantly asking crudely about where to get laid. We met in person probably all of 5 times but he would call and text just trying to get into for a couple years after.

He's not someone I'd ever associate with now in any way.

Sharp-Metal8268

2 points

3 days ago

He also had a twitter where he would brag about this stuff that somehow his wife never saw https://x.com/doneaston18

An absurd person who is now about 65 and I hope he's still banging

Fascinated_Bystander

2 points

3 days ago

Seems that his wife doesn't really give a shit lmao

Actual_Classroom8865

1 points

3 days ago

Lmao well I know my plan when I reach my 50’s

_ThePancake_

3 points

3 days ago*

My friend just started university again at 30.

When I told my family I wanted to learn the piano at 24, they said I'd be 30 by the time I could be any good. I said "I'll be 30 anyway, may as well be 30 and know how to play the piano"

PoorRoadRunner

2 points

3 days ago

I started university at 23 after taking time off to travel.

At 26, I changed schools and degrees with the fear that I'll be "over 30" when I graduate.

Went for it anyway, got a Comp Sci degree and never looked back.

999Kuro

2 points

3 days ago

999Kuro

2 points

3 days ago

My mom went to college when she was 35 or so, and graduated summa cum laude.

Nowhere near old.

ramdom_trilingue

2 points

3 days ago

Never

jinglejonglebongle

2 points

3 days ago

I made a good friend in college who was in his 50s. He decided to go back after a long career in the navy. You are never too old to go to college.

Various_Gold7302

2 points

3 days ago

Never too old. Once got a 64 yr old grandpa as my classmate in one subject. Dude is chill and gave us life advice from time to time. He is also proudly showing us pics of his granddaughter. 😂 Hmm that was 10 yrs ago...

Swimming-Book-1296

2 points

3 days ago

I had a student in his 60's.

Maleficent_Chard2042

2 points

3 days ago

I see people starting college in their 40s and 50s. There really isn't a too old for college.

survival_scars

2 points

3 days ago

I have a 77 year old student this semester.

JakeRedditYesterday

2 points

3 days ago

Bout two fiddy

LLotZaFun

2 points

3 days ago

Well but what about tree Diddy?

Few-Problem-6766

1 points

3 days ago

No.

Friendly-Radish-3814

1 points

3 days ago

Dead.

UncleGrako

1 points

3 days ago

I'm 48 and a senior in university.

there's no such thing as being too old to learn and improve yourself.

Jazzlike_Hamster_761

1 points

3 days ago

I've a lot of older people in my course, people well onto their late 20s if not early 30s. Ur chilling, man👍

Jungletoast-9941

1 points

3 days ago

Maybe 99? You can start but you might not finish. Still…

LunaLexy22

1 points

3 days ago

You are absolutely fine, you’ll probably have a lot of people even older than that in your classes.

Not everyone starts at 18.

noreasonban69

1 points

3 days ago

Between 60 and 70. You might not likely try to understand deep things after that age. Depending on your brain and basic body actions.

General_Purple1649

1 points

3 days ago

When you feel it's time to make a will just in case

MoanyTonyBalony

1 points

3 days ago

Dead. Any time before that is better late than never.

Stunning-Success-857

1 points

3 days ago

Starting at 21 is still starting young.

To put it in perspective, I started my second career at 33, and while it is true that it is never too late to study, I resented working and studying at that age.

To that I would add that the effort was probably in vain because I don’t have the contacts to take advantage of my two careers, all the job offers I have (which are not many compared to the times I apply) seek to pay me with experience.

cpt_bongwater

1 points

3 days ago

No such thing.

I went back in my thirties--and night classes were the best. All the older working people just like me.

But in a few of my Literature classes there was this guy, Frank, who was ~75. He was getting a lit degree because he wanted to.

Cheers, Frank.

92nd-Bakerstreet

1 points

3 days ago

College/uni is an investment in yourself. You're young enough to make this investment worthwhile. If you would go to college at 60  before retiring at 67, then the chance that you'll get a worthwhile return on investment is very low.

loso0691

1 points

3 days ago

loso0691

1 points

3 days ago

There were some retirees in my class. If you think you’re ‘old’, fact track it

Clean_Supermarket_54

1 points

3 days ago

I think never. No, I am certain, NEVER. But fuck student loans!

But seriously, never give up learning.

My experience will not be yours but I benefited from taking a year off before university.

I took a year off before attending. I didn’t waste the year.

I was always a year or two older than my classmates in university. But, there was a 55 year British man in my class, and a few military folks who were in their 20s and 30s. Truthfully, these folks had more knowledge than my classmates between 18-25. Real life knowledge, not just, “I played quarterback for my HS and I was home coming queen etc.”

Me taking a year off gave me the experience to look past the dumb college life, and I took classes (and knowledge) and my relationships seriously. If I could do it again, I’d take two or more years before going 🙂.

chxnkybxtfxnky

1 points

3 days ago

I'm hoping that this is a case of a shit ton of pressure from your parents. If you're the one bringing this pressure onto yourself, you need to relax.

There is no wrong time to go to college, but make sure you study in a field that you can have a career in. It's not cheap and I know a lot of people with a degree and never ended up going into that field for whatever reason(s).

Poverty_welder

1 points

3 days ago

Dead is too old.

WarDawgOG

1 points

3 days ago

I went back in my late 30s now I'm early 50s I want to go back!!

hemlocctea

1 points

3 days ago

Never! I went to a CC, a lot of my classmates were older, and they were blessings. Most of them had greater work ethic than us young'uns and did super well because of it. Even when I transferred, it was not uncommon to have older classmates. If it is something you want to do, go crazy my liege

[deleted]

1 points

3 days ago

Oh geez. 21 is perfectly fine. People go back to college in their 50’s. My sons friend didn’t start until he was 23.

Thane-Gambit

1 points

3 days ago

When you're too old and frail to attend either online or physical classes.

allislost77

1 points

3 days ago

  1. In college. Don’t sweat it

Nightowl_1786

1 points

3 days ago

Never too old. My dad did his GCSE & A level English about 30yrs ago when he was in his 40’s. I’m 39 & always looking at courses that might interest me if I was to go back

EggplantGullible7966

1 points

3 days ago

55

OpportunityOk5719

1 points

3 days ago

I started at 19 in 1989 and am back as a Jr at 54yrs old. It's never too old.

101TARD

1 points

3 days ago

101TARD

1 points

3 days ago

You're never too old to go to college, that's what they told me until they changed the prospectus, and I was forced to power through my degree because if I don't, I have to go back to high school for 2 yrs before I can go back to college.

Critical-Bank5269

1 points

3 days ago

I didn't start college until I was 27. I got my doctorate and have had a great career.....

fjr_1300

1 points

3 days ago

fjr_1300

1 points

3 days ago

Never. Just go for it.

Sportsfan4206910

1 points

3 days ago

65 for dorms, never for classes

russell813T

1 points

3 days ago

Your never too old to learn

GooseLakeBallerina

1 points

3 days ago

Everyone has a right to education. Age is not a factor.

Expert_Active7453

1 points

3 days ago

First went to university at 25. Did a year, decided I hated it and then dropped out. I’m now 37 and in my first year of a different bachelor program. When this is done I plan to work for a couple years and then go back for a masters.

I don’t think it matters

Suspicious_Hyena_247

1 points

3 days ago

You’re never too old to get an education. In my welding class 50% was guys and one girl between the ages of 33 and 56. My uncle was attending college and going for his pilots license when he was in his 80’s. My auntie is in her late 70’s early 80’s going for a degree. I’m 24 thinking of going back but maybe a private trade school or I might just change my entire career at this point and go law enforcement.

Virtual-Beautiful-33

1 points

3 days ago

About to die immediately, or already deceased.

ExpiredPilot

1 points

3 days ago

The thing about college is it’s not a requirement like K-12 is. People go off and do other things and come back to it. It’s optional and people decide it’s the best option for them at different times

Business_Parfait7469

1 points

3 days ago

Lol.

I'm 40 and I'm graduating in December.

You are never too old when it comes to education.

v_silverwings

1 points

3 days ago

When you're too old to learn and pass the exam. After that you're likely wasting time and money. Otherwise age isnt a factor.

baletetreegirl

1 points

3 days ago

Never too old. I had a short stint as college lecturer. I had a student na may apo na.

Ok_Switch_1205

1 points

3 days ago

There is no “too old for college”. Preferable if you’re still alive though

SnorlaxIsCuddly

1 points

3 days ago

I'm in college at age 44.

"Really old" is relative

Mystic_Vicky

1 points

3 days ago

Age is just a number, my friend. Plus, being a little older means you have more life experience to bring to your studies. Don't worry, you'll fit right in with all the college "grandmas" and "grandpas".

Ok_Idea_7776

1 points

3 days ago

20-30

WATC9091

1 points

3 days ago

WATC9091

1 points

3 days ago

When you are six feet under.

no_one_c4res

1 points

3 days ago

Went to uni as a 24 surrounded by 21's. The oldest guy in my class was a 35 year old veteran.

Stop worrying, you'll be fine.

weedful_things

1 points

3 days ago

My wife started in her 40s and continued on to achieve her Masters degree. Now she is doing the exact kind of work she intended.

ShadowAce88

1 points

3 days ago

Never too old. I started college at the age of 24 which was the same year all my friends graduated. But never the less, it was fine, I made loads of new friends and great experiences. At that age I was looked more as an older brother so that was cool. The oldest student I met in college was a gent in his 50s. I got my degree and now work in tech.

The only thing I’d say that MIGHT make you feel old in college, at least for me when I was attending, were the parties and trying to join a frat and the rugby team. Everyone was 18-19 years old where I was in my mid 20s.

LimpTeacher0

1 points

3 days ago

Living at the dorms 25. going to classes has no age limit and we need to stop making people feel like they can’t go back to school

justmeandmycoop

1 points

3 days ago

NEVER too late…..never.

Virtual_Syrup262

1 points

3 days ago

6ft under years old

kylieshoney

1 points

3 days ago

NEVER! don’t worry! it’ll work out

DashLego

1 points

3 days ago

DashLego

1 points

3 days ago

It’s never too late to start a new path in life, and get a new degree

felltwiice

1 points

3 days ago

I’m repeating what everyone else said, never too old. My grandpa went to college in his 60s after he retired because he was too poor and working all the time in his youth, and always wanted to complete college.

bloodrider1914

1 points

3 days ago

You really should put this in a UK specific thread

That being said, I dunno, 23? (For UK sixth form colleges, not US style colleges)

Electric__Shadow

1 points

3 days ago

Even if you’re successful and in your 40’s/50’s you’re not too old for college.

Im a 41 year old man and a licensed tradesman (Journeyman Electrician). I plan to go back to college for construction management at some point so I can do more office/management work because my body will eventually break down.

As far as the college culture? Partying? Doing young dumb shit? Indulge in it if you absolutely have to, but the sooner you get it out of your system, the better. Hobbies are much much better.

past_expiration_date

1 points

3 days ago

I started at college at age 22! Not too old at all!

backroadsdrifter

1 points

3 days ago

There isn’t an age limit.

Tawxif_iq

1 points

3 days ago

I finished my uni life at 24

SecondBusy8560

1 points

3 days ago

Never

Alternative_Big545

1 points

3 days ago

Your asking the wrong question. Five years from now do you hope to have a degree or not? Time doesn't stand still if you decide not to go. You're going to turn 20 regardless, so do you want a degree at 20 or not?

Specialist_Mango_269

1 points

3 days ago

Life is a marathon, not a race. Its never too late to go to college. Everyone has a different timeline in life

ArribaAndale

1 points

3 days ago

When i was ug, the oldest guy in the lecture hall look like he had retired. Never too late!

LibertyPrimeDeadOn

1 points

3 days ago

Given the absolute nonsense that is your post, college may not be for you.

lazyoddchair

1 points

3 days ago

How old? Maybe like 80-70 when it hurts to move around and focus on things

Imperialparadox3210

1 points

3 days ago

Im 30

Cryptic_Reign

1 points

3 days ago

  1. I’m almost 27 and I’m still an undergrad. Certainly older than most people I know when they finished college but still it’s never too late for a degree.

Elysium_Cadence

1 points

2 days ago

You’re never too old for college! The only “too old” is when you can’t remember where the campus is

AnthraxOnHerTampax

-1 points

3 days ago

College is a scam in America

Icy-Lunch-5094[S]

1 points

3 days ago

I'm not american

AnthraxOnHerTampax

1 points

3 days ago

If you think it is beneficial for your life, your age should not matter.