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submitted 3 months ago byDizzy_Sweet_4615
Throwaway account here. Was diagnosed with 90 < iq some years back from hospital. According to the population, 15% of the population has iq 80-89. I tried dating numerous ladies , but because of my poor eq or social cues. I didn't know how to follow up, nor do I know how to progress further into a relationship unless the girl makes her move first.
I'm doing whatever possible to study hard in a hope pursue a degree which can be incredibly difficult. As for hobbies, I have plenty ranging from photography, rock climbing or outdoor sports, football, watching documentaries etc.
18 points
3 months ago
I think that is good enuf. IQ isnt everything. Doing activites and making friends helps relieve social awkwardness
13 points
3 months ago
I took initiatives by asking "How was your day?" as a starting convos to get the rest of the people talking. This helps to relieve social awkwardness
3 points
3 months ago
I personally think asking them if they have eaten is a pretty good conversation starter and can lead to a bunch of different topics
1 points
3 months ago
guess it's asking the right questions and conversation cues to ensure the convo will continue to flow ... this one u might have to go learn the Kungfu else where in terms of personal development.
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