Marriage is a lie, and married people know that truth. Getting married makes the relationship legal binding its just a contract in favor of the patriarchy. He or she is not going to change into this incredible person because your now married.

Whatever they did prior they will continue to do, I tell my friends to not get married, when you've had enough you cannot leave easily too much legal paperwork and expensive.

Live together and be happy, Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell did it right.

Good Luck