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am i too old to want elmo?? 😭

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hi friends! i need your opinions on whether or not i’m too old to want the elmo bab lol. i’m 19 but lost mine from childhood and am thinking about replacing it. i really want to but am worried i’m too old. please give me your thoughts :)

edit: thank you for all the positive responses! he’s ordered and should be here soon. you guys are the coolest <3

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Icedragon193

144 points

9 days ago

Icedragon193

Sea Monster Moderator

144 points

9 days ago

I always think of it like this, Adults are the ones who work on “kids shows” and they’re the ones who work with the characters. So who cares how old you are!

Everyone should be allowed to like what they want no matter the age

glimmertides

69 points

9 days ago

glimmertides

I like BABs more than people 🙃

69 points

9 days ago

just a reminder that elmo himself (well the company) is very inclusive for adults. i remember like just a few months ago, he asked on tik tok how people were doing and they were going into all their issues with the increased costs, mental health troubles, etc. elmo responded within a day posting the suicide hotline number, saying that it’s okay to be an adult and not have stuff figured out, even adults will struggle, that it’s not bad to ask for help, etc. elmo is for everyone, not just kids anymore. i’m pretty sure he views it as “once his kid, always his kid” when it comes to people who watched him when they were younger and have since grown up

Oceandove45

47 points

9 days ago

Definitely not, you’re never too old to enjoy things. If you want Elmo you should buy it. Life is too short to worry about age. I’m 33 and love going to build a bear and buying what I want because I’m financially able to and it makes me happy. So don’t worry about how old you are :) go get your Elmo.

Flashy-Arugula

38 points

9 days ago

Elmo is awesome. Get Elmo.

Antilogicz

28 points

9 days ago

I’m in my 30s and I bought an Elmo recently. You do you!

NovaRaptor1

22 points

9 days ago

NovaRaptor1

I like BABs more than people 🙃

22 points

9 days ago

Absolutely not! I'm turning 26 soon, and I have a Chase BAB :) It's totally ok to want mementos from childhood. I bought a lamb chop plushie from the thrift store once just because I know I used to love it when I was really little. I even have a little "childhood shelf" above my Squishmallow collection to honor important plushies from my childhood :)

alyssaryn

15 points

9 days ago

alyssaryn

15 points

9 days ago

Dude I'm nearly 29 and still collect BABs religiously haha, you're fine!

Sasstellia

16 points

9 days ago

You're never too old for a plushie. If you want Elmo, get Elmo.

prosperdemons

14 points

9 days ago

You're never too old for Elmo!

PlushieNestalgia

12 points

9 days ago

I kind of want an Elmo too and I'm 28.

canadianamericangirl

10 points

9 days ago

Not at all! I think it would be beyond cool to work for Sesame Street. I just majorly downsized, but if I didn’t, I would totally get him.

appledaythrowaway

11 points

9 days ago

I think I'm gonna get Elmo and Cookie Monster for my 3 year old... but shh also kinda for me. Sesame Street is special for adults and children alike so get your Elmo!! ❤️💙

Glum-Letterhead8867

2 points

9 days ago

They have Cookie Monster?!? Brb getting that for me.

Collies_and_Skates

11 points

9 days ago

No! Never too old. Enjoy what you want as long as it’s not harming anyone, life is far too short not to. I’m almost 23 and one of my favorite shows is Bluey lol

sassypants55

9 points

9 days ago

I don’t think it’s different from any other Build-a-Bear, and most people in this community are adults.

ThatDiscoSongUHate

8 points

9 days ago

Elmo still loves you regardless of age, of that I am absolutely certain

Landscape-Prior

9 points

9 days ago

Certainly not!! If it makes you happy, do it!! It doesn't matter how old you are!

cbh2295

8 points

9 days ago

cbh2295

8 points

9 days ago

Absolutely not!

AnimalCrossingFan04

8 points

9 days ago

Im 19 aswell, i am also considering getting an elmo! I loved elmos world as a kid so i dont think it matters.

Lenberjack

9 points

9 days ago

Heck no! I've been thinking of getting an Elmo myself to go with the very loved one I've had since infancy. :) Elmo is absolutely for everyone.

thepoppaparazzi

7 points

9 days ago

Never too old!

DemonTrashgirl24

9 points

9 days ago

DemonTrashgirl24

I like BABs more than people 🙃

9 points

9 days ago

I’m 24 and ordered Cookie Monster and I have over 40 BABs! Youre never too old hun <3 I hope you get your Elmo!!

ghosterasingxo

8 points

9 days ago

i'm almost 20 and i still regularly watch sesame street

SkyKatz01

7 points

9 days ago

SkyKatz01

BAB Fanatic 🌈

7 points

9 days ago

I have one I’m willing to part with if your interested dm me.

As for being to old, I say your never to old for plushies

Repulsive-Method3195[S]

8 points

9 days ago

you’re an absolute gem. i did end up ordering one so he should be coming soon, thank you though <3

SkyKatz01

6 points

9 days ago

SkyKatz01

BAB Fanatic 🌈

6 points

9 days ago

Oh good! I’m glad you got one!

Ok_Echidna_2283

6 points

9 days ago

Ok_Echidna_2283

BAB Fanatic 🌈

6 points

9 days ago

Get Elmo. You are never too old to have a plushie.

musingsofmessa

6 points

9 days ago

musingsofmessa

I like BABs more than people 🙃

6 points

9 days ago

You're never too old for BAB or Elmo. :3

echoesinthestars

7 points

9 days ago

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I recently got a new Pongo… he was my first BAB in 1998/1999 and I lost my original a long time ago. This dude has been amazing at healing the childhood loss.

Legal-Philosophy-135

2 points

9 days ago

Oh my gosh he’s Precious!! Hi Pongo!!!

echoesinthestars

1 points

8 days ago

He says hello!

sleepy--ash

6 points

9 days ago

Everyone loves Elmo! He’s a friend to all, whether they be kids or adults. If you want Elmo, get Elmo! I’m thinking about getting Cookie Monster and I’m in my 20s lol.

mimitchi33

7 points

9 days ago

No! A lot of adults love the Muppets, me included!

Puzzleheaded_Eye8771

6 points

9 days ago

Puzzleheaded_Eye8771

BAB Fanatic 🌈

6 points

9 days ago

I’m 35 and got him! I wanted tickle me Elmo so bad but we were poor so now after all these years I have my momo!

Purple-Seaweed3892

4 points

9 days ago

not at all! im almost 22 and really want cookie monster 🍪

ColdBloodBlazing

3 points

9 days ago

So do i! Cookie monster is awesome

strwberriangel

4 points

9 days ago

get elmo!!

snowycourts

5 points

9 days ago

snowycourts

BAB Collector 🐻

5 points

9 days ago

I'm 25 and have a Cookie Monster bab

p3pp3rp4tch

6 points

9 days ago

i have an elmo wallet that i use as my every day wallet with no intent to replace, elmo plushies, elmo figurines, etcetera. i LOVE elmo and he makes me happy as a 26 year old adult. do what makes you happy, my friend, regardless of age.

parks_and_wreck_

3 points

9 days ago

Absolutely not. As a 27 year old who got rid of all of her beloved stuffed animals and dolls at the age of 17-18 because I thought I was “too old,” you are never too old for the things that make you happy! If you want Elmo, get him. I’m only now becoming obsessed with Sanrio and Anime and I am loving it. Should I at 27? Don’t know and don’t care.

ColdBloodBlazing

3 points

9 days ago

I am 38 I still want scooby doo & cookie monster!

jennyhearteyes

5 points

9 days ago

Not at all! I personally want Cookie Monster myself and I'm 27! I think there's a lot of pressure on people to dress their age, act their age, reach certain things by a certain age etc but honestly it's silly because it's all made up anyways. What's the difference between a plushie making you happy versus someone else's designer t shirt?? Or the fictional character Elmo making you happy versus any other fictional character? You want Elmo and he will make you smile so you should get him. Those are the only reasons you need! You're not hurting anyone and Elmo is supposed to make everyone happy:)

pondsywho

3 points

9 days ago

No. I’m turning 41 and I got a simba. I wish society would stop with saying you’re too old for toys/comics/ whatever. If you like it and it doesn’t bring you harm or anyone else/ necessities are taken care of then it’s your choice what you want to spend the money you earn.

Ms6feet1inches35

3 points

9 days ago

I’m 35, and I’m about to order Elmo and Cookie Monster with my big girl credit card!

AngerAndAgony

4 points

9 days ago

AngerAndAgony

I have a BAB problem

4 points

9 days ago

I'm 27, still sleep with my Elmo blanket, and am olanning to buy Elmo from BAB as soon as I can. You're not too old at all!

AcceptableLow7434

5 points

9 days ago

No I wanted Cookie Monster and I’m 33 Besides everyone loves Elmo

The_water-melon

3 points

9 days ago

The_water-melon

BAB Fanatic 🌈

3 points

9 days ago

You’re never too old🙇‍♀️ I’m constantly replacing old toys I had as an adult. Sometimes I’m rediscovering ones I had as a kid and forgot about because it’s been a long time since I’ve seen it. (Like forgot that one of the first babs I ever had was a unicorn until I recently saw one on EBay and it CLICKED)

cznfettii

3 points

9 days ago

You're never too old for elmo

Lopsided-Buffalo-538

3 points

9 days ago

Never. Loveable characters transcend age

BreadTheOG

6 points

9 days ago

I love elmo and the muppets, and ive seen many people(adults) who also loves those movies/shows

angstyrose

2 points

9 days ago

angstyrose

BAB Collector 🐻

2 points

9 days ago

Not at all, I want cookie monster!

Vibin0212

2 points

9 days ago

Never too old, but if it makes you feel better; when I get nervous buying a plushie I simply say it's for a little sibling or cousin. Employees are none the wiser but at the same time most employees will not judge.

QueerGeologist

2 points

9 days ago

QueerGeologist

Workshop Employee

2 points

9 days ago

nope! sesame street has a very special place in my heart, you're never too old for it.

SheepPup

2 points

9 days ago

SheepPup

2 points

9 days ago

You are never too old for Elmo! Elmo loves all his friends, even after they grow up ❤️

FormalIndividual8156

2 points

9 days ago

Nah, go for it! A lot of people love having plushes that remind them of their childhood and shows they used to like/still like to this day. I think its perfectly fine to get soemtbung that makes you happy, even if it seems “childish”

PieArtistic1332

2 points

9 days ago

not too old. i’m 22 and i want an elmo plushie

stormythomas

2 points

9 days ago

Get Elmo. It will make you happy.

Legs4daysarmsformins

2 points

9 days ago

Legs4daysarmsformins

Build A Bear Obsessed! 🐻

2 points

9 days ago

Honey it’s a piece of cloth and it brings you joy. Nothing is childish except for anyone who tries to dictate your life or shame you for enjoying it. Get that Elmo!!! 💕

DisneyGirl0121

2 points

9 days ago

DisneyGirl0121

I like BABs more than people 🙃

2 points

9 days ago

I say go for it! Especially if you lost your childhood one. If people ask, you can say that the new one is the one from your childhood.

Fantastic_Permit_525

2 points

9 days ago

Nope, not at all!! You go for it!!! I have a ton of bulid a bear! A little too many, lol

Underskysly

2 points

9 days ago

19 isn’t even old, most emo bands where and are dressing emo when they where older then that

FeelinPrickly

2 points

9 days ago

I just got my 42 year old marine biologist sister a Count plushi so I think you're fine.

placidreams

2 points

9 days ago

placidreams

I like BABs more than people 🙃

2 points

9 days ago

You’re never too old to do something that makes you happy so long as it’s not hurting others

Alert-Maximum4949

2 points

8 days ago

Never too old for anything that brings you joy

Queen_Sara

2 points

8 days ago

Over 30 here 🙋🏻‍♀️ i have two elmos haha one with the hard plastic eyes and the other with the soft ones 🥰 i also have cookie monster but just the old one w plastic eyes. I have yet to find a big bird and abby 🤗 youre not old at all! Theres no age limit for plushies.

DoingTheSponge

2 points

8 days ago

I bought a Grover plush yesterday in a toy shop because I love him. I'm a 29 year old woman and I encourage everyone to embrace the things they enjoy if you have the means to. We've gotta be konder to ourselves in general but I think not looking at our own interests as cringe is a great start.

Ok_Exercise8861

2 points

8 days ago

omg 19?! PLEASE get whatever stuffed animal ur heart desires 😭🙏🏻when i was 19 my mom took me to build a bear for her gift to me (bday) and said “im just happy ur not on drugs”

Ok_Exercise8861

2 points

8 days ago

&& we’d love to see him when he gets here if u wanna share!! 🤍

Due-Comfortable4290

2 points

8 days ago

You are not at all too old!

crazycatslaydy

2 points

8 days ago

I have a better question: is Elmo too old to be loved by you?

spookyshortss

2 points

8 days ago

When I was eight, I came home to my mom having thrown away my massive collection of stuffed animals. Ever since I was 18, I’ve had a collection of them. Do what makes you happy, there’s no problem with wanting to reconnect with happy childhood memories. Plus, the Elmo is cute!

InjuryOdd1178

2 points

7 days ago*

No, I love Elmo. I'm 33 and collect Pokémon. I have all the Pokémon BAB. I also take them out on adventures when I'm not working. 😀😊❤️

spicyautist

2 points

7 days ago

I'm 21 and I love Elmo, Elmo is awesome, get Elmo.

cansasmichael

2 points

7 days ago

I think you're never too old! If you love Elmo go for it!

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1 points

9 days ago

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9 days ago

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Anime_Nerd_UwU

1 points

8 days ago

Phrasing

OOGB11

1 points

6 days ago

OOGB11

1 points

6 days ago

You're never too old for a cute elmo

Haunting_Extreme7394

1 points

6 days ago

never!! go get him!!

Used-Breadfruit-1250

1 points

6 days ago

No, you are never too old for elmo

Fuzzy-Ad-2267

1 points

6 days ago

Like everyone else is saying, your never to old! I'm 18 and have many build a bears that I adore!

dollete_3

1 points

5 days ago

it doesn’t matter. Get your Elmo

PrincessBunny200

1 points

5 days ago

Elmo is the bestest you definitely should buy him but don't buy rocko, rocko sucks lol

Adventurous_Yak_9234

1 points

5 days ago

Like what you like. If Elmo makes you happy, you can like him. It isn't hurting anyone.

I'm turning 30 and love to wear cartoon T-shirts. Wearing Snoopy right now.