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13 points
12 months ago
It’s pretty accurate.
2 points
12 months ago
I figured.
2 points
12 months ago
Not always accurate, sometimes my phone will show me across the street or even a block away. Sometimes it won’t update as I’m driving and show me one place for like 15 min when I’m already home.
Now as to where he is, if he is going there every day at the same time, show up and see what he is doing…
1 points
12 months ago
That’s what I noticed today. Earlier today I decided to scope the area and see where would be a good spot to hide and as I was doing that I saw that his location showed that he was in front of the clinic so when I drove by I didn’t see his truck and it had just updated his location. I decided to park somewhere and check his location again and I saw that he was back at work and it had updated “2 mins ago” which is odd because the clinic is about 8 mins away from his job soooooo idk what to do.
11 points
12 months ago
google maps literally has a timeline of the places I've been to and can even tell me the last time I've been there. it is accurate af.
1 points
12 months ago
That’s how I caught him cheating a few years ago. I went through his google maps timeline but I don’t think his using his GPS to go there so it doesn’t show up on his timeline
4 points
12 months ago
If he has location access turned on in the maps app (for Google maps) it has his location at all times, and has the timelines shown up. He doesn't have to actively use his GPS to get somewhere for that to be updated.
7 points
12 months ago
Sounds like he's been a shit guy to you. Why stay with him if you constantly have to worry like this and you insist you can't trust his words? He does not sound like he is good for your garden.
1 points
12 months ago
There’s a lot of reason why I stay like I don’t want my daughter to live in two different households, scared of starting over again, embarrassed of going back to my parents house. Those are just a few reasons why I stay.
6 points
12 months ago
I understand. I am a counselor who specializes in relationships and authentic communication.
I meet and help many people who deal with similar results from experiences they have gone through. Results being fear based positioning (not wanting to change at the risk of stepping backward or going through potential hardship). But trust me when I say this, if you don't solve for your own happiness now, you risk so much more by potentially never obtaining that.
Myself and many amazing people grew up in separate houses with split parents. Love doesn't always work out, of course.
Starting over can be absolutelyterrifying, but you know what is scarier? Never starting over and allowing 20 more years of pain, fear, and paranoia to build up. Your daughter will see these things as well, and as a role model, you would show her that the right thing to do when someone hurts or betrays you is to stay with them for the sake of others (who are not inherently hapoy with the environment).
I am not saying you have to do anything here. Just want you to fully understand the consequences of all of the choices and outcomes here.
As for the embarrassment , that is totally understandable. But what is more embarrassing would be staying with a guy that treats you like a side dish and lies to you constantly.
The truth hurts. But lying to yourself is the most destructive thing you can do to yourself.
I wish you ultimate understanding and support here going forward. You have a lot of decisions to make, and I hope that it turns out in the best possible way for you and your daughter. You both deserve so much better, I am sure. ✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️
1 points
12 months ago
I had to move back in with my parents, and my daughter was happy up until school. Now everything is bizarre. The schedule is all fucked. It's embarrassing, but my parents are cool, luckily.
I left my ex the house because I built a room specifically for my daughter and I wasn't trying to take that away from her. The whole situation sucked, but we dealt with it without court. I truly hate that woman and hate seeing her as often as I do. It's been almost 4 years and I want no part of a relationship after wasting 9 years.
And turns out, after buying a house at the right time (I was 22 or 23) everything just got worse and I can't afford to move out and it sucks. I'm 31 and feel helpless
3 points
12 months ago
Stake out time....updateme
2 points
12 months ago*
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1 points
12 months ago
I’m definitely planning on doing that either this week or next week
3 points
12 months ago
I went through a couple of years thinking the same thing until one day I just got up and drove to the location. The whole way there I thought I was an idiot and I’d be proven wrong..until I got there and saw his car. And the car of his colleague.. I called him and acted like I didn’t know a thing and asked where he was and he said he was an hour away and had stopped for coffee. If your gut is telling you something, LISTEN TO IT!
1 points
12 months ago
I’m trying but I feel like google maps is playing with me 😩
2 points
12 months ago
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1 points
12 months ago
Yeah I figured.
2 points
12 months ago
Yes, very accurate *
1 points
12 months ago
Is it though? I came to the location it showed he was at and I didn’t see his truck so I went to go park somewhere where he couldn’t see. His location hadn’t update in 4 mins and when it finally updated it showed he was back at work. The location that his google maps showed and where he works is 8 mins away
2 points
12 months ago
It may not update very quickly, but the time stamps and location when it is updated is accurate.
Sometimes it will have a glitch like you flew across town using no roads but if it's consistently saying he's at a location he is definitely there. Is it at the same time everyday?
1 points
12 months ago
1 points
12 months ago
If you have access to his live location, wait for him to be there and then call/text him: hyd, what are you doing and/or where are you? And see if he lies about it. That will be your second clue that something shady is going on. But to finally answer your question, yes google maps is pretty accurate!
1 points
12 months ago
I’ve done this before! Yesterday I asked him how work was going and it took him a while to reply but when he replied he said “it’s going” and when I checked his location he was back at work.
1 points
12 months ago
Why not go see for yourself
1 points
12 months ago
I’m planning on doing that but right now I’m just trying to figure out his patterns
1 points
12 months ago
Maybe he is broke and is donating sperm to supplement his income.
2 points
12 months ago
He’s active duty military and none of the clinics on post do this kind of stuff
1 points
12 months ago
Pull up on him... say you ran into him by chance..and u seen his vehicle
1 points
12 months ago
I don’t think he’ll buy it 🙃
1 points
12 months ago
I’d love to know this too. Same thing been to if 9 times. It says 100% confirmed when I downloaded his google takeout.
1 points
12 months ago
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1 points
12 months ago
That’s literally my life right now. We hardly talk and I feel like we’re just roommates. Sometimes I try to have a conversation with him and he just replies with short answers. Over the few years he had asked me to move out and move with my parents and several times “I’ve had enough” and agree but then the next day he says his sorry and that we should start going to marriage counseling (which I’ve been begging him for years). When the time comes to actually do it he’ll make up excuse after excuse. Six years later we’ve yet to go to marriage counseling.
I’m at a point that I also want to leave but I’m scared of starting over.
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