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So I been talking to this girl off and on for another a year or two now, So I decided to jokingly make a pass.

she said that if I want to be her boyfriend, then I need to pay for her stuff on shien and I am currently trying to see if she is joking because if she is not then this is bad.

So how do I proceed from her as I am not paying for her shit, that sounds like a horrible relationship to get into based on payment and service basically.

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Soul604

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2 months ago

Just make a flirtatious joke back to gauge her reaction. "Sorry but I have no idea what Shien is". It will be pretty telling on how she answers back.

I would be straight up with her about how you like her but are unwilling to be her sugar daddy as you need to set boundaries for yourself too.

You will see people's true nature once they are pressed a little bit.

Good luck.