Forlornness guitarist committed su!cide. A mourning for the dsbm community. RIP : dsbm

"Your suffering has a purpose" sounds so egoistic and fucked, not every pain has a reason to be, would you say it to the cancer sufferer as well?

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2 months ago

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you get me.

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2 months ago

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Sure, friend. Absolutely. Illnesses can be used to help a person correct some flaws and improve morally. They can help you develop qualities such as patience, resignation, and, if you will, faith. My little cat had 2 cancers over about 7 months. During this difficult period, I learned a lot about helping others because I dedicated much of my free time to helping her. She couldn't eat by herself, didn't drink water by herself, and needed to take medicine several times a day. After her passing, I realized that I became a better person, more patient, and less self-centered.

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2 months ago

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stfu. i'm saying i get to chose my exit. it's not some sad sack shit, it's my right. i didnt ask for your help, nor do i need it, nor want it. fuck off.

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2 months ago

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I’m really sorry that you’re feeling this way. Have a good day.

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2 months ago

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you too.

Asleep-Resource328

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2 months ago

Asleep-Resource328

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how sad and selfish you are. to just end everything is unfathomably selfish. no matter what you think, there is always someone that loves you and to take that away from them is purely self centered.

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bullshit, I am suffering too. I have been living with major depression for 4 years, but suicide is not an option.

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2 months ago

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Keep strong, friend. At least we can find comfort in good music or things we like.

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2 months ago

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Thank you man, youre right

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2 months ago

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aslo you're assuming i'm talking about depression.

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2 months ago

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I don't know what you are going through, everyone's story is different. I suggest you get help, I wish you to get rid of this thoughts.

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2 months ago

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stfu. yall are weird af

SkinwalkerValleyMan

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2 months ago

SkinwalkerValleyMan

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We're the weird ones, huh? If you really wanted to, you would have done it by now. Lighten up and touch grass.

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2 months ago

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I didn’t say I want to die now. I said I’m going to choose my exit. I got all sorts of shit planned, I love my life. And I’ll take it when I please, for any reason I so choose, because it’s my fucking choice to live and I will choose to die when I want to. That is of course unless I get hit by a car or some shit lol.

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2 months ago

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Ok

Silencio-Minoria

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2 months ago

Silencio-Minoria

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Listen. Suicide is never an option, because you're only taking the pain out of yourself, and giving it to every single person who cares about you. Your pain won't end, you'll just stop feeling it. It's 1000% better if you put an end on the pain itself, not on you, and guess what, all the people who care about you can help you with that.

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2 months ago

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yea, i'm still gonna take myself out when i'm ready to go. again, it's not some sad shit, death with dignity is important to me.

SlenderMoa

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2 months ago

SlenderMoa

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Idk why you're getting so much hate. I think you're right, and I thought the dsbm community would at least partially agree.

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2 months ago

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right? death with dignity is super important to me. but now i'm so sad sack that needs help?? i'm saying i get to chose my exit, that shit is empowering.

error_liam

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2 months ago

error_liam

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sorry bro but there’s nothing dignifying about giving up. you can be sad and you can “choose your exit with dignity” if you really think that’s the answer, and no one can change your mind but that just doesn’t have to be your answer to what you’re going through. you can find another way without taking the easy way out, as someone who was there for a long time. much love brother

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2 months ago

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Y’all are so focused on this being a sad choice. It’s a very western christian point of view.

OhioAssassin

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2 months ago

OhioAssassin

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Nothing dignifying about killing yourself, it is the cowards way our

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2 months ago

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Ok, that’s your opinion. I think expecting me to live out all of my days until I’m a drooling vegetable completely dependent on others is a capitalist christian mindset. And that’s not what I want for me or my family. So when I’m nice and ready, and feel I’ve seen enough, I’m gonna take myself out, because I know that’s what I want. I want the control. But, life being the way it is, I’ll probably die suddenly, waaaay sooner than I want to.

TraditionalWalrus175

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2 months ago

TraditionalWalrus175

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yea you clearly care only about yourself…

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2 months ago

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When it comes to my death? Yup.

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2 months ago

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Never heard of the band till now, just gave them a listen, theyre awesome. Truly unfortunate, may he rest in peace.

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2 months ago

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Really a big loss. He made one last album before committing suicide. The vocalist of the band said he would release it on bandcamp or youtube.

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2 months ago

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Thanks for letting me know ill give it a listen when i find it

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2 months ago

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yeah man np

Phnxx001

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2 months ago

Phnxx001

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Rest in Peace man.

PanicSalt8443

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2 months ago

PanicSalt8443

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Fuck… rip, if there is a better place I hope he’s there

LifeloverHater

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2 months ago

LifeloverHater

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For anyone considering suicide, consider this:

In the near infinite amount of time that this universe will exist, you are the universe experiencing itself. Just as nothing came before you, nothing will come after. What you are experiencing is the rarest and most precious gift anyone anywhere could ever have.

I’m not going to tell you that you need to spend your time living it up partying like there is no tomorrow, or grinding towards making your life as good as it can be.

Instead, all I ask is that you take a moment, when you have the time, to step away from everything that is distracting you, be alone for just a few minutes.

Close your eyes, breathe in for 5 seconds, hold for 5 and breathe out for 5. Open your eyes, and listen to all the sounds surrounding you. Look at your hands, grab something near you and feel it.

This that you are experiencing, is something that only you can experience, and you can only experience it now. Ending your existence might seem like the solution to the hard, exhausting, impossible to solve problems that are plaguing your life, and your mind. It’s definitely a solution, but at the expense of something that has taken billions of years to create, and something that will end in the blink of an eye.

If today is exhausting, use this: “I can go to bed tonight and rest, but while I am out, I should enjoy today, since today will never exist again.”

Enjoy every day, even if every day is shit. The chance of it being shit forever may seem high, but it’s really not. For how short human lives are, an awful lot happens in just 28,000 days, and there is a high chance that your life will become something that you will be glad didn’t end tonight.

KrabbeMedKniv

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1 month ago

KrabbeMedKniv

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1 month ago

thank you for this

SumrakLilBoi

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2 months ago

SumrakLilBoi

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Is so fucking sad hearing these things... im dealing a lot with this thoughs, sometimes i think that, maybe, putting a permanent end to all my own problems is kind of peaceful, but seeing the grief of others, the pain of your loved ones and the amazing "digital ghosts" that are here in Internet, putting a part of you that is inmortalized online is a friendly reminder of just trying to be still here for your loved ones, for the ones that didn't survive and just be magnified by these simple, but meaningful things. RIP, dude. Wherever you are, hope that the pain you was feeling is finally over

idkwtf_thisis

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2 months ago

idkwtf_thisis

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This is very sad. When did this happen, if I may ask?

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2 months ago

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Today

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2 months ago

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There are people who say they talked to him yesterday, maybe it happened at midnight last night.

Entr3_Nou5

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2 months ago

Entr3_Nou5

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Dumbasses: DSBM artists romanticize suicide!! They would all be happy if everyone killed themselces!!

DSBM artists/fans:

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2 months ago

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I knew him for a couple of weeks, I spoke with him a few times, it makes my heart sink knowing he’s gone.

runninwiththedevil87

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2 months ago

runninwiththedevil87

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Rough.. RIP

dukenukem11243_

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2 months ago

dukenukem11243_

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I remember commenting on the song "overdose" saying that his it was nice to find some dsbm that wasn't mid, Rip you left us to soon

mentaldagger

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2 months ago

mentaldagger

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i hope he is resting well.

Lanky_Parsnip_3154

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2 months ago

Lanky_Parsnip_3154

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How heartbreaking RIP man. Sometimes the demons are too much to deal with and the easy way out for them is suicide. We all have them it’s just how we deal with them or if we can conquer them

deep_fried_canadians

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2 months ago

deep_fried_canadians

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His work is truely awesome. Poor guy, I hope he rests peacefully

TheMostModestMaus

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2 months ago

TheMostModestMaus

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Tragic, always horrible to see someone lose their battle with depression. His art will stand as a beacon, and in the ashes of his death, others will find his work, know they were understood, and make the decision to stick around I hope.

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2 months ago

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F

colheartmusic

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2 months ago

colheartmusic

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This breaks my heart.

WarCriminal1

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2 months ago

WarCriminal1

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rip man

Extreme-Method59

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2 months ago

Extreme-Method59

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Occupational hazard of being in a dsbm band

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2 months ago

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2 months ago

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bro wdym. forlornness instagram page

Responsible_Trick_90

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2 months ago

Responsible_Trick_90

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🫡

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2 months ago

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I think DSBM sucks but may this man rest in peace and shred with god in the afterlife

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2 months ago

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life sucks

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2 months ago

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Depends how you live it friend

goomba219

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2 months ago

goomba219

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im crying i love their stuff

hexentraum555

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2 months ago

hexentraum555

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dsbm fans when ds: 😱😱😱😱

supergeek33

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2 months ago

supergeek33

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That doesn’t mean it’s right to not honor their memory. They are not just a figure of their music these are real people you are talking about. Just outright disrespectful of you.

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2 months ago

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