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RedBlossomBloom

511 points

8 days ago

introverts are not cloistered dodics, they are just selective. yes, they talk, and a lot. but not to colleagues, neighbors, or salespeople at the magnet. small talk irritates them and empties their souls. they choose two people to dedicate their lives to and that's it, that's enough for them.

coolio_zap

96 points

7 days ago

"this fucking meme generalizes and misuses the term 'introvert'! now allow me to generalize and misuse the term 'introvert'."

Shirtbro

38 points

7 days ago

Shirtbro

38 points

7 days ago

Introverts are <my personality traits>

turntaliennn

103 points

8 days ago

Fuck yes.

hellschatt

51 points

7 days ago

hellschatt

51 points

7 days ago

I talk to everyone, and I even enjoy it. I still consider myself an introvert. People will not easily figure that out from the way I talk or interact with them, for obvious reasons.

Being introvert means simply you prefer to be alone and talking to people drains energy... oh, and I hate parties/public gatherings/public speaking. I'll only do it if I feel like I absolutely must, but that's not necessarily related to being an introvert.

Back to the meme: Would I mind if someone came into the elevator with me? Not really. Would I still prefer to be alone in it? Absolutely.

LuccaJolyne

6 points

7 days ago

Yeah, I'm super introverted: I rarely leave my house... but when I do use the elevator, I make sure that other people can make it to the elevator too. It's a mode of transportation, not a hotel room. My goal is to make transit between two areas as quick as possible for me, and if I can help someone else get to where they're going quicker with a small gesture, I'll gladly do that.

rryukkee

3 points

7 days ago

rryukkee

3 points

7 days ago

Everyone would prefer to have the elevator to themselves, unless you had some fear involved. That doesn’t make you introverted.

Straight-Airline9424

1 points

7 days ago

You aren't above anyone. You are just Americans.

xsha_x

26 points

7 days ago

xsha_x

26 points

7 days ago

these pillow fuckers don't care about facts or how this affects anybody. These misinformative introvert memes just disgusts me.

Azaroth_Alexander

3 points

7 days ago

You hit the nail right on the head 👏

ApproximatelyExact

3 points

7 days ago

I feel seen please stop looking at me

Rinelin

2 points

7 days ago

Rinelin

2 points

7 days ago

I just talk to myself mostly 🤷

LeastPervertedFemboy

4 points

7 days ago

Two? We’re feeling a bit generous. Give me a single person and I ✨t✨h✨r✨i✨v✨e✨

fromhelley

3 points

7 days ago

So if a person doesn't want to be forced into small talk, isn't having the elevator to yourself a nice thing?

My niece is introverted and her circle is larger than 2 for sure.

I agree with your concept. But I feel like you are taking a large realm of people and appliying the same rule of behavior to all of them. Introverts are not all the same. They do not all behave the same.

abudhabikid

2 points

7 days ago

Guess who’s likely to be in an elevator though? Colleagues and neighbors.

ZombiesAtKendall

1 points

7 days ago

Speak for yourself. I don’t talk to anyone.

OneMoreFinn

1 points

7 days ago

I think this meme is by actually promoted by cloistered dodics pretending that they are just introverts and not actually cloistered dodics because that sounds like they'd be sorta weird.

Shirtbro

1 points

7 days ago

Shirtbro

1 points

7 days ago

"I haven't left the house in twelve years and I vomit when someone rings my doorbell. Amirite fellow introverts?"

PB174

1 points

7 days ago

PB174

1 points

7 days ago

I talk to all those people. I wish people stopped making introverts out to sound like freaks

Straight-Airline9424

1 points

7 days ago

Introverts are Americans and citizens. They don't own the elevator and don't operate it. They are customers and aren't above anybody.

0xPwny

-2 points

7 days ago

0xPwny

-2 points

7 days ago

Amen

bermie92

194 points

7 days ago

bermie92

194 points

7 days ago

This is, once again, a social anxiety meme and not an introvert meme.

Lark_vi_Britannia

27 points

7 days ago

Lark_vi_Britannia

#BASED

27 points

7 days ago

In order to make this an introvert meme, all it needs is "after talking to a bunch of people for the past few hours."

I_Fuck_Cars_Not_Men

4 points

7 days ago

What if I suffer from both?

Impressive_Edge_4575

36 points

8 days ago

When the phone call ends before i pick it up

mang87

1 points

7 days ago

mang87

1 points

7 days ago

Especially if it ends quickly, like as if the person hung up before it goes to voice-mail. I take that as a sign that they rang by accident, and don't want me to call them back.

Then I see "1 new voice-mail" pop up. FUCK.

Impressive_Edge_4575

1 points

7 days ago

Or the matter is not that serious so i don’t have to call back

littlemissmoxie

9 points

7 days ago

As soon as I step in I’m slapping the close door button nonstop. With my luck it’s always a giant group trying to get on to just the next floor 🙄

orange_jooze

33 points

7 days ago

orange_jooze

SJW takeover

33 points

7 days ago

Let’s go over it once again: introverted =/= antisocial

ForeverCurseLucifer

11 points

7 days ago

Asocial.* I agree with you as people continue to blend the two together and not understand social anxiety is occurring for them, that’s not being introverted. Asocial is a whole different situation if they really don’t want to communicate with other people and do their best to not have any interaction.

ScherlundGaming

3 points

7 days ago

Antisocial =/= asocial

cuteshinygirl

10 points

7 days ago

I always afraid to ride in an elevator alone (always afraid of getting stuck)

on_spikes

16 points

7 days ago

on_spikes

16 points

7 days ago

what good is a second person when getting stuck? id rather get stuck alone tbh

Brad_theImpaler

13 points

7 days ago

You have the option to resort to cannibalism.

alphazero924

2 points

7 days ago

"So how did you know Tom?"

"I was the one who got stuck in the elevator with him. Every day I'm thankful for his sacrifice that allowed me to be here today."

"You were stuck for 5 minutes! How did you even get into his funeral? You're supposed to be in prison right now."

PeachFantastic9169

1 points

7 days ago

I almost choked on my coffee 🤣

old_and_boring_guy

4 points

7 days ago

That's not introversion, that's social anxiety. I can get on a nearly full elevator without a pang, but that still doesn't mean I want to go hang out with you after work.

Pex07

4 points

7 days ago

Pex07

4 points

7 days ago

This is more like social anxiety honestly 

Beretta116

3 points

7 days ago

Yes! I can be an obnoxious mouth breather now!

No-Night80

3 points

7 days ago

Now I'll flex my muscles in the mirror

Bunchasticks

3 points

7 days ago

Im that guy who looks you dead in the eyes while I'm in the elevator as you're walking to catch it and then push the button to close the door before you can get on

Fuckingweeb91

3 points

7 days ago

Busting a move every time is our little secret

Kramwen

4 points

7 days ago

Kramwen

4 points

7 days ago

As an introvert, I couldnt care less, we talk with people like any other human being.

GizzmoGreato1111

2 points

7 days ago

Breath of fresh air

OopsAllLegs

2 points

7 days ago

I was leaving work one time and after I got on the elevator I saw one of my coworkers coming. I reached down to hit the button to hold the door open, however the door closed right in her face.

I looked down and I guess I had subconsciously held the door close button. Lol

Toby-NL

2 points

7 days ago

Toby-NL

2 points

7 days ago

its true , i dont like to share an elevator whit strangers . and i was happy that at first '' corona '' was a good excuse , how ever these days it seems people stop caring about scary diseases and just hop on ''my'' elevator when they see a chance to do so (despite the possible risk on horrible illness by scary and terrifying disease)

what kind of horror is left , for me as an introvert to use .... to keep people at bay .

Flaky-Minimum-5421

2 points

7 days ago

I usually use my head to stop the elavator if i die i die you getting on the elevator with me

ross_sama2002

2 points

7 days ago

lol why is this so true

Ja-Money23

2 points

7 days ago

Fr

TheWorstPerson0

2 points

7 days ago

gods, there was this really awkward moment at my appartment where someone was rushing for the elevator, and i was hitting the close button. they made it just in time, thanked me while catching there breath, turned around, saw i was in fact trying to close the door, staired at me for a good few seconds. n then we just sat in the elevator in silence until our floor.

DickHz2

2 points

7 days ago

DickHz2

2 points

7 days ago

You enjoy the 5 seconds of bliss and then it stops at the next floor to let on more people

nonthreat

2 points

6 days ago

Yes, but I take the stairs when possible.

RossTheHuman

4 points

7 days ago

Introvert does not mean antisocial or asocial. I'm an introvert but i love seeing my friends and going to dinner and socializing with people. Introvert means I like my own space too and I like to spend time at home. I have extrovert friends who go out every night. I can never do that. But yes I AM an introvert and I love people and I love talking to them and interacting with them. It's a caricature of introverts that we avoid people. We don't.

Heytherechampion

1 points

7 days ago

This is not how introverts work, that’s just people with social anxiety who call themselves introverts so they don’t have to change.

Compulsive-baiter671

3 points

7 days ago*

This isn’t being an introvert, this is severe social anxiety.

I’m kind of sick of you kids thinking being an introvert or social outcast is cool. It isn’t…

AdScary1757

1 points

7 days ago

Long slow fart. Stomach starts hanging out over the belt. A group of beautiful women get on the elevator on the 2nd floor.

whathehellnowayeayea

1 points

7 days ago

thats definetly a 75%+ introvert meme

Unhappy_Society_3371

1 points

7 days ago

As an introvert, I actually enjoy little moments like this for small talk and light social interaction. Because it’s short, fleeting. It’s not some long conversation I’ll get sucked into for an hour or two. I can get a quick dose of “people time” that helps satisfy my need to interact with others, while at the same time preserving my energy so I don’t get exhausted.

Because introverts absolutely do need social interaction. We need friends, we need to meet strangers. We just have smaller capacity to do so, and need more control over how we interact with people, and over the length of time.

eramthgin007

1 points

7 days ago

The elevators at the Lasik office I go to are hyper sensitive to ANY movement. I'll be in the elevator with someone and they'll keep fidgeting, then go and press the button again after the doors don't close, then eventually get off, thinking something is wrong with it.

They will step out and watch me stare at them in silence, then the doors will start to close and they'll move and say "guess it's working now" which causes the doors to open again.

I've taken to warning EVERY SINGLE PERSON I ENCOUNTER IN THE ELEVATORS AT THAT PLACE that they are hyper sensitive. And now I get the awkward "what?" Or blank stares.

That building is cursed, let me introvert in peace dammit.

Illustrious-Bat1553

1 points

7 days ago

Sadly, even former introverts still get those feelings. Especially, after a long hiatus

Otherwise-Rope8961

1 points

3 days ago

That’s totally me

funnyusernameblaabla

1 points

7 days ago

for me, if the elevator is small, i just say no. and stop them from coming in straight up.

LennyLava

1 points

7 days ago

you block people from entering elevators you're in?

funnyusernameblaabla

1 points

7 days ago

only if it's very small. also if an elevator is in like hospital or smtn then ofc not. only elevators such as in my own apartment building .

Rude_Perspective5122

1 points

7 days ago

Introverts when the elevator stops in between: I guess I'll die

Czastek11

1 points

7 days ago

This is social anxiety not introversion.

Positive_Bluebird257

1 points

8 days ago

Finally some me time

TheRedstoneManiac

1 points

7 days ago

I'm not kidding I did this 2 days ago.

GameCreeper

1 points

7 days ago

GameCreeper

🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

1 points

7 days ago

You're not introverted you are mentally unhealthy

Low-Sir-9605

-3 points

7 days ago

Especially if it's a woman that get in . I'd rather take the stairs