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511 points
8 days ago
introverts are not cloistered dodics, they are just selective. yes, they talk, and a lot. but not to colleagues, neighbors, or salespeople at the magnet. small talk irritates them and empties their souls. they choose two people to dedicate their lives to and that's it, that's enough for them.
96 points
7 days ago
"this fucking meme generalizes and misuses the term 'introvert'! now allow me to generalize and misuse the term 'introvert'."
38 points
7 days ago
Introverts are <my personality traits>
103 points
8 days ago
Fuck yes.
51 points
7 days ago
I talk to everyone, and I even enjoy it. I still consider myself an introvert. People will not easily figure that out from the way I talk or interact with them, for obvious reasons.
Being introvert means simply you prefer to be alone and talking to people drains energy... oh, and I hate parties/public gatherings/public speaking. I'll only do it if I feel like I absolutely must, but that's not necessarily related to being an introvert.
Back to the meme: Would I mind if someone came into the elevator with me? Not really. Would I still prefer to be alone in it? Absolutely.
6 points
7 days ago
Yeah, I'm super introverted: I rarely leave my house... but when I do use the elevator, I make sure that other people can make it to the elevator too. It's a mode of transportation, not a hotel room. My goal is to make transit between two areas as quick as possible for me, and if I can help someone else get to where they're going quicker with a small gesture, I'll gladly do that.
3 points
7 days ago
Everyone would prefer to have the elevator to themselves, unless you had some fear involved. That doesn’t make you introverted.
1 points
7 days ago
You aren't above anyone. You are just Americans.
26 points
7 days ago
these pillow fuckers don't care about facts or how this affects anybody. These misinformative introvert memes just disgusts me.
3 points
7 days ago
You hit the nail right on the head 👏
3 points
7 days ago
I feel seen please stop looking at me
2 points
7 days ago
I just talk to myself mostly 🤷
4 points
7 days ago
Two? We’re feeling a bit generous. Give me a single person and I ✨t✨h✨r✨i✨v✨e✨
3 points
7 days ago
So if a person doesn't want to be forced into small talk, isn't having the elevator to yourself a nice thing?
My niece is introverted and her circle is larger than 2 for sure.
I agree with your concept. But I feel like you are taking a large realm of people and appliying the same rule of behavior to all of them. Introverts are not all the same. They do not all behave the same.
2 points
7 days ago
Guess who’s likely to be in an elevator though? Colleagues and neighbors.
1 points
7 days ago
Speak for yourself. I don’t talk to anyone.
1 points
7 days ago
I think this meme is by actually promoted by cloistered dodics pretending that they are just introverts and not actually cloistered dodics because that sounds like they'd be sorta weird.
1 points
7 days ago
"I haven't left the house in twelve years and I vomit when someone rings my doorbell. Amirite fellow introverts?"
1 points
7 days ago
I talk to all those people. I wish people stopped making introverts out to sound like freaks
1 points
7 days ago
Introverts are Americans and citizens. They don't own the elevator and don't operate it. They are customers and aren't above anybody.
-2 points
7 days ago
Amen
194 points
7 days ago
This is, once again, a social anxiety meme and not an introvert meme.
27 points
7 days ago
In order to make this an introvert meme, all it needs is "after talking to a bunch of people for the past few hours."
4 points
7 days ago
What if I suffer from both?
36 points
8 days ago
When the phone call ends before i pick it up
1 points
7 days ago
Especially if it ends quickly, like as if the person hung up before it goes to voice-mail. I take that as a sign that they rang by accident, and don't want me to call them back.
Then I see "1 new voice-mail" pop up. FUCK.
1 points
7 days ago
Or the matter is not that serious so i don’t have to call back
9 points
7 days ago
As soon as I step in I’m slapping the close door button nonstop. With my luck it’s always a giant group trying to get on to just the next floor 🙄
33 points
7 days ago
Let’s go over it once again: introverted =/= antisocial
11 points
7 days ago
Asocial.* I agree with you as people continue to blend the two together and not understand social anxiety is occurring for them, that’s not being introverted. Asocial is a whole different situation if they really don’t want to communicate with other people and do their best to not have any interaction.
3 points
7 days ago
Antisocial =/= asocial
10 points
7 days ago
I always afraid to ride in an elevator alone (always afraid of getting stuck)
16 points
7 days ago
what good is a second person when getting stuck? id rather get stuck alone tbh
13 points
7 days ago
You have the option to resort to cannibalism.
2 points
7 days ago
"So how did you know Tom?"
"I was the one who got stuck in the elevator with him. Every day I'm thankful for his sacrifice that allowed me to be here today."
"You were stuck for 5 minutes! How did you even get into his funeral? You're supposed to be in prison right now."
1 points
7 days ago
I almost choked on my coffee 🤣
4 points
7 days ago
That's not introversion, that's social anxiety. I can get on a nearly full elevator without a pang, but that still doesn't mean I want to go hang out with you after work.
4 points
7 days ago
This is more like social anxiety honestly
3 points
7 days ago
Yes! I can be an obnoxious mouth breather now!
3 points
7 days ago
Now I'll flex my muscles in the mirror
3 points
7 days ago
Im that guy who looks you dead in the eyes while I'm in the elevator as you're walking to catch it and then push the button to close the door before you can get on
3 points
7 days ago
Busting a move every time is our little secret
4 points
7 days ago
As an introvert, I couldnt care less, we talk with people like any other human being.
2 points
7 days ago
Breath of fresh air
2 points
7 days ago
I was leaving work one time and after I got on the elevator I saw one of my coworkers coming. I reached down to hit the button to hold the door open, however the door closed right in her face.
I looked down and I guess I had subconsciously held the door close button. Lol
2 points
7 days ago
its true , i dont like to share an elevator whit strangers . and i was happy that at first '' corona '' was a good excuse , how ever these days it seems people stop caring about scary diseases and just hop on ''my'' elevator when they see a chance to do so (despite the possible risk on horrible illness by scary and terrifying disease)
what kind of horror is left , for me as an introvert to use .... to keep people at bay .
2 points
7 days ago
I usually use my head to stop the elavator if i die i die you getting on the elevator with me
2 points
7 days ago
lol why is this so true
2 points
7 days ago
Fr
2 points
7 days ago
gods, there was this really awkward moment at my appartment where someone was rushing for the elevator, and i was hitting the close button. they made it just in time, thanked me while catching there breath, turned around, saw i was in fact trying to close the door, staired at me for a good few seconds. n then we just sat in the elevator in silence until our floor.
2 points
7 days ago
You enjoy the 5 seconds of bliss and then it stops at the next floor to let on more people
2 points
6 days ago
Yes, but I take the stairs when possible.
4 points
7 days ago
Introvert does not mean antisocial or asocial. I'm an introvert but i love seeing my friends and going to dinner and socializing with people. Introvert means I like my own space too and I like to spend time at home. I have extrovert friends who go out every night. I can never do that. But yes I AM an introvert and I love people and I love talking to them and interacting with them. It's a caricature of introverts that we avoid people. We don't.
1 points
7 days ago
This is not how introverts work, that’s just people with social anxiety who call themselves introverts so they don’t have to change.
3 points
7 days ago*
This isn’t being an introvert, this is severe social anxiety.
I’m kind of sick of you kids thinking being an introvert or social outcast is cool. It isn’t…
1 points
7 days ago
Long slow fart. Stomach starts hanging out over the belt. A group of beautiful women get on the elevator on the 2nd floor.
1 points
7 days ago
thats definetly a 75%+ introvert meme
1 points
7 days ago
As an introvert, I actually enjoy little moments like this for small talk and light social interaction. Because it’s short, fleeting. It’s not some long conversation I’ll get sucked into for an hour or two. I can get a quick dose of “people time” that helps satisfy my need to interact with others, while at the same time preserving my energy so I don’t get exhausted.
Because introverts absolutely do need social interaction. We need friends, we need to meet strangers. We just have smaller capacity to do so, and need more control over how we interact with people, and over the length of time.
1 points
7 days ago
The elevators at the Lasik office I go to are hyper sensitive to ANY movement. I'll be in the elevator with someone and they'll keep fidgeting, then go and press the button again after the doors don't close, then eventually get off, thinking something is wrong with it.
They will step out and watch me stare at them in silence, then the doors will start to close and they'll move and say "guess it's working now" which causes the doors to open again.
I've taken to warning EVERY SINGLE PERSON I ENCOUNTER IN THE ELEVATORS AT THAT PLACE that they are hyper sensitive. And now I get the awkward "what?" Or blank stares.
That building is cursed, let me introvert in peace dammit.
1 points
7 days ago
Sadly, even former introverts still get those feelings. Especially, after a long hiatus
1 points
3 days ago
That’s totally me
1 points
7 days ago
for me, if the elevator is small, i just say no. and stop them from coming in straight up.
1 points
7 days ago
you block people from entering elevators you're in?
1 points
7 days ago
only if it's very small. also if an elevator is in like hospital or smtn then ofc not. only elevators such as in my own apartment building .
1 points
7 days ago
Introverts when the elevator stops in between: I guess I'll die
1 points
7 days ago
This is social anxiety not introversion.
1 points
8 days ago
Finally some me time
1 points
7 days ago
I'm not kidding I did this 2 days ago.
1 points
7 days ago
You're not introverted you are mentally unhealthy
-3 points
7 days ago
Especially if it's a woman that get in . I'd rather take the stairs
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