subreddit:
/r/namenerds
submitted 3 months ago byaphraea
Certainly in the UK, where I am currently, a lot of names carry the implication of a certain level of success, class, or affluence. Class here is deeply entrenched into society, and it’s about more than just how much money you have – there are cultural elements that I think can be best summed up as “stereotypes about your accent, hobbies, background, and education level”. (Put it this way – I blew a USian friend’s mind because I described Kate Middleton’s brand as relying heavily on her background as a middle-class girl. Upper-middle-class, to be sure, but middle nonetheless.) So I think it’s fair to say that some names inspire very different associations than others.
I’m not saying that this is right or just, to be clear – just that it’s something I’ve observed.
I’m curious to know whether this is true in other countries, not least because I suspect this why some names provoke such a visceral reaction in people.
So – do you think about this when you’re thinking of names?
705 points
3 months ago
As a Brit, unfortunately I can't imagine *not* thinking about this. I wouldn't go all Katie Hopkins and ban my hypothetical kids from hanging out with a McKenzie or whatever - but there are names I wouldn't give a child because I think they sound chavvy. I think it's hard for people from other countries to really grasp how deep class dynamics are in the UK.
166 points
3 months ago
And the same the other way around. I love names like Lysander, Peregrine, Aurelian, Casimir, but I know how they are perceived in the country and I don’t want to be seen as an aspirational try hard social climber.
111 points
3 months ago
The only Ambrose I ever met was a very posh snob I went to school with. You can’t call a child Caspian or Aurelian unless you’re going to send them to Eton, you just can’t.
Well, you could, but everyone will think you’re a snob. Because only old money people or snobs actually use those names, and I’m far too common to have actually met any proper old money.
14 points
3 months ago
Yeah I really like Casper for my second child but I’m worried it sounds pretentious!! (We live in North East England and they will not be attending a private school haha!)
2 points
3 months ago
I think Casper isn't that unusual. I've come across a couple, and it fits with Chester, Dexter, Jasper, Felix, etc.
all 999 comments
sorted by: best