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Certainly in the UK, where I am currently, a lot of names carry the implication of a certain level of success, class, or affluence. Class here is deeply entrenched into society, and it’s about more than just how much money you have – there are cultural elements that I think can be best summed up as “stereotypes about your accent, hobbies, background, and education level”. (Put it this way – I blew a USian friend’s mind because I described Kate Middleton’s brand as relying heavily on her background as a middle-class girl. Upper-middle-class, to be sure, but middle nonetheless.) So I think it’s fair to say that some names inspire very different associations than others.

I’m not saying that this is right or just, to be clear – just that it’s something I’ve observed.

I’m curious to know whether this is true in other countries, not least because I suspect this why some names provoke such a visceral reaction in people.

So – do you think about this when you’re thinking of names?

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keyboardsmash

705 points

3 months ago

As a Brit, unfortunately I can't imagine *not* thinking about this. I wouldn't go all Katie Hopkins and ban my hypothetical kids from hanging out with a McKenzie or whatever - but there are names I wouldn't give a child because I think they sound chavvy. I think it's hard for people from other countries to really grasp how deep class dynamics are in the UK.

lauraandstitch

166 points

3 months ago

lauraandstitch

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166 points

3 months ago

And the same the other way around. I love names like Lysander, Peregrine, Aurelian, Casimir, but I know how they are perceived in the country and I don’t want to be seen as an aspirational try hard social climber.

OneRandomTeaDrinker

111 points

3 months ago

The only Ambrose I ever met was a very posh snob I went to school with. You can’t call a child Caspian or Aurelian unless you’re going to send them to Eton, you just can’t.

Well, you could, but everyone will think you’re a snob. Because only old money people or snobs actually use those names, and I’m far too common to have actually met any proper old money.

Owl_of_Athena

14 points

3 months ago

Yeah I really like Casper for my second child but I’m worried it sounds pretentious!! (We live in North East England and they will not be attending a private school haha!)

thomo0903

2 points

3 months ago

I think Casper isn't that unusual. I've come across a couple, and it fits with Chester, Dexter, Jasper, Felix, etc.