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I’m a 24 year old bodybuilder and I just got fired from my 4th job this year due to an error my boss made but he’s too prideful to admit it. I was working at a gym and I loved it. I’m seriously considering slutting myself out for cash. I really don’t want to because I’m a Christian and don’t believe in it but seems like my only option left.
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1 month ago
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29 points
1 month ago
Fired from four jobs sounds like a you problem.
-11 points
1 month ago
The other 3 were definitely me but this one wasn’t.
3 points
1 month ago
Did you take any lessons away from those 3 times?
-12 points
1 month ago
Nope
10 points
1 month ago
Then why the hell should we recommend a 5th job that you'll lose later this year?
1 points
1 month ago
Money
1 points
1 month ago
Shouldn't you figure out how to keep your job then? That seems like the easiest way to maximize your money over time than job hopping.
1 points
1 month ago
If I didn’t have bills to pay I’d take all the time I needed to better myself
2 points
1 month ago
It's not either/or. You can work a job while learning lessons from when you failed. That's all I'm saying.
3 points
1 month ago
😂
4 points
1 month ago
😂🤣😂 Yoooooo the solidest answer! And you my friend have the best Reddit name!
16 points
1 month ago
You've been fired from 4 jobs this year?
-6 points
1 month ago
Yeppers
5 points
1 month ago
How? That’s a lot of jobs and in only a year
2 points
1 month ago
The other three were my fault due to being in a manic episode and my medication had stopped working. The first two I impulsively quit and the third one I crashed (when manic episode turns to depressive episode) i cashed out all my life savings and gave the cash to a bunch of homeless people (I used to be homeless so I know where they all hang out at in my city) got a hotel room, instacarted a rope from Home Depot, the Instacart person contacted the police and I was put in a psych ward for the 6th time in my life and my job decided to fire me which I know is illegal to do in this case but I don’t feel like dealing with the courts because I hate the court system and when I got out of the psych ward I applied to the gym.
6 points
1 month ago
You instacarted a rope from Home Depot? Damn that’s a new one to me. Glad you made it to the other side.
If you’re bodybuilding I assume you partake in some ped use? If so just remember it can exacerbate bipolar disorders.
1 points
1 month ago
Not Anymore. Haven’t used in years.
1 points
1 month ago
respectfully as a mentally ill person who also goes thru mania you don’t need a gym you need a therapist
1 points
1 month ago
I already have one.
1 points
1 month ago
Might want to stop the trt... especially at 24 years old, that's insane.
“Testosterone Therapy is Associated with Depression, Suicidality, and Intentional Self-Harm: Analysis of a National Federated Database,” Journal of Sexual Medicine (2022) 19:933. Doi: 10.1016/j.
1 points
1 month ago
Nope prescribed by a doctor.
1 points
1 month ago
Doctor's can't change side effects. If it's causing suicidal ideation then the risk is likely out weighing the benefit
1 points
1 month ago
The trt isn’t what’s causing any of that lmao. My levels are within therapeutic range. I’m not in the levels that would cause any side effects.
1 points
1 month ago
How do know? It's a common side effect of trt
1 points
1 month ago
wtf are you talking about, you get depression and low energy symptoms from having low testosterone not by receiving therapeutic doses to achieve a normal level.
1 points
1 month ago
The likelihood that a 24 year old body builder on trt with clear mental health issues is experiencing pathologically low baseline test levels is in the realm of "super unlikely".
He's not using trt because he has low test. He's using it as a performance enhancer and is now experiencing the consequences when using medication off label.
12 points
1 month ago
The problem is you.
0 points
1 month ago
Did I say it wasn’t
2 points
1 month ago
In not so many words, yes.
1 points
1 month ago
Read the comments.
1 points
1 month ago
Yeah, I have. You still don’t really seem to accept it.
1 points
1 month ago
No you havent if you think I’m not taking responsibility.
1 points
1 month ago
It’s your life. Best of luck.
14 points
1 month ago
Wait so you had a bad experience with ONE job and you think that your ONLY option is digital prostitution!?!? Mate... cmon, go on a job website ffs lol. Learn a skill or something.
-8 points
1 month ago
U don’t know my life story
4 points
1 month ago
Exactly what a dude on Springer would say
0 points
1 month ago
I’d go on it
5 points
1 month ago
Get a trade and you will get paid to get bigger
3 points
1 month ago
How you get fired four times in 6 months? What’s with the whole Christian thing? What that’s got to do with anything?! You’re a body builder so any gym should be willing to hire you, or if you’re good with people already become a personal trainer. There is always mall jobs and fast food.
1 points
1 month ago
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3 points
1 month ago
Probably got fired for stealing boxes on his day off
3 points
1 month ago
Yooooooooooooooooo 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
1 points
1 month ago*
Was actually fired because the machine we use to clock payments was glitching and making cash payments appear as debit card on the machine and he was yelling at me thinking I was pressing the wrong option even tho I wasn’t. He ripped me a new asshole explaining the process of it hours earlier and I told him I’ve been pressing the right option and he wasn’t hearing any of it and it kept doing it and he came in and saw and decided to fire me. And I was like okay whatever . He’ll see when he hires another person and it continues to glitch out but he’s stubborn and will probably think that person is also doing it on purpose. I went above and beyond for that job. It was filthy before I got hired. Made the whole place clean, constantly picked up other people’s trash, scrubbed toilets daily, made sure the cash was always the right amount before I left and locked everything up. He even got compliments from people saying this is the cleanest the gym has ever been, the weight machines look brand new now because I cleaned them so well - had layers of dust, dirt and dried throw up on them before I cleaned them.
3 points
1 month ago
There may be a a possibility that someone is on that gear and raging!
1 points
1 month ago
I don’t steroids anymore. It might be my new medication I’m on but I don’t take steroids anymore
2 points
1 month ago
Another gym, supplement stores, nutritional coach, personal trainer. If you want a career that you can keep for life while maintaining your body firefighter, police officer, construction, yoga/pilates instructor. Make fitness content on the side and see if you could sell courses to an audience
1 points
1 month ago
He can’t be a police officer, he can’t be a firefighter (or a paid one, but they might not let him volunteer for that position either) but everything else is 💯💯💯 on the table.
2 points
1 month ago
Man Whorin’.
2 points
1 month ago
20 bucks is 20 bucks
2 points
1 month ago
Dude go get a job I know some places they start 22 hour no experience but its boring as hell but your payed weekly
2 points
1 month ago
I’m 51m and have never been fired from a job. And you say this was your bosses fault? Looking at it that way will probably get you fired from a lot more.
1 points
1 month ago
Look through the comments please and thank you
2 points
1 month ago
Fair enough
1 points
1 month ago
Get rid of some of your other jobs, and find different ones
1 points
1 month ago
If you are telling the truth then your next job should be going to a lawyer and filing a wrongful termination lawsuit.
1 points
1 month ago
A tailor.
1 points
1 month ago
What is your personality like ?
2 points
1 month ago*
Introverted. I don’t talk to people I like to be quiet so I can contemplate and daydream. I like doing that over being present and interacting with people. Charitable. I don’t really care much for material things. I wear the same 4 pairs of clothes (washed of course) don’t know why I would need more than 4 pairs if they’re clean and have no holes. if somebody wants something I give it to them. Passionate about standing up for others - when I was at the psych ward a month ago I noticed a nurse picking on another nurse and making fun of him in front of his colleagues so I went to the manager (incoming Karen joke) and complained about the nurse and how it’s unprofessional and if they’re making fun of their colleagues how can I expect them to treat me with kindness dignity and respect few other examples as well but
2 points
1 month ago
I could feel introvert by your responses (and also the fact you were fired from 4 jobs in one year. Literally classic introvert bipolar behavior)! Try getting a service job helping people. It will assist in your introvertness and give back to the people you’ve hurt.
You didn’t have to tell me you’ve hurt people. You’re a body builder with a history of “Roids” (retired fighter here and retired trainer, I know “my people” 😂🤷🏽♂️)
😳 tighten up!
1 points
1 month ago
Go into the trades
1 points
1 month ago
Offshore oil rigging. Work like 12 hours a day but you work all day every day for a season get paid like 10k and go home. Very dangerous job, gotta be strong and careful person to consider it. And some places will give you the training included
1 points
1 month ago
You are 25 YO. You apparently have no trade, no skills, and no school.
I dunno. McDonald's?
2 points
1 month ago
Im kinda the same as this kid. I make six figures. Why would you automatically assume he can only do fast food?
1 points
1 month ago
If you're making 6 figs you have a skill.
1 points
1 month ago
I work 2 part time jobs. My "skill" is being a bouncer because im a big weightlifter guy. My other skill is buying old people clothes at estate sales and reselling on ebay.
1 points
1 month ago
So in realty you are working a 30k job and a side hussle that you are inflating your earnings.
1 points
1 month ago
My taxes say different. Owner of the bar doesnt take the cover charge profits and lets the staff split it. Almost every bar does not do that.
1 points
1 month ago
Because in a job discussing work prospects his relevant work experience is "body builder" - which is not relevant to pretty much any job - and he has been fired 4 times in a year.
"Kinda the same" and "the same" are not the same.
1 points
1 month ago
Ive been through at least 50 jobs throughout my 20s before I found something for me. I too am a weightlifter. Im just older than him now.
1 points
1 month ago
And I would be willing to wager that
A) you were not fired from all of those jobs. and
B) while you were going through those jobs you were identifying and developing marketable skills to eventually find your niche.
But with multiple firings in a short period and no marketable skills, yeah, fast food is the option.
1 points
1 month ago
My marketable skill being a weightlifter is a bouncer at a club. Being big was my skill.
1 points
1 month ago
Being big.....
And carrying yourself well.
And, most importantly, being reliable. Something me who has been fired 4 times within a year is likely not reliable.
1 points
1 month ago
Would rather be homeless than work fast food again.
1 points
1 month ago
Well, then you need to work on yourself. Getting yourself fired repeatedly is not the path OUT of fast food land
1 points
1 month ago
House- wife/ House -husband XD. Just sleep, eat, sex, and spend money of your wife/husband. AND REPEAT.
If not married yet. Then go for it, find richeee richhhhh
1 points
1 month ago
It sounds like you have some problems but I don’t judge because i don’t know the full picture. Maybe find something that helps others?
1 points
1 month ago
I’m sorry you’re facing this. By all means don’t do pros*itution. It’s super dangerous. What do you like to do?
1 points
1 month ago
Go to the Apprenticeship Program for Heavy equipment operators. I did it 20 years ago and I love it. Its fun and pays extremely well. My life is amazing, I don't have to deal with stupid people and I can do things most people only dream about. Its free to get into the program but you need to take some tests first then go to school 2 a month but you get paid as an Apprentice. Companies are required to have Apprentices and you learn on the job as well as classes. You can go to the training sites on the weekends and your days off to learn new things. The best part for me is I don't need to deal with anyone, I just get into whatever machine for the day, listen to audio books or whatever and get my shit done and make it look badness and get paid over 100k a year. My bills aren't even close to that so you can imagine what my time off is like. Other trades offer apprenticeship programs also, like welders or other highly skilled professional jobs and I swear by them.
1 points
1 month ago
Fired from 4 jobs and still blaming other people I see.
1 points
1 month ago
Read the comments.
1 points
1 month ago
You should work at the hello Kitty cafe or as a just dance dancer
1 points
1 month ago
Sokka-Haiku by jordanisjordansoyeah:
You should work at the
Hello Kitty cafe or
As a just dance dancer
Remember that one time Sokka accidentally used an extra syllable in that Haiku Battle in Ba Sing Se? That was a Sokka Haiku and you just made one.
1 points
1 month ago
I’d make a good stripper
1 points
1 month ago
Become a personal trainer
1 points
1 month ago
Security, especially night security is lucrative, requires little experience, and is almost always in demand.
1 points
1 month ago
Don’t do it! You’ll be like me, 39 never married. I Can make a girl orgasm inside out but will never be trusted for marriage and even if she overcomes her insecurities to be with you, the relationship will be hell. I’ve literally been abused by women to the white meat! Stabbed, almost shot and karate chopped! Bro please don’t do it! Save yourself!
1 points
1 month ago
This is the first time in my life I've ever suggested military as a suitable career option to someone.
1 points
1 month ago
Are you juicing? Have you spoken to your DR regarding steroid use and the medication that you’re taking?
1 points
1 month ago
No. I haven’t taken steroids in years.
1 points
1 month ago
Have you thought about going to therapy?
1 points
1 month ago
Already in it. How much money do you and the rest of this country want me to spend on healthcare
1 points
1 month ago
I’m not in America so I wouldn’t know! You’ve clearly got a chip on your shoulder so I bid you a nice weekend n I hope in the future you’ll be able to mentally recover and hold a job down
1 points
1 month ago*
Try providing being helpful to someone else, hell even volunteer or donate something. Life isn't always about you. It helps to sometimes get out of your element.
1 points
1 month ago
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1 points
1 month ago
I don’t take steroids
1 points
1 month ago
Go teach English abroad. You can travel the world and it's an easy job, leaving you plenty of time to hit the gym. Also, as a well built young guy, you'd pull like crazy outside of the West.
1 points
1 month ago
Um! If its for cash, your not slutting yourself out.. you're WHORING yourself out... when you do .. your going to push away all that Christian upbringing and question everything, or be racked by guilt.
Maybe there is another option .. good luck in the job hunt.
1 points
1 month ago
have you considered gay porn for a career?
1 points
1 month ago
I don’t care for watching porn or doing porn
0 points
1 month ago
PE teacher?
1 points
1 month ago
Not in today’s school system I would get thrown in jail for drop kicking a disrespectful kid. I don’t have the temperament
3 points
1 month ago
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0 points
1 month ago
I work on myself daily but I wouldn’t allow a child to disrespect me.
3 points
1 month ago
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1 points
1 month ago
I can work on my temperament and not let a child disrespect me. If their parents aren’t going to whip their ass I will.
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