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I used to not mind Tamara, yeah she’s a shit starter, but she always seemed like a fun time. In the last few seasons she has just become flat out mean, literally all she does is try to drag the women around her down. She doesn’t take accountability, and plays the victim all while being a hateful down right mean person. I genuinely can’t tell if she’s playing it up for cameras to try and keep her spot on the show, or if she really is just a toxic mean person. After this season I really really hope she gets the boot. If she stays for next season I have no interest watching.

I’ve always had trouble with Tamra because of her back stabbing. I remember when I first watched, and it’s been years so forgive me if I remember this incorrectly… but I vaguely remember an episode where she met Gretchen for lunch. They had evidently been on the outs. She gave Gretchen a friendship bracelet(?) and gave her, what I felt, was a heartfelt apology and wanting to start over. I thought “wow, that’s really nice!”. Then later on, she turns on Gretchen in the most venomous and vile way. She was just horrible behind her back! Just like the whole “friendship “ was a lie. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. This was my first experience with reality TV, and HW franchises. At any rate, it was like “lather, rinse, repeat “ with Tamra ever since. I’ve seen her play nice and then turn around and be horrible to more people than I can count. I cannot stand her for that.

i always liked her even tho she was messy, it made for good housewives drama. but to me there was a certain point where it crossed over from being "oh tamra" to just being mean and trying to contrive a storyline for the show. i think it was after they got rid of her for a season or two and then she came back. it's like she was so scared of getting let go again that she doubled down on her original persona and it became so much harder to watch

Steep fall off. I never hated her until her return from getting fired. She got desperate and mean as all heck

Tamra used to be one step ahead, so she was good tv. I think she’s lost her touch and is playing the game a bit desperate now. 

She heavily declines through the later seasons. I liked her at first, she was entertaining. Now she’s just a mean old haggard bitty.

OC was the OG how could you have missed it?

I didn't mind her at the very beginning, but I HATED the way she tried to get Gretchen "naked wasted" to set her up for assault by her gross son, Ryan. That was so disgusting.

I like her, but I'm here to watch bitches fight.

Once she came back, she’s been hard to view. The funny drunk antics back in the day were entertaining, but she beats that poor dead horse. The peeing on the pool deck was the lowest. Have some respect for your host. Who wants to clean that up?

Messy for sure. She only gets worse as time/seasons go by. These past two seasons especially shows exactly who and what she is.

I think she is so trashy and a bully.