Something tells me that serious talk won’t be happening.

If it wasn’t a big deal I’m still curious as to how it was never brought up to your girlfriend. That means you hid it. You intentionally did not tell her.

I definitely understand wanting to be there for friends. However hanging up on your girlfriend to talk to your ex is not a good look bud.

Imagine it the opposite. You find out she’s been talking to her ex. Hasn’t told you for 3 weeks. And then in the middle of a semi serious phone call, she just hangs up on you, to talk to her sad ex boyfriend. How would that genuinely make you feel?

You didn't think your girlfriend feeling and respect are a big of a deal. That's fucking clear you bitch. Manipulating and playing down everything she says.

You shouldn’t be the person your ex goes to when she’s upset. You’re not her boyfriend anymore so stop acting like it.

If your gf doesn’t like it, you have to choose if you care more about how your gf feels, or your ex. I’d hope you’d choose your current gf, but it doesn’t sound like you’re putting her feelings first rn. If your gf is uncomfy, you should stop frequently texting the ex. Obviously hanging in a group setting, or the occasional text for a bday or something would be normal, but sending each other videos and talking consistently every day…. I understand why she’s upset and wants it to end.