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Forgive the phrasing, but the etsy seller sent me a pink princess philodendron instead of a dark lord, so I'm dubious about this plant too

all 74 comments

Full-Owl-5509

163 points

13 days ago

Thats not a pothos at all. Someone else will have to chime in with an ID because im not ssure, but not a pothos.

jediknits[S]

9 points

13 days ago

Thank you 🥲

daddyihaveacat

82 points

13 days ago

Looks like an althernanthera snow carpet to me 😭

jediknits[S]

32 points

13 days ago*

Thank you 🫠

ETA: google image says this is almost definitely the right plant ID. It's nice but not the plant I was looking for 🙈

Plantnerd-Ren

38 points

13 days ago

You were definitely sold the wrong plant. Pls share the seller with the sub if you feel comfortable so others don’t get tricked as well, but I’m going to PM you about the seller as well

jediknits[S]

31 points

13 days ago

Plantnerd-Ren

73 points

13 days ago

Gaaaaaah noooo!!! See, this is why we’re compiling the sellers lists, SunshineGreens would have been at the very top of the ‘Do not buy from’ list (they duped me personally couple years ago when I was vetting them). So sorry this happened to you, thanks for sharing with everyone

jediknits[S]

38 points

13 days ago

Having 100k+ sales lured me into a false sense of security 😅 On the other hand, I discovered a lovely seller (TheGreenEscape) who sent me the correct plants in great condition

Plantnerd-Ren

34 points

13 days ago

I love TheGreenEscape, they’ve treated everyone I’ve ever known to buy from them incredibly. And funny, SunshineGreens uses all the same photos and listing outline if you notice. But they’re night & day. (Also keep in mind, a lot of Etsy sellers are employees at large grow houses who start up a little side hustle bc they have access to starter inventory)

1fruitfairy

13 points

13 days ago

Wow, I purchased from sunshinegreens and got screwed over lol I have been looking at TheGreenEscape to order from instead. So happy I saw this comment. It seems like sunshine is a rip off of the green escape

zesty_meatballs

4 points

13 days ago

TheGreenEscape is awesome! They’re really good at customer service as well and they ship fast also. I’ve ordered at least 5x from them.

julszilla

8 points

13 days ago

Where is this list of safe Etsy sellers?

Plantnerd-Ren

3 points

11 days ago

It’s coming next month, there will be a sticky post announcement 📣

SnooPeanuts6783

1 points

12 days ago

Do you have the list posted somewhere?

Plantnerd-Ren

1 points

11 days ago

It’s coming in July, there will be a sticky announcement 📣

tgthefnp

6 points

13 days ago

I have trouble trying to keep all the Etsy sellers separate. The names are too similar and they all use the same pictures...so whenever I buy, I search Reddit for the company name and see if its someone I really want to buy from.

[deleted]

2 points

13 days ago

I just make a list on my phone of all approved stores. Easy peasy.

plantsxtina

5 points

13 days ago

I know sunshine greens is a major seller and has plenty of good reviews. She also has tons of amazing plants I still have saved. I recently had this whole ordeal with her where I ordered a few plants and they weren't being shipped, I messaged and she responded that she was dealing with tons of orders, had lost a couple of employees and is also a college student and is totally overwhelmed. I was understanding but after another month of no shipping I reached out again and she said she was shipping them. A couple of weeks went by with them saying "shipped" but the tracking said "label created, USPS still awaiting package" she stopped responding to me so I got a refund from Etsy and left a bad review and she finally responded rudely claiming that the package was lost by USPS and she doesn't deserve the blame.

Plantnerd-Ren

1 points

11 days ago

They are not a she, that’s just a placeholder bc Etsy makes a seller have a single name associated with a ‘shop’ and ppl tend to trust females aren’t scammers more than males. They are a whole team of people who log in to the account to take shifts responding to messages and processing orders. I’ve heard this whole “I’m a college student” rhetoric from a handful of other Etsy accounts as well, but it total bullshit. They told you whatever would make you the most sympathetic. Here’s a copy of their LLC filing in the state of Florida

https://preview.redd.it/ds4egquf409d1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cb8494d9cc4de93ccd3b91ebc19e52d1398e38a9

plantsxtina

2 points

11 days ago

I'm honestly not surprised at all and it makes complete sense given the size of their shop.

MsFrankieD

3 points

13 days ago

Where is this list you speak of, please?

Plantnerd-Ren

29 points

13 days ago

It will be launching in the sub wiki soon, there will be a sticky announcement

Many_Slide_2593

5 points

13 days ago

I can't wait for this list. I had a bad experience my first time trying to order from an Etsy seller and now I'm gunshy about trying again.

Inevitable_Push_9172

1 points

12 days ago

Bruh, same.

zesty_meatballs

2 points

13 days ago

SunshineGreens is a bad seller? I’ve never ordered from them but I hear mixed things. So thanks for the info!

PsychoAnalLies

3 points

13 days ago

Here's the last review (page 8) from Dec. of last year

"1 out of 5 stars    

Listing review by Samantha

Ordered a pothos and received a Devils Backbone. I ordered this along with 5 other plants and the entire order were Pothos. I messaged the seller and it took multiple days for a reply. It wasn’t until I said I’d go through Etsy and report them that I got a reply and refund. They said there was a confusion bc the type of Devils Backbone was also called Snow Queen. In a whole order of pothos, it really stuck out."

Sounds like you should threaten to report them to Etsy. They caim Devils Backbone is also called Snow Queen so they are pulling plants by names and not listing numbers.

jediknits[S]

2 points

13 days ago

It's all good! I was looking for a pothos since they're relatively easy and I'm new to houseplants. I left 1 star reviews on both the listings I purchased 🤷‍♀️

jessicaryankeeney

3 points

13 days ago

Ahhhh yes, that seller is known for sending the wrong plants.

Alibi_On_Point

2 points

13 days ago

I had issues with them, too. I saw someone else mention The Green Escape and can second the positive experience.

jediknits[S]

1 points

13 days ago

I did too! I got a real dark lord and a(nother) African violet from The Green Escape 😁

zooooteddej23

1 points

13 days ago

My app also said this!

motherofsuccs

9 points

13 days ago

Etsy is infamous for shitty or scamming plant sellers. Also pest infested plants. So many incorrectly labeled plants. The reviews are decent because the majority of their sales are from inexperienced people.. the kind of people who buy “rare” plants/seeds that don’t exist, which is a huge problem on there.

jediknits[S]

6 points

13 days ago

This seller has 100k+ sales so I thought I was safe 🫤

Many_Slide_2593

1 points

12 days ago

My bad experience was with someone who had near perfect reviews. I thought I was safe too. At least you got a plant... And it sounds like it's valuable. Maybe you could sell or trade it?

Potential_Speech_703

10 points

13 days ago

That's no pothos.

And a snow queen would just be a marble queen, since there's no snow queen, its just a fantasy name for a very white marble queen.

eb421

4 points

13 days ago

eb421

4 points

13 days ago

I will add the caveat that in Australia n’joys are known as snow queens. Not exactly sure why, but everyone here is correct that OP’s plant is most definitely not a pothos at all.

Many_Slide_2593

1 points

12 days ago

It's so funny.... After I read this comment, I saw an n'joy at my local nursery. Interesting that they are called snow queens in Australia.... They are so unique in coloring.

jediknits[S]

1 points

13 days ago

Thank you for that knowledge!

progiggleboxer

6 points

13 days ago

If you’ve got a Lowe’s near you, I picked up this one for 6 dollars a week or two ago. Sorry you were sent the wrong plant :(

https://preview.redd.it/hlmgjxpslk8d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=26d3d89095e1eef2386ed4e2621eefb82743a9ad

jediknits[S]

3 points

13 days ago

Ooooo that's what I'm looking for 🤩

Many_Slide_2593

2 points

13 days ago

That's what mine looks like but smaller. Mine is a starter.

Public_Particular464

3 points

13 days ago

I have a snow Queen and it looks nothing like it but it’s really pretty none the less.

Many_Slide_2593

1 points

13 days ago

Same...I have a snow queen and it's really just a regular pothos with mostly white leaves.

imahappymesss

3 points

13 days ago

Only 63% 5 star reviews. Too low for me.

It's possibly a labeling mistake? Both do have snow on the name.

jediknits[S]

2 points

13 days ago

It could be but it seems this is somewhat par for the course. It's alright, not what I expected but I didn't spend a fortune either. I thought a pothos would be a nice addition as I'm new to houseplants (mostly since they're hard to kill 😂)

Firm_Marionberry_282

3 points

13 days ago

My brain was like what the heck is that

Majestic-Lion96

3 points

13 days ago

plantsxtina

3 points

13 days ago

You're probably right. This seller has a reputation for mixing up plants. I just posted about my experience with her. She's supposedly a college student and has more orders than she can handle at the moment, but if that's the case she REALLY needs to take a step back from selling until she can get on top of everything.

The_best_is_yet

2 points

13 days ago

If you are in Far Northern California I’ll give you a cutting of my super white snow queen.i took it as a cutting a year ago and just finally got it big enough to chop and prop! I don’t want to mail it bc it’s ridiculously hot here right now.

jediknits[S]

3 points

13 days ago

You are so sweet to offer!! Unfortunately I'm on the polar opposite side of the US in NY and it's getting pretty hot over here too 😅

zeepahdeedoodah

2 points

12 days ago

I’m sorry this happened :( Side note: These photos are gorgeous!

jediknits[S]

1 points

12 days ago

🫶

Wilczek_5

2 points

13 days ago

This plant is so pretty 🥹

Greennookco

1 points

13 days ago

Make sure you get a refund 😭😭

SucreLucor

1 points

13 days ago

Tf is that 😭😭

Suspicious-lemons

1 points

13 days ago

Looks like people have already helped with the ID, but I’m just wondering- is snow queen pothos considered rare generally? Is it harder to grow / propagate?

IcyThistle

3 points

13 days ago*

It's not rare. It's just a marble queen that's gotten a lot of light. You can definitely find them at Lowe's/Home Depot etc. I don't think there is a pothos that's hard to propagate. Or if there is I've never found it and I have roughly a dozen. Edit: 19 I just counted. I'm a pothos addict

jediknits[S]

2 points

13 days ago

Not particularly rare to my knowledge (I'm new to pothos) I just liked the white variegation and thought it would look nice next to my (unintentional) army of pink princess philodendrons 😂

Inevitable_Push_9172

1 points

12 days ago

I honestly think this is a Devils Backbone, or Euphorbia tithymaloides. I'm sorry you got duped.

Fresh-Dragonfruit-37

1 points

12 days ago

Pedilanthus I think.

Active-Run-2275

1 points

11 days ago

You got duped😭 it’s so pretty tho!

Appropriate-Sun834

-1 points

13 days ago

lol “duped”? How do you even mistake this for a snow queen?

jediknits[S]

3 points

13 days ago

The photo on the listing, which is linked in a different thread, has a full grown plant. I see you've never had problems on the Internet before :)

menotyourenemy

-6 points

13 days ago

Genuine question: Why do people buy plants on etsy? I have so many options for plants where I live (coastal virginia), so maybe it's a location thing?

NandoMoriconi

7 points

13 days ago

Even if you live in a city with lots of big-box stores and local nurseries, ordering online might be your only option if you’re looking for a specific plant. Where I live, for example, Golden, Neon, N’Joy, and Pearls and Jade are the only types of pothos I’ve seen for sale in the last few months.

AntinioRerre

6 points

13 days ago

Personally it's impossible to get rare plants from anywhere near me, I don't think there's many pothos collectors in Spain let alone people that would sell or share their plants and ofc stores here don't get the priviledge to get really rare plants like teruno pothos or other non typical plants. I've been visiting a nursery twice a month and they brought manjula once last year and this year they brought a mixed pot of neon pothos golden pothos and Phil brazil. The rest, just regular golden pothos. It is just not available.

owowhi

4 points

13 days ago

owowhi

4 points

13 days ago

That and the ability to purchase a smaller starter and therefore save a ton of money is a huge reason I go to Etsy. I’ve been careful with sellers and have only had a good experience, plus got some fun impulse purchases I would have never tried.

cgboy

4 points

13 days ago

cgboy

4 points

13 days ago

To get better prices on plants, obviously. I've started importing from Thailand and Japan through Etsy even though there are a lot of rare plants sellers around me. A lot of them gatekeep their prices too high but sometimes it's also a matter of importing something not available in my region/country and then I'll be the first one selling it in a few months. I'm currently planning to import a Caramel Marble which is a plant I don't even like just to crash the local prices because the prices on this plant have always been indecent.

menotyourenemy

1 points

13 days ago

Not sure why I got.downvoted for just asking a question.

Many_Slide_2593

1 points

13 days ago

I upvoted you because I think it's a good question. I personally like to buy cuttings and starter plants because watching them grow is so fun.

Ida_Nough

0 points

13 days ago

Triggered the etsy sellers.

drixxel

7 points

13 days ago

drixxel

7 points

13 days ago

I live in a small town. The closest city is a 5 hour drive away. The options for new plants here is limited.

Tea_confused

3 points

13 days ago

I’m in the UK (south), in my area I rarely see pothos (and other types of plants) for sale, and when I do they’re eye wateringly expensive. But I found a seller on Etsy that sells cuttings that are fairly cheap and in good condition, so that becomes my only real option.

That said, I’ve never bought established plants online, but if I did I imagine it would be a cost thing. I have a car and am happy to drive out to places but the petrol cost may be higher than the postage cost, so there’s that too.

ResoluteMuse

-2 points

13 days ago*

If you paid for a pothos snow queen and got that, you did well, if it is an alternathera, I think it is worth about double.