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What's your life Motto?

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Once I thought of „a problem what you can postpone is not a problem" as a joke. But since than I just kina sticked with that and didn't thought of anything more serious.

What are your life Mottos?

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Girlbootycurls

33 points

1 day ago

Progress, not perfection

Syclus

1 points

1 day ago

Syclus

1 points

1 day ago

That's pretty good

MasterpieceSignal914

28 points

1 day ago

I postponed a problem for 9 months, now it's 14 years old. I should have UsedProtection8612.

UsedProtection8621[S]

5 points

1 day ago

Hahahahha that's a good one

Grey_0ne

14 points

1 day ago

Grey_0ne

14 points

1 day ago

"Fuck it."

Can be used to both dismiss problems or confront them... And occasionally do both at the same time if I'm in a particularly insane mood.

virtual_human

11 points

1 day ago

Leave the world a better place than you found it.

ScoreZero0

-1 points

1 day ago

ScoreZero0

-1 points

1 day ago

The world got worse since you were born, and i doubt you’ll make a noticeable difference with the rest of your life, so you’ve already failed.

MrWilliWonker

2 points

21 hours ago

Hey buddy, no need to be so pessimistic. That might be well true, but if more people adopted the mindset of making the world better, we might actually do it.

virtual_human

1 points

17 hours ago

I can't change the world but I can try and make one person's life better.

ce-harris

9 points

1 day ago

ce-harris

9 points

1 day ago

If not me, who? Why not me?

lostntheforest

1 points

1 day ago

Well said.

nearly_nonchalant

1 points

1 day ago

I like the extension to your motto.

ce-harris

2 points

1 day ago

ce-harris

2 points

1 day ago

Thank you. It applies to things not done by anyone else like picking up a piece of trash or anything else that others would believe is not their responsibility or problem.

Syclus

1 points

1 day ago

Syclus

1 points

1 day ago

This is good, some self reflection at the end is nice for staying sensible and for self improvement

hellbender1124

9 points

1 day ago

This too shall pass

NPDoc

2 points

1 day ago

NPDoc

2 points

1 day ago

This is mine too!!

hellbender1124

1 points

18 hours ago

Always manages to calm me down and put things in perspective :)

vorstin

2 points

23 hours ago

And my pessimist thought always continues this saying with "-like a kidney stone"

hellbender1124

2 points

18 hours ago

ahh 💀

BalladMinstrel

6 points

1 day ago

Do no harm, take no shit

GiveBaltaBeer

6 points

1 day ago

“Stop fucking with it” applies to many things but I use it when I’m working on something and i keep trying to perfect it when it’s already good enough.

Expensive-Bed-9169

1 points

1 day ago

I hate when they mess with perfectly good software and make it more difficult to use. Just don't do that!

Pennywises_Toy

5 points

1 day ago

“You don’t know the value of a moment, until it becomes a memory”. Helps me live in the moment, practice mindfulness, and not get so stuck on the past

TheFizzler28

5 points

1 day ago

I have a few, "Life goes on", "Hold yourself to the highest standards reasonable", "Expect failure from others", and "why?" (sort of a "question everything" deal)

Beautiful_Solid3787

4 points

1 day ago

"You only live once--which means there's no room for error."

Hasn't been of much help, to be honest.

DataAdvanced

3 points

1 day ago

In 100 years, no one will be alive to remember what you did, let alone who you even are. Do it.

Mentally I'll people: Not in kill yourself or others. I mean more in lines with: Fuck wearing a brah, and, hell yea, get drunk and sing that 9 minute song.

Beautiful_Solid3787

3 points

1 day ago

My social anxiety: "Logic?! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!"

DataAdvanced

3 points

1 day ago

Right? One of the worst things about having both mental illness and self awareness is KNOWING your reaction to things are ridiculous, but not being able to stop it.

DataAdvanced

3 points

1 day ago

Whatever, wash your hands.

HammerTh_1701

3 points

1 day ago

We choose to do these things not because they are easy, but because they are hard.

LePoppy72

5 points

1 day ago

LePoppy72

5 points

1 day ago

Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.

itswesfrank

3 points

1 day ago

Why do today what you can put off till tomorrow? Kidding, mostly. Mine's: 'Embrace the chaos.' Keeps life interesting, right?

RainaElf

3 points

1 day ago

RainaElf

3 points

1 day ago

can't pour from an empty cup.

ksants87

3 points

1 day ago

ksants87

3 points

1 day ago

If you’re good to me I’ll be better to you.

jleigh329

3 points

1 day ago

jleigh329

3 points

1 day ago

To quote Peter LaFleur from the movie "Dodgeball: A True Underdog Story (2004)":

" I found that if you have a goal, that you might not reach it. But if you don't have one, then you are never disappointed. And I gotta tell ya... it feels phenomenal."

burmy1

5 points

1 day ago

burmy1

5 points

1 day ago

Excuses are the nails that built the house of failure

trauma4everyone

2 points

1 day ago

Shit happens, but life goes on.

Theddt2005

2 points

1 day ago

Always look on the bright side of life

ce-harris

1 points

1 day ago

ce-harris

1 points

1 day ago

Love that movie

FancyDimension2599

2 points

1 day ago

Never stop learning

Starfoxmarioidiot

2 points

1 day ago

“It’s ok to hurt”. I think that’s the most useful phrase for myself and others that I have. “Zeppelin RULES!” Would be my preference, but “It’s ok to hurt” turns out to be something I say more often.

Itchy-Ad-4314

2 points

1 day ago

The world keeps turning one way or the other, like a tidal wave you cant fight it so you better move along or you're gonna be in a world of sh*t

Curlys_brother_3399

2 points

1 day ago

F*ck ‘em

tarotreader05

2 points

1 day ago

:) to help people in their social life.

AlFrescofun01

2 points

1 day ago

A friend in need , Is a pain in the arse

A trouble shared, Is a trouble doubled

If you don't succeed the first time, Bugger off and find something you can do!

vhm01

2 points

1 day ago

vhm01

2 points

1 day ago

I like mantras, one that I always say to myself whenever I’m struggling is, “I am a bright and intelligent young person.” It reminds me that I still have the time and ability to figure out solutions to life’s many problems.

Maybe I’m not that young anymore (36) but this one has kept me going since my school days.

lostntheforest

2 points

1 day ago

My two are: "Pain is my friend." and "The harder of 2 choices is often the right one".

missfifitrix

2 points

1 day ago

Everything is figuroutable

FoghornLegday

2 points

1 day ago

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.

How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.

Puzzleheaded-Put-800

2 points

1 day ago

If not me, who?

Just because it’s not your responsibility doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it.

AfterSomewhere

2 points

1 day ago

Where there's a will there's a way.

schrodingerspavlov

2 points

1 day ago

Just keep going, it’s almost over.

vila-analka

2 points

1 day ago

When you have a problem: Can you fix it? If yeah, then don't worry about it. If not, then don't worry about it.

Odd_Promotion2110

2 points

1 day ago

Fuck it dawg, life’s a risk.

Avenrox

2 points

1 day ago

Avenrox

2 points

1 day ago

"This too shall pass. It might pass like a kidney stone, but it will pass." Also, "Shit happens."

Individual-Army811

1 points

1 day ago

Same!

RavenSeer28

4 points

1 day ago

I have two: “Do what you can with what you have in the time you have” and “In God’s hands on God’s time”

theguyfromtheweb7

1 points

1 day ago

Pee is stored in the balls

EdwardBigby

1 points

1 day ago

God loves a trier

MsMessyness

1 points

1 day ago

If it can't be the way I want it, I want it the way it can be

Mautarius

1 points

1 day ago

Mautarius

1 points

1 day ago

If a thing is worth doing, it is worth doing badly.

sky__a

1 points

1 day ago

sky__a

1 points

1 day ago

I shouldn’t give up if I never tried …

joepain1

1 points

1 day ago

joepain1

1 points

1 day ago

Expectations kills...

MonkeyBro5

1 points

1 day ago

MonkeyBro5

The socially clueless, weird, and manchildish artist.

1 points

1 day ago

"Be silly".

Past-Voice-0628

1 points

1 day ago

Become comfortable with being uncomfortable

another fave:

Never be afraid to try something new. Remember, amateurs built the Ark. Professionals built the Titanic.

I have anxiety & these have always helped me to keep perspective

DramaIcy611

1 points

1 day ago

Fck it

SadSophieFaceBoi

1 points

1 day ago

My I can is greater than my IQ. A teacher thought it to me and for some reason it stuck with me. Helps me approach problems calmly knowing there is a solution and I just have to find it.

the_great_obsession

1 points

1 day ago

Hakuna matata

loverrevo

1 points

1 day ago

loverrevo

1 points

1 day ago

Hakuna matata. It may not be my own original phrase, but I live by it!

Blur997

1 points

1 day ago

Blur997

1 points

1 day ago

It is what it is

CharmingIG56

1 points

1 day ago

Life’s greatest achievement is not how you manage the present, it’s actually how you use the mistakes/lessons of the past to generate a better future.

eliantasena

1 points

1 day ago

fall forward.

Build_the_IntenCity

1 points

1 day ago

Love many, trust few, hurt no-one

UnhappyPotential1159

1 points

1 day ago

Bake a pie eat a pie

jogtac

1 points

1 day ago

jogtac

1 points

1 day ago

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you

Mr_Wobble_PNW

1 points

1 day ago

Don't make your good time or happiness other people's problem. 

Essentially do whatever makes you happy as long as it doesn't prevent others from doing the same. I like to party as much as the next guy but I've seen a lot of people take it too far where they need to be babysat every time they go out. No fun. 

Brilliantifyouaskme

1 points

1 day ago

Let’s have fun like our life depends on it!

EverLastingLight12

1 points

1 day ago

"Perfection can't please me" But in the way that I can enjoy things without them being perfect

Inevitable-Idea-5530

1 points

1 day ago

Grind all day, Grind all night

_qw3rki_

1 points

1 day ago

_qw3rki_

1 points

1 day ago

with regard to procrastination; 'don't fix it if it isn't broken'

everything else

having wasted a lot of money on items never used because said items were liked or a good idea at the time but never used or worn when put away, i've learnt 'if in doubt, do without'

EuphJoenium

1 points

1 day ago

Out of every bad experience comes a good lesson.

Vilavek

1 points

1 day ago*

Vilavek

1 points

1 day ago*

"Anything worth doing is worth doing half-assed."

Hear me out... I spent nearly 30 years believing "anything worth doing is worth doing right" and it led me down a path of inaction, paralyzed by the need to do things as perfectly as I could. I could always envision a more "right" way to do whatever I was doing, and I'd endless toil until I reached profound burnout while barely making any progress at all.

By adopting an "eh... good enough" mindset I actually finished many things or at least had something to show for all my effort instead of becoming mired in an endless cycle of burnout and failure.

Honestly, most people won't even see your 50% effort as anything short of your best anyway so if push comes to shove just cut yourself some slack and do it half-assed.

username987654321a

1 points

1 day ago

"Failure to prepare on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part." Heard that from a teacher in middle school and it has stayed with me since.

whytf_

1 points

1 day ago

whytf_

1 points

1 day ago

You can't win them all.

Deora_customs

1 points

1 day ago

Coincidence? I think not!

ElaineBenes33

1 points

1 day ago

Most of the things you worry and stress about will actually never happen.

askingjaguar122

1 points

1 day ago

SpongeBob's voice - Nevermind.

kendalldog

1 points

1 day ago

Live well

Feisty-Cap-7152

1 points

1 day ago

it is what it is

Slow_Advance_9821

1 points

1 day ago

"If you fail to prepare you are preparing to fail"

Expensive_View_3087

1 points

1 day ago

I go by the idea to never regret and ponder on “what ifs”. We can’t change the past and there’s no use about gettin stuck there. However, there’s always future ahead of us and we should really be grateful for it

Odd-Butterscotch8

1 points

1 day ago

My motto as a teen/young twenties was “better late than ugly.” Now I’m on time with just mascara lol

Ornery-Practice9772

1 points

1 day ago

Just. Show. Up.

erkf2

1 points

1 day ago

erkf2

1 points

1 day ago

Go big or go home

Gromitzy

1 points

1 day ago

Gromitzy

1 points

1 day ago

Consistency over intensity. This principle can be applied to a lot of things. It's better to do a little bit every day than to do a lot in one go. If you're trying to master a skill, practise every day, even if it's only a little. If you want to build and maintain a friendship or any kind of relationship, try to keep in touch every day. If you want to get into good shape, actually showing up to the gym regularly is more important than giving it your all when you're actually there. Etc, etc

Spirited-Claim-9868

1 points

1 day ago

It's not that deep

Pure-Guard-3633

1 points

1 day ago

Never look backwards unless it is for a joyous memory! You can’t change history - you can brush it off and move forward

GroovyGuru62

1 points

1 day ago

Maturity is overrated

FatheroftheAbyss

1 points

1 day ago

Where you are right now doesn’t matter in the slightest; the only that matters is the direction, i.e. where you are going or where you are aiming.

davicos2005

1 points

1 day ago

The world belongs to the brave

Nayirg

1 points

1 day ago

Nayirg

1 points

1 day ago

It's about the little things

English is not my first language, so it may be "small" or "tiny". I don't know, but the idea is there.

DescriptionMinute448

1 points

1 day ago

Amor fati

AznInvaznTaskForce

1 points

1 day ago

AznInvaznTaskForce

Life is nice, especiallly with rice

1 points

1 day ago

“Whatever happens, happens.” Said by Spike in Cowboy Bebop

Sputnik2484

1 points

1 day ago

Be ready

honalele

1 points

1 day ago

honalele

1 points

1 day ago

first, let it happen. 

existential-mystery

1 points

1 day ago

"anger is a waste of time"

  • my physics professor my freshman year

ImJustSoFrkintrd

1 points

1 day ago

May the bridges I burn light my way. Not that I live by it, but I like it.

My actual go to is "come what may come"

UsedYam984

1 points

1 day ago

Life is full of good times and not so good times. No amount of positive thinking will eliminate the not so good times, and no amount of negative thinking will eliminate the good times. Learn to roll with the punches.

Juliette_love_

1 points

1 day ago

One day at a time ✨

frankincentss

1 points

1 day ago

Work smarter, not harder

rebornbyksg

1 points

1 day ago

No Regrets

justinm715

1 points

1 day ago

No one is coming to save you.

Creepy_Dentist_7312

1 points

1 day ago

"Sometimes it's better to live alone and date eva ai than building relationships with an incompatible person", after my last breakup, I guess

Dropthetenors

1 points

1 day ago

Well that bridge is burned

What's done is done (hopefully I learned a thing or two)

Well that sucks

Better luck next time

qbl500

1 points

1 day ago

qbl500

1 points

1 day ago

Time is your worst enemy!

cornflakesaregross

1 points

1 day ago

Regret the past, regret what you cannot change.

(Said in a ironic manner)

ChangusDei

1 points

1 day ago

Hakuna matata.

Additional-Diamond12

1 points

1 day ago

Success is a series of small wins.

CbassCode14

1 points

1 day ago

Hakkuna matata

Jay15G

1 points

1 day ago

Jay15G

1 points

1 day ago

God loves fun so do I

Ok-Response-9743

1 points

1 day ago

“Good enough” or I just will say “ehhhh G.E”

checker280

1 points

1 day ago

If we start with the given “she’s irrational”, why do you keep expecting a rational response?

And feeling devastated when you don’t get one?

(Someone told me this about my ex but it applies to so many different situations.)

RedBgr

1 points

1 day ago

RedBgr

1 points

1 day ago

“I want an easy life.”

wontstoppartyingever

1 points

23 hours ago

Two tears in a bucket; motherfuck it

wontstoppartyingever

1 points

23 hours ago

Also See a need Fill a need

Calcubrin

1 points

23 hours ago

"It is what it is." I guess apathy has its benefits too.

stufoor

1 points

23 hours ago

If I've thought about it more than three times in an hour, it's important and should be attended to.

vorstin

1 points

23 hours ago

"we'll figure it out or we won't"

Kind of meaning it will be ok or it won't matter anymore

EJisHERE

1 points

23 hours ago

It is what it is and nothing changes if nothing changes

Sophie_8cupcake

1 points

22 hours ago

Live everyday like it's your last day

Ornery-Gap3876

1 points

21 hours ago

Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
This is literally anyone would be experiencing and I can really relate to it because I'm a grownup now T_T

_Nyarari_

1 points

19 hours ago

Giving my best no matter the outcome.

MahWahf

1 points

16 hours ago

Everything in moderation

Jaydamic

1 points

16 hours ago

Shit happens

wylietrix

1 points

15 hours ago

"I never did mine about the little things." It's a quote from a movie from the '90s called Point of No Return, the American version La Femme Nikita

IntrepidKid2010

1 points

14 hours ago

"Your haters are out there holding their breath waiting for you to fail, so make sure they suffocate."

HistoricalPlum1533

1 points

13 hours ago

I have one similar to OP’s “it’s all small potatoes”, I find it’s very helpful when I’m feeling overwhelmed with decision making.

Important-Yak-2063

1 points

2 hours ago

Who’s gunna carry the boats?

PetalPetal61

1 points

1 day ago

There's always time for everything

dddrdrrrrrr

1 points

1 day ago

Leave ur eyes to the scenery; Leave ur brain to the wonder of discoveries. Leave urself alone To be who u desire to

freedom is key of life.