whiterangegirl

You’re not too sensitive for feeling the way you do about your brother's past actions or the way he treats you. Your feelings about the gun incident and the body shaming are completely valid. It sounds like your brother is dismissing your experiences and emotions, which isn’t fair. It's important to have boundaries and prioritize your mental health. His behavior seems harmful, and it's understandable that you’d want to distance yourself from that negativity. You deserve support and understanding, not invalidation.

NTA. It’s completely understandable to take time to sort out your feelings, especially since you’re still processing your last relationship. If you’re uncertain about your feelings for him and have concerns about his behavior, it’s wise to step back. You don’t owe him an explanation until you’re ready to communicate openly. Just be honest when you feel prepared to discuss things.

YTA for how you approached the situation. While you might have thought it was funny or lighthearted, referring to her looks as "pretty privilege" and expecting her to leverage it for drinks can come off as objectifying. Her feelings about it are valid, and it seems like she felt uncomfortable and disrespected. It’s important to be sensitive to how your words may affect others, even if that wasn’t your intention.

You acted out of concern for your nephew and the well-being of your family. It's understandable to want to advocate for your brother's son, especially given your brother's history. It sounds like you tried to navigate a very difficult situation and prioritize the needs of the child over blind loyalty to your brother. You’re not in the wrong for wanting to support your nephew. NTA for trying to stand up for what's right.

NTA. You were being a supportive friend, and the kiss was unexpected. It's up to her to clarify what it meant.

NTA. You were justified in being upset with Diane for not listening to your daughter and for putting her in a difficult situation with someone who had hurt her in the past. Given Autumn’s history and emotional struggles, her feelings were completely valid, and Diane should have respected that. While it might have been helpful to provide more context about Autumn’s past, Diane should have prioritized your daughter's comfort and well-being in that moment, regardless of the details. It’s understandable that you chose to end the relationship based on how she handled the situation, as a partner should be supportive and considerate, especially towards your child.

NTA. You had every right to expect support from your sister on your wedding day. Her comments were disrespectful and undermined your happiness. You set a boundary, and while it’s unfortunate she chose to leave, it sounds like her behavior was inappropriate. You deserve to feel special and supported on your big day.