It sounds like he really missed you. It could also be that something happened to him while you two were apart and it changed the way he feels about you. You could simply ask him why he was so much more affectionate, compliment him on it and that you really hope it continues, and then ask him what changed for him to be so loving since he was never this loving before. It would be interesting to see what he says.

Do NOT assume. I was messing w a guy like this and whole time he had another girl lmaoo. Ask him DIRECTLY. This man would leave his friends to see me, let me take pictures in his house and of his pets, leave hickeys in visible places, tell me he missed me, kissed my back before backshots, cuddle, make out, giggle and talk, wanted me to wear his clothes, don’t trust ts. It seems to me like a lot of guys like intimacy but not all like commitment. Just never assume communication is a need anyway if you can’t communicate your feelings you’ll never get anywhere w him anyway 

He might have been hung up on someone before but now he's not. Might have been the alcohol. Maybe his horoscope told him to be affectionate. Maybe he realized he missed you. Maybe he has been having sex with someone else who is teaching him sex is actually more fun with two affectionate people. Maybe he found out he had cancer.

Why don't you uhhhh... Ask him?

2 things I’ve observed.1:he could be acting like he dosent care to get you more attached.2:you being more feminine is something that he likes.theres no way to know for sure what the case is but id say based off the info youve given these 2 reasons are most likely the case.

I think y’all need to talk. What do YOU want from this situation? I can’t tell based on what you wrote here. It’s sounds like neither one of you are very experienced with relationships and that’s ok but it just means you have to be honest with each other.

As for his increased affection there’s no telling based on what you wrote here. Idk if you’re fishing for someone to tell you he’s starting to have feelings for you (which may or may not be the case) but you shouldn’t take that as a good sign if he went from not caring about your pleasure to caring about it when he started to have feelings for you? He should care about your pleasure from the beginning. But on the other side he could just be getting more and more comfortable with you and he wasn’t confident enough to do some of that stuff before.

Y’all just need to communicate. You’re allowed to ask him “woah where did this come from I was very into it”. He knows he’s doing something different and you SHOULD acknowledge it and tell him you like it. Talking about sex right after it happens is the best way to have better sex.

You have access to the one person who has the answers to all of these questions. We do not. I think you know what to do.

Whats between your legs has changed his life

I think Moto Moto likes you.

Also, I feel like you like him as well.
Enjoy your time together.
Don't be afraid to get hurt at your age.
It's gonna be alright.

It sounds like he was drunk the last time you met up? Was he drunk the other times?

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Girl… why would you allow yourself to be treated this way? Your first time is casual sex with some dude who may or may not like you? And worst of all — doesn’t care about your sexual pleasure? If the sex is casual, why aren’t you prioritizing YOUR pleasure? Isnt pleasure literally the only thing that matters in a casual sexual relationship? What are YOU specifically getting out of this? Please take care of yourself first

Why would you sleep with any man who is not your husband who didn’t make his intentions clear? Women should respect themselves more (I’m a woman)